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April 2019

April 03, 2019

4 Dangers of the Honeymoon Phase

We live in a world full of options. We have more choices than we can...

April 01, 2019

April Fool’s Might Be Good For You

It's a strange and perverse sort of joy we get from April Fools Day. It...

March 2019

March 29, 2019

Choose Your Narrative Carefully

There are all sorts of narratives out there. Stories we tell ourselves. Stories our family...

March 27, 2019

Help! I’m Feeling Things!

Our emotions are complicated creatures. They can creep up on us, bursting out at seemingly...

March 25, 2019

The Irony of Service

I’m not one of those Christians that loves service projects. I was never longing to...

March 22, 2019

The Stories We Chose to Tell

For a couple years, we have been working with Servant Leadership talking about the cross-section of character...

March 20, 2019

Why You Will Never Be Satisfied

Everyone human is longing for some version of what might be called “satisfaction”. We might...

March 15, 2019

Maybe It’s Not About Sex

When it comes to relationships, we talk about sex a lot. A lot. When I...

March 08, 2019

How to Escape The Victim Circle

The Two Circles are about the blurred lines between freedom and control. In our attempts to...

March 04, 2019

The Greatest Obstacle to Utilizing Influence

We all want to live a life of purpose. We want to empower our institutions...

March 01, 2019

Consequences Are a Moving Target

Beginning in early childhood and lasting our entire lives, learning the consequences for our behavior...

February 2019

February 27, 2019

You Have Been Doing Conflict Resolution Wrong

There is one reason, and only one reason, that we engage in conflict. We have...

February 25, 2019

The Rule of Three Beckons You

Have you ever noticed that when writing or reading something, there is often a list...

February 22, 2019

An Obsession With Shortcuts Is Destroying Us

I’ve wanted to be a writer my entire life. One of my favorite things to...

February 20, 2019

How to Foster Trust in A Relationship

Relationships are built on trust. An abundance of it leads to thriving. An absence of...

February 18, 2019

Attitude is a Control Issue

Attitude is like an accessory we put on and wear every day. It jangles and...

February 15, 2019

The Flow Of Influence And The Power Of Perspective

One thing that fundamentally shapes how we think, feel, and believe is our perspective on...

February 13, 2019

Why Are We Becoming More Dependent On Our Institutions?

I’ve noticed an interesting phenomena in today’s world. It seems like we are becoming increasingly...

February 11, 2019

Can We Ever Truly Be Satisfied?

In two years of working with individuals and organizations, we have seen that there is...

February 08, 2019

Why We Don’t Trust Our Values

By definition, our values are the things that are most important to us. Yet, for...

February 06, 2019

How to Develop a Vision for Your Family

Family is one of, if not the, most important arenas of life. Our families are little...

February 04, 2019

7 Signs of Healthy Conflict

It may seem obvious to view conflict as a negative entity. We don’t like the...

February 01, 2019

Feedback is Essential for Effective Communication

It is a bizarre human phenomena. One of us can say something and another hear...

January 2019

January 30, 2019

Why Are We Addicted to Drama?

My brother once dated a girl and the two of them constantly got on my...

January 28, 2019

How Your 2019 Patterns Will Define Your Year

There is a fascinating verse in the Bible that says this: “Anyone who falls on...

January 25, 2019

The Value of Admitting Fault

One of the hardest things for us to do is admit when we are wrong....

January 04, 2019

Ten Most Viewed Blogs of 2018

As 2019 is getting underway, we thought it would be fun to post a list...

December 2018

December 26, 2018

5 Things That Impair Our Vision

One of the best parts of being a New Yorker is walking around the city....

December 07, 2018

What Your Attitude Says About You

One of the reasons clothes are so important in our society is because it communicates...

December 05, 2018

Making The Most Of Our Circumstances

Everyday, without fail, things happen. Life is a long list of events. Circumstances are the...