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October 2021

October 19, 2021

Laying Tracks for Meaning and Success

When I was in high school, I went to see a chiropractor. I was captain...

October 12, 2021

When Enough is Enough

If you are anything like me, there is a great tyranny that threatens your ability...

September 2021

September 16, 2021

How Oliver Got His Name

All of us are striving to be people of power. What we really want with...

September 02, 2021

The Purposes of Celebrating Work

When I was a kid, I had no idea what Labor Day was about. It...

December 2020

December 24, 2020

Pa Rum Pum Pum Pum

Little Drummer Boy is one of the most recognizable Christmas songs in modern culture. It...

June 2020

June 18, 2020

The Lost Art of Celebrating Dads

I know I may not be in the majority when I say that I think...

April 2020

April 28, 2020

What If You Didn’t Have To Be Perfect?

I was working through a Biblical commentary on Genesis this week for a work project...

March 2020

March 24, 2020

5 Ways Being Single Matters for Your Marriage

First, let me say right off the bat that being single is important in its...

March 10, 2020

Perseverance is a Shape-Shifter

When it comes to perseverance, my mindset is usually centered on how I can outrun...

February 2020

February 18, 2020

The Role of the President

With Presidents’ Day coming to a close and the election cycle reaching its climax this...

December 2019

December 23, 2019

Pa Rum Pum Pum Pum

Little Drummer Boy is one of the most recognizable Christmas songs in modern culture. It...

November 2019

November 11, 2019

Reflections on Veterans Day

The Bible says there is no greater love than this: that a man lays down...

September 2019

September 27, 2019

The Humility Trap

I’ve heard my whole life that I need to be humble. I’ve read all of...

September 20, 2019

4 Ways to Establish and Maintain Confidence

Confidence is an elusive character trait. We either lack it altogether or we play at...

July 2019

July 24, 2019

How To Measure A Win

We love competition. There is something so human about measuring a win. Life, we perceive,...

May 2019

May 08, 2019

The Struggle For Consistency

I had a friend once say to me, “I just want to be a consistent...

March 2019

March 20, 2019

Why You Will Never Be Satisfied

Everyone human is longing for some version of what might be called “satisfaction”. We might...

December 2018

December 07, 2018

What Your Attitude Says About You

One of the reasons clothes are so important in our society is because it communicates...

October 2018

October 10, 2018

Humility And Pride: What We Get Wrong and How To Do It Right

From early childhood, we start receiving mixed messages about both humility and pride. We are...

September 2018

September 17, 2018

Rejection is a Refining Fire

Deeply seeded in each of us is a fear of rejection. We wear it on...

September 12, 2018

How to Live a Life of Consistency

One of the things we long for is consistency of character. We want to be...

August 2018

August 24, 2018

What The Mirror Says About Me

Every day we look at our reflection in the mirror. We also steal glances into...

August 06, 2018

The Pursuit of Ownership: What Really Belongs to Me?

From the time we are very young, we start wrestling with the idea of ownership....

July 2018

July 11, 2018

Why Is It So Important For Me To Get A Great Photo?

While watching a World Cup game recently, I was struck by how often the people in the...

July 09, 2018

The Dangerous Habit of Self-Talk

We all do it. Nobody really admits to it, except maybe in passing as a...

June 2018

June 25, 2018

What Makes a Man?

As Fathers’ Day came and went, I found myself pondering what it really means to...

June 20, 2018

Beyond FOMO: 3 Fear-Based Acronyms Plaguing Your Life

The fear of missing out (FOMO) has become a cultural phenomenon. We sheepishly confess to...

May 2018

May 04, 2018

Why Are We Addicted To Our Emotions?

I’m wrestling with the annoyingly constant fact that if I do not feel ok, I...

March 2018

March 19, 2018

Why Are You Trading One Set of Problems For Another?

Every one of us has at least one problem at the forefront of our minds....

March 14, 2018

A Transcendent Life

Our post-modern world is becoming more and more compartmentalized. Everything is so fast. Things change...