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January 2022

January 13, 2022

Avoiding Choices

I have seen a few social media posts recently that say, “No resolutions for me...

December 2021

December 30, 2021

A Rare Case for Gratitude for 2021

You certainly are not going to read this in a lot of places, but I...

December 28, 2021

Hope, Confidence, Chaos

I think if it were possible to become some sort of entity external to myself...

December 02, 2021

Outsourcing Turmoil

In a world where we value control so much it is an assumed obsession, why...

November 2021

November 23, 2021

Why Giving Up is Such a Popular Option

We like to give up. We don’t like to admit it, but the truth is...

November 18, 2021

How Vision Affects Movement

There is an intimate and often overlooked relationship between our eyes and our feet. We...

November 16, 2021

Good Guys and Bad Guys

There are a lot of ways a good guy, bad guy narrative can be beneficial....

November 09, 2021

My Top Three (Unhealthy) Coping Strategies to Avoid Making A Decision

There are lots of decisions to be made every day. Lots. It is overwhelming if...

October 2021

October 12, 2021

When Enough is Enough

If you are anything like me, there is a great tyranny that threatens your ability...

October 05, 2021

Alignment and Consistency within the Confusion and Chaos

So much of my time is spent trying to figure out what to do. What...

September 2021

September 14, 2021

The Character Piece

We are a competitive people. We like to win. The feeling of victory is unlike...

July 2021

July 22, 2021

Coping Mechanisms

In the course of the human journey, there is one significant fork in the road....

July 15, 2021

The Mysterious Connection Between Risk and Truth

Discovering, let alone accepting, truth is a difficult task. More difficult than we acknowledge. It...

June 2021

June 22, 2021

The Consequences of Getting Away With It

When we are faced with negative consequences, one of our natural tendencies is to ask...

June 08, 2021

Analyzing My Ability to Analyze

Just about every choice we make is a cost/benefit analysis. Our brains look at the...

June 03, 2021

Zooming Away

We are currently on vacation. Life in New York City can be as full of...

May 2021

May 18, 2021

Whose Decision Is It?

One of the things that can quickly derail our ability to make decisions is the...

February 2021

February 18, 2021

How to Become the Chooser

There is a great tension in every human soul between what happens to us and...

January 2021

January 12, 2021

The Motivation of An Imagined Future

I don’t really like time travel movies. It feels like they don’t really work through...

December 2020

December 29, 2020

The Power and Place of Forgiveness

There is a subtle rhythm to the way we live. A pattern of ups and...

December 10, 2020

The Breakdown Between What We Profess to Value and What We Actually Do

Conventional wisdom goes something like this: if your actions don’t match what you profess to...

December 01, 2020

Why We Focus on the Spec in Their Eyes

Here is an uncomfortable idea: we are most bothered by our own sins revealed in...

November 2020

November 03, 2020

The Process and Impact of Our Choices

Election day is one of the few days in American society where we truly feel...

October 2020

October 29, 2020

After The Fear Is Gone

We’d all love fear to be as playful as it is on Halloween. Of course,...

October 20, 2020

After The Crossroads

A decision has been made. You reached a crossroad and selected a choice. You have...

September 2020

September 22, 2020

Perspective is Something You Choose

It is hard to tell what is true in this crazy world. We see biased...

September 01, 2020

Creating Crisis

Why do we wait until the last minute to do things? Why do we travel...

August 2020

August 25, 2020

Reconciling Two Concepts of Time

My wife and I have spent a lot of time in a lot of foreign...

August 21, 2020

Take Your Rest With You

Life is such a difficult adventure. It is fun. It is infuriating. It is hard...

August 04, 2020

Every Day Crossroads

I grew up in a small West Texas town. Beginning in junior high, I was...