{"id":833,"date":"2024-05-09T09:08:19","date_gmt":"2024-05-09T14:08:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/youmightberight\/?p=833"},"modified":"2024-05-09T09:08:19","modified_gmt":"2024-05-09T14:08:19","slug":"the-journey-is-the-destination","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/youmightberight\/2024\/05\/the-journey-is-the-destination\/","title":{"rendered":"The Journey is the Destination"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<\/head>

The journey is the destination. Zen is more of a philosophy than a religion. It is more experiential than intellectual.<\/div>\n

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Zen<\/a> is not creedal or speculative or theistic. Ask a Zen teacher, \u201cIs there a God? What is the meaning of life? Where do we go when you die?\u201d He or she might respond, \u201cWho knows? Do you realize your connection to everyone and everything? Are you here now?\u201d<\/div>\n

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Dogen Zenji<\/a>, founder of the Soto school of Zen, stressed the unity of cultivation and confirmation. That is, practice is realization. The journey is the destination.<\/div>\n

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This\u00a0is the afterword to my book, The Way. <\/em>Although the book is not a Zen book, Zen has had a powerful influence on my life, my practice, and my worldview.<\/div>\n

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The Journey is the Destination<\/h2>\n \n \ One day, my wife and I watched old home movies with our son and daughter and son-in-law. The camera panned around a house that we no longer own, in a neighborhood where we no longer live, filled with possessions that we no longer have, and rested on some beloved relatives and some cherished pets who are no longer with us.<\/p>\n \ The camera found my pretty wife of seven years and my sweet children, ages five and two. Soon, it found me, a 29-year-old man at the beginning of a 25-year career in investment banking. So, that\u2019s how I looked before I gained 50 pounds and lost a million dollars<\/em>, I thought.<\/p>\n \ Then, I missed my in-laws and my dog and my house and my neighborhood and my stuff, and I missed my pretty wife and my sweet children, and I missed my strong, young self.<\/p>\n \ \u201cI am as old now as you were then,\u201d my daughter said wistfully.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n \ \u00a0<\/p>\n Zen stresses the unity of cultivation and confirmation. That is, practice is enlightenment. The journey is the destination. Image from pixabay\/geralt<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n* ** *\u00a0<\/p>\n The Circle of Life<\/h3>\n \n*** ** I leaned into the TV, intently staring at my 29-year-old self, as he leaned into the camera, intently staring at me, or so it seemed.<\/p>\n ** Suddenly, I felt the piercing gaze of my 29-year-old self, as he scanned my surroundings. He saw my house and my neighborhood and my stuff, and he saw my wife of 32 years and my children, now aged 29 and 26. He saw my son-in-law, soon to be a father himself.<\/p>\n ** Somehow, he knew that my life had worked out well. He knew that I had lost the 50 pounds and recovered the million dollars, just as he knew that we were retired, that we were healthy, and that our children were established.<\/p>\n ** He knew that I spent my time driving veterans to the VA clinic and helping people with their taxes and playing with sick children\u00a0at a children\u2019s hospital and teaching writing at a library and volunteering for the Red Cross. A good life<\/em>, he thought. No, a great life.<\/em><\/p>\n ** Then he wanted my life and my pretty wife and my successful children and my old, steady self\u2014and I knew that he would, since he was always in a hurry to find the future.<\/p>\n ** \u201cHug your in-laws, kiss your wife, love your kids, play with your dog,\u201d I said to my young self. \u201cYou are in a hurry. Savor the moment. Take your time. The journey is the destination.\u201d<\/p>\n ** He nodded silently, as the camera panned away slowly.<\/p>\n ** ***\u00a0<\/p>\n If you want to stay up to date on the latest from You Might Be Right, simply\u00a0subscribe<\/a>\u00a0with your email.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" The journey is the destination. Zen is more of a philosophy than a religion. It is more experiential than intellectual. Zen is not creedal or speculative or theistic. Ask a Zen teacher, \u201cIs there a God? What is the meaning of life? 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