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November 2019

November 08, 2019

Top 3 Reasons You Fight With Your Spouse

We love them. We have committed to them. We share life with them every day....

November 06, 2019

You’re Already Persevering, Just Poorly

We give up too easily. It is well documented that our instant-gratification, technology-driven society does...

November 04, 2019

How Do We Say What Matters?

Every man, woman, and child has a secret place within them where they store their...

November 01, 2019

What Will You Do With An Extra Hour?

We have a woman in our community group who is fond of lamenting, “We made...

October 2019

October 30, 2019

Halloween and The 2 Kinds of Fear

We never celebrated Halloween when I was growing up. My parents just felt weird about...

October 28, 2019

Keeping Count

One easy way to get a sense of what we value is to take notice...

October 25, 2019

The Value of Practice

Kylie and I were playing on a softball team last summer. The season was interrupted by the...

October 23, 2019

Pick Your Metaphor

Kylie and I have some friends who are really into sports, like me. And it...

October 21, 2019

How to Choose A Relationship

Relationships are hard work. It is fun to think about all of the butterflies of...

October 18, 2019

A Pandemic of Interruptions

There are two kinds of interruptions. And like everything in life and relationships, the key...

October 16, 2019

Life’s Not Fair…Thank God!

Every child at some point makes the claim that life is not fair. And if...

October 14, 2019

Miracle of Communication

The reality of communication is really a miracle, when you think about it. For reasons...

October 11, 2019

Man’s Best Friend

I saw yet another ad today about dogs being “man’s best friend”. We’ve been talking...

October 09, 2019

Naming the Villains

We are in a hurry to name villains. We want to call out bad behavior...

October 07, 2019

Our Fake World

Almost everything about our world is fake. We are careful to make it so. The...

October 04, 2019

We Can Fix This

We humans have worked ourselves into a very specific narrative. When things are happening to...

October 02, 2019

Who Are You Willing To Follow?

We are all trying to lead. We want to be the boss. The one in...

September 2019

September 30, 2019

How to Heal Together Rather Than Break Apart

There is nothing more challenging than the onslaught of pain. Healing is a difficult and...

September 27, 2019

The Humility Trap

I’ve heard my whole life that I need to be humble. I’ve read all of...

September 25, 2019

Do You Need Rest or A Kick in The Pants?!

Have you ever spent a day just doing “nothing”. You know, the days where you...

September 23, 2019

When is Conflict Okay?

We spend most of our lives avoiding pain. Anything we can do to sidestep suffering,...

September 20, 2019

4 Ways to Establish and Maintain Confidence

Confidence is an elusive character trait. We either lack it altogether or we play at...

September 18, 2019

The Shape of the Past

Our pasts are as complicated as our present. Maybe even more. What we have been...

September 16, 2019

The Evolution of Romance: Spark to Commitment

There are two kinds of things we are talking about when we use the word...

September 13, 2019

How to Make Sense of Our Distractions

There are few things humans do quite as well as distraction. We set out to...

September 11, 2019

How You Can Overcome Tragedy

There are only two options when a tragedy strikes; it can strengthen relationships or destroy...

September 09, 2019

How to Make the Most Out of Traveling Together

There is nothing quite like traveling together. For most couples, it gives a focused time...

September 06, 2019

What if My Vision is Wrong?

There are all kinds of things that slow our progress, halt our growth, and interrupt...

September 04, 2019

How to Set Relationship Goals

We were very lucky early in our marriage to be introduced to the value of goal...

September 02, 2019

The Danger of Vulnerability

There are few things we want more than vulnerability. We want to be consistent and true to...