Patheos

BuddhistCatholicContemplativeEvangelicalGeneral ChristianHinduJewishLatter-day SaintMuslimNew VisionsProgressive Christian

Beliefs

Topics

Columnists

Resource Library

Research Tools

Video

Podcasts

Thought Readers

Faith In Media Tracker

Newsletters

Ad-Free & Subscriber Log-In Subscription Support

Patheos

Ad-Free & Subscriber Log-In Subscription Support

Follow Patheos Patheos on Facebook Patheos on YouTube

Thin Places-Faith, Family and Disability

Snow Days and Preparing Him Room

Last updated on: December 19, 2013 at 4:17 pm   by Amy Julia Becker

Snow Days and Preparing Him Room 2013-12-19T16:17:52-05:00 Amy Julia Becker

LOGO Patheos Explore the world's faith through different perspectives on religion and spirituality! Patheos has the views of the prevalent religions and spiritualities of the world.

It’s one of my favorite lines from a Christmas hymn, Joy to the World: Let every heart prepare him room.

But my heart is crowded with the regular preparations for Christmas–writing a letter and sending out cards, decorating the tree and making cookies, buying presents, wrapping presents, buying more presents… There are parties and holiday concerts and gingerbread houses and Advent calendars and candy canes and peppermint drops and “Can I hab anodah piece a candy?” from Marilee, at 6:30 a.m.

And my heart is crowded with discontent. We have had two snow days and two delayed openings and a weekend snowstorm over the course of the past ten days. We have also had two kids who stayed home from school sick, on different days.

So this morning, with William making a design out of wooden blocks on the floor and Marilee eating gingerbread beside me (yes, at 6:20, before the candy question), I pulled out my journal and Bible and Advent devotional book. It is perhaps the fourth time I have done so this season. And I wrote, “All of the preparations for Christmas are making it very difficult for me to prepare room for Jesus.”

And I prayed that God would help me. Help my grumpy spirit. Help me trust that even though the presents aren’t all wrapped and even though I haven’t written the blog posts I had planned and even though I don’t have all the addresses for the Christmas cards and even though I have eaten and drunk more than I intended this past two weeks and even though I have only vaguely paid attention to Advent–help me to trust that you are present. That you are God-with-us. Emmanuel.

It was a very short time. The kids were ready for pancakes and the house needed cleaning for a party here tonight and I needed a shower. A simple prayer.

And then, an hour later, I checked my email.

First, this:

As I was worshipping and praying at home this morning the Lord put you on my heart.  Abundant peace, grace and blessing are bestowed on you and your household.  I give God thanksgiving for bringing you and your family here . . . May you walk in peace and His joy today.  God’s love surrounds you and follows you wherever you go and His light shines like a beacon from you and from your household.

Um, thanks.

And then, this, from a friend who is having a cookie party today but who heard me speak at a church a few weeks back:

As I am attempting to prepare for the festivities today — in the midst of snow storms and kids at home — and the house is a mess — and the decorations are half done — your wise and wonderful words keep ringing in my head. “Wouldn’t you love to have a friend who opens her doors amidst the chaos and says “Come on in and let’s play.” Can’t wait to see you.

She also ended her email with a P.S.: “The cookies are pre-baked and the champagne is cold. So there’s that. :)”

Perhaps I have a little room in my heart for Jesus after all. In the midst of cookies (and champagne!) and snow days and grumpiness, there is grace. And hope. And peace. And joy.

Faith

family

Previous Post



December 16, 2013

Who Can You Not See?

Next Post



December 20, 2013 What I'm Reading and Tweeting (and How to Find a Good and Perfect Gift)


Browse Our Archives

Select a Category Articles Books Disability Down Syndrome Faith family Perfectly Human Uncategorized

Select a Month February 2014 January 2014 December 2013 November 2013 October 2013 September 2013 August 2013 July 2013 June 2013 May 2013 April 2013 March 2013 February 2013 January 2013 December 2012 November 2012 October 2012 September 2012 August 2012 July 2012 June 2012 May 2012 April 2012 March 2012 February 2012 January 2012 December 2011 November 2011 October 2011 September 2011 August 2011 July 2011 June 2011 May 2011 April 2011 March 2011 September 2010 July 2010 June 2010 May 2010 April 2010 March 2010 February 2010 January 2010 December 2009 November 2009 October 2009 September 2009 August 2009 July 2009 June 2009 May 2009 April 2009 March 2009 February 2009 January 2009 December 2008 November 2008 October 2008 September 2008 August 2008 July 2008 June 2008




TAKE THE

Religious Wisdom Quiz

Which principle is taught in "turn the other cheek"?

Select your answer to see how you score.

Argue your case Do not retaliate Fight back Mock your enemy

Related posts from Thin Places-Faith, Family and Disability

Family

Thank you Patheos! (And Continuing the Conversation at...

Thin Places-Faith, Family and Disability

Family

My Questions About the Ethics of Embryo Selection

Thin Places-Faith, Family and Disability

Family

I Don't Love Valentine's Day, and That's Okay

Thin Places-Faith, Family and Disability

Family

7 Thoughts on How to Survive Another Snow...

Thin Places-Faith, Family and Disability

TRENDING AT PATHEOS Family, Parenting and Religion

Luther on Tools

In "Irreplaceable," our book on vocation and technology, Trevor Sutton and I...

The British Museum-- Part Two

I was strolling through the top floor of the brand new Parthenon...

What Does Gêvâh Mean For Kimberley Guifoyle &...

This week, a lot of the news is focused on Kimberly Guilfoyle....

INNER CIRCLE: Profound Mystery (Of Christ In All...

Ephesians 5:31-32 “For this reason, a man will leave his father and...

Do Not Rejoice When Your Enemy Falls: The...

Turning an execution into a public spectacle is a disturbing expression of...

'The Chosen' S6 Trailer: The Passion Gets Very...

Not many watching 'The Chosen' worry about spoilers, but just because they...

view all Family, Parenting and Religion blogs

Patheos on Facebook Patheos on YouTube

Ad-Free & Subscriber Log-In Subscription Support

Copyright 2008-2026, Patheos. All rights reserved.

Subscription Support Ad-Free & Subscriber Log-In

Follow Patheos Patheos on Facebook Patheos on YouTube