{"id":1479,"date":"2023-02-28T09:00:08","date_gmt":"2023-02-28T14:00:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/thegardnerianlibrarian\/?p=1479"},"modified":"2023-02-26T14:47:53","modified_gmt":"2023-02-26T19:47:53","slug":"no-rest-for-the-wiccad","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/thegardnerianlibrarian\/2023\/02\/no-rest-for-the-wiccad\/","title":{"rendered":"(No) Rest for the Wicca’d"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<\/head>

What do we usually think of when we think of \u201cwork\u201d? Maybe we think of productivity, a specific place (like an office), or exercise (working out). In all of those cases, we must labor<\/em>, and for some of us, laboring is a struggle. What\u2019s laborious for one person may be a breeze for another, which is why the \u201cWork\u201d I perform in my practice of Wicca may look nothing like anyone else\u2019s. Regardless of what work looks like to you, the point is that it should require some effort from you.<\/p>\n

A few very close friends of mine, who are also Gardnerians, and I often refer to \u201cThe Work\u201d when we talk about Wicca. What we\u2019re referring to is the spiritual, emotional, and physical labor that comes with being religious people in a community (and religious people who lead covens, no less). We don\u2019t call this \u201cwork\u201d to be pejorative but to be precise with our words and respectful of the effort we put into our practices. Practicing Wicca brings contentment, yes, but it requires from us as much as we desire from it.<\/p>\n

The more that we desire from Wicca, the more that we must put into it. For some, the level of commitment required to make Wicca or any other spiritual\/religious practice work just isn\u2019t worth it. Many of us desire easy commitments (or no commitments) to our spiritual practices, leading some of us to give up one commitment for another. Commitment-hopping in spiritual\/religious practices might be a sign of laziness or shallow engagement in some people\u2026OR, it\u2019s a sign that a person is struggling with their spiritual Workload.<\/p>\n

Sometimes You Need to Get Some Strange<\/h3>\n "" Image via Pixabay.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n The first time that I heard the term \u201cstrange\u201d to describe getting some nooky with a stranger was a few years ago. The person that said it had just gotten out of a relationship and wanted to get their ex out of their head. Sometimes we need to take a similar approach with our spiritual\/religious practices. If you feel that your relationship to your current spiritual or religious tradition has taken its course then\u00a0go get some strange<\/em>. Meaning: try out a different tradition or religion all together. Why the hell not?<\/p>\n I try to remind myself that the other person\u2019s spiritual Work shouldn\u2019t be a reflection of my own just because we share(d) a spiritual practice. Their Work may require a different approach \u2014 some strange, if you will. So who are we to say that a person \u201cisn\u2019t doing the Work\u201d if they move on to something else? If a person is reverting to a former practice then it means that some business or some Work has been left undone. We should give them the space and the grace to figure it out for themselves, even if it\u2019s not how we would do it.<\/p>\n There\u2019s Nothing Wrong with Taking a Break<\/h3>\n "" Image via Pixabay.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n All of us need a break from work from time to time, including breaks from our spiritual and religious practices. It is okay if you miss observing esbats or forget to do your weekly\/daily offerings. The point of making something meaningful shouldn\u2019t also be to make it a goddamn chore. If your practice begins to feel like a chore then take a break<\/em> or dial it back<\/em>. Your gods will understand. That group that you lead will respect you more for establishing healthy boundaries than running yourself ragged. Martyrdom isn\u2019t a good look on anyone.<\/p>\n Taking a break from something doesn\u2019t have to permanent. Sometimes we know exactly how long of a break we need and other times we just have to feel it out. Both are valid approaches. If you find yourself struggling to be consistent in your practice or if you\u2019re starting to resent engaging with it then please take a breather. You\u2019ll be in a healthier state of mind when\/if you choose to return.<\/p>\n The saying goes that \u201cthere\u2019s no rest for the wicked\u201d, and I think it\u2019s because it must take a lot of work to maintain wicked ways. But I bet those wicked people are wicked tired, y\u2019all. You know what doesn\u2019t make you wicked, though? Taking a break. Taking care of yourself. Doing what\u2019s right\u00a0for you<\/em>.<\/p>\n Let there be rest for the Wicca\u2019d, the wicked, and wayward.<\/p>\n Follow me on Instagram @thegardnerianlibrarian<\/a>***** \n""<\/h3>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" ** *****What do we usually think of when we think of \u201cwork\u201d? 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