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Three Reasons Why It’s Important to Raise Kids to be Activists

Three Reasons Why It’s Important to Raise Kids to be Activists

Last updated on: February 3, 2017 at 12:55 pm by Cindy Brandt

Three Reasons Why It’s Important to Raise Kids to be Activists 2017-02-03T12:55:53+08:00 Cindy Brandt

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‘Woke Baby’ easily takes home the award for one of the best signs at the Women’s March, holding up a sign filled with crayon squiggles while perched on her father’s shoulders. The image went viral as thousands found it delightful a baby as young as 22 months old could exercise her “unique” voice. But for those who are opposed to the cause, I imagine it’d be uncomfortable to see a child participating in the march, which brings up the question: should children be involved in the work of activism such as public protesting? Besides the logistical concerns of safety and meeting the physical needs of young children, is there a moral imperative to cultivating activism in children?

I believe there is, and here are three reasons why:

1. Wired for Struggle. Some objections parents may have of keeping children from protests would be the desire to shelter children from the complexities of systemic issues.

They are too young to understand!

We don’t need to frighten them with realities, instead, preserve their innocence and expose them later on.

The problems are too big, why discourage them by making them feel helpless?

But our children are not too young to know there is suffering in the world. Most babies make their grand entrance into our world with wails and tears. Toddlers throw tantrums and preschoolers stomp and shout. They are expressing in the ways they know how that the world pushes against their human limitations, and I think it is important that we validate their suffering and assure them they are wired for struggle. This is how we help create resilience in our children if we do not suppress or delay introducing suffering into their worldview. They can learn to engage with injustices from early on and begin collecting tools for how to respond most effectively to the suffering in their own lives and in the lives of those interconnected with them. Taking them out to protests or engaging in other forms of activism is sending a clear message to them that all is not right with the world. They already know it, let’s validate it.

2. The Power of Language. Just as we teach pre-verbal babies sign language to alleviate their frustrations in not being able to communicate their needs, so introducing language to express the realities of social issues can be tremendously empowering for our children. For example, the women’s march was many things, but part of it was protesting the crass attitude Trump has displayed towards women. Helping our daughters push back and reject that this is not okay will help them in other everyday situations when they encounter demeaning rhetoric against women and girls. This will help them process their own feelings when they experience dehumanization and objectification by misogyny. Without the power of language to pin point these injustices done to us, what often happens is we internalize those oppressions. Instead of pushing back, we even begin to spout the same dehumanizing rhetoric to harm others.

3. Collective and historical resistance. According to Kenneth Braswell, author of Daddy, There’s a Noise Outside, children have historically been a part of protests. Belonging to a community historically, locally, and globally is a powerful shaping force to bring a sense of purpose and belonging for the children. As I have written before, protest can be a great way for children to embark upon their heroic mission. Awareness of their own community and experiences is important but even more so, empowering them to create change and affect culture will be vital not just for their own well-being, but is also an investment for us to raise them into culture makers of the future.

Woke Baby is off to a great start in life. I am sure she is well cared for by loving parents, but as a little girl of color, she has parents who are invested in exposing her to the kinds of systemic injustice stacked against her in a society that struggles with misogyny and white supremacy. She will learn the language with which to process the marginalization of her humanity. She will know she is wired for that struggle, but empowered with a voice with which to demand the right to equal participation in civil society. At 22 months old, she’s already a mover and shaker and I hope she continues to challenge our world into more justice.

Join us at our Facebook Group Raising Children Unfundamentalist. Special shoutout to my amazing RCU family, who is out on the streets with their kiddos. All the images below are provided by them from the FB group:

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Image provided by parent: Levi Pike Boldt

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Image provided by parent: Thalia Kehoe Rowden

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Image provided by parent: Sarah Boling

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Image provided by parent: Carissa Wyland

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Image provided by parent: Alyssa Brooks-Dowty

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Image provided by parent: Kimberly Geswein

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