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December 2021

December 09, 2021

Discerning Friends and Enemies

It is not as easy as it seems to discern between friend and foe. In...

October 2021

October 21, 2021

Thoughts on Grieving

After five years of trying to conceive, we just found out our first attempt at...

August 2021

August 12, 2021

What We’re Not Saying

It is a hard truth to wrap our heads around: that somewhere between 70 and...

July 2021

July 20, 2021

The Crowd Crossing the Line

There is a rise in bad behavior. Indecent behavior at the NBA playoffs. People acting...

July 08, 2021

The Foolishness of Dating Revenge

I grew up a country music fan, so I get the appeal of breakup revenge....

June 2021

June 29, 2021

Hypocrisy and Blind Spots

There is a lot of partisan squabbling and finger pointing going on in the world...

March 2021

March 30, 2021

What Is Grace and Why Our World Needs More of It

I have seen more and more the misuse of the concept of grace. We too...

February 2021

February 04, 2021

The Danger of Divergent Visions in the Stories We Tell

Kylie and I are currently watching a show, which shall remain nameless, and it has...

December 2020

December 29, 2020

The Power and Place of Forgiveness

There is a subtle rhythm to the way we live. A pattern of ups and...

December 17, 2020

What is an Enemy?

We toss the word around. We know it when we see it. But what exactly...

August 2020

August 27, 2020

Engaging in Conflict When You Don’t Feel Like It

Conflict is never particularly fun (at least not for most people). But it is inevitable....

July 2020

July 21, 2020

How To Build A Foundation For Communication

I was watching a nature documentary the other day and saw a clip of a...

June 2020

June 18, 2020

The Lost Art of Celebrating Dads

I know I may not be in the majority when I say that I think...

June 11, 2020

All The Things We Do Not Say

I am a high introvert, an internal processor, and a habitual emotion-stuffer. The number of...

June 09, 2020

Relationships are Forged in Fire

So, I am a pretty big fan of the show Survivor. And this year, they...

May 2020

May 07, 2020

The Unique Beauty of Motherhood

My brother got married before I did. A couple years into his marriage, he told...

April 2020

April 07, 2020

What Are Your Relationship Altars?

Holy Week begins with the celebration of Palm Sunday, representative of Jesus’ “Triumphal Entry” into...

March 2020

March 24, 2020

5 Ways Being Single Matters for Your Marriage

First, let me say right off the bat that being single is important in its...

March 05, 2020

How Work Affects Your Relationships at Home (and Vice Versa)

Every man or woman who both works and has a family struggles to find a...

February 2020

February 20, 2020

Alone in a Crowd

The Winter Season is a unique time in New York City. The streets are cold...

February 06, 2020

The Value of Suffering Together

During our struggles with infertility, we have discovered the value of suffering together. As our story...

December 2019

December 13, 2019

Is It Okay to Have Secrets in A Relationship?

Is it okay to have secrets in a relationship? Do you have to tell each...

November 2019

November 08, 2019

Top 3 Reasons You Fight With Your Spouse

We love them. We have committed to them. We share life with them every day....

October 2019

October 25, 2019

The Value of Practice

Kylie and I were playing on a softball team last summer. The season was interrupted by the...

October 14, 2019

Miracle of Communication

The reality of communication is really a miracle, when you think about it. For reasons...

October 11, 2019

Man’s Best Friend

I saw yet another ad today about dogs being “man’s best friend”. We’ve been talking...

September 2019

September 30, 2019

How to Heal Together Rather Than Break Apart

There is nothing more challenging than the onslaught of pain. Healing is a difficult and...

September 04, 2019

How to Set Relationship Goals

We were very lucky early in our marriage to be introduced to the value of goal...

August 2019

August 26, 2019

Communicating Value

We have a pair of friends who have been together for a long time. They...

August 16, 2019

What It Takes To Truly See Someone

We live in New York and walk by thousands of people every day. A group...