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June 21, 2025

Learn to be Who You Are (Authenticity)

Excerpt from the book Campfires in the Desert: A Deconstruction Travel Guide   Copyright © 2025...

September 2024

September 19, 2024

What His Co-Workers Say

What His Co-Workers Say Probably the only sustainable critique of Kamala Harris is that people...

July 2023

July 07, 2023

Leaning Forward

Laura and I have finished our second book together! Pre-order the Kindle or order the...

May 2023

May 27, 2023

Be Who You Are

Most of my life was about fitting in. I had thick glasses, I was short...

February 2023

February 15, 2023

Trusting Yourself

Because my dad wasn't really present with me growing up, I learned to work hard...

January 2023

January 20, 2023

10 of my Favorite Words

Let me start by saying that not all of these are just words, some of...

June 2022

June 07, 2022

The GOATs of my Day

Larry Bird is my most favorite basketball player ever. He played for the Boston Celtics...

April 2022

April 05, 2022

Some Words That Matter

Photo by MoldyVintage Photo from Pexels I‏ used to think that things had to be...

December 2021

December 29, 2021

Writing from the Inside

Early in life, I knew that I hated grammar and everything related to the Language...

December 25, 2021

Being with the Divine

(an exert from my book, Being: A Journey Toward Presence and Authenticity) In our communities,...

December 19, 2021

Why I Wept for the Victims of Organized Religion

About 3 years ago, I went through a dark night of the soul.  20 years...

December 11, 2021

Becoming What We Are

“The universe wants you to be whole”[1]  Rob Bell “Even at the subatomic level, all...

November 2021

November 04, 2021

Finding What We Are Looking For

I know a lot of songs by their tune, but I can’t really tell you...

September 2021

September 11, 2021

Being and Becoming

In recent years, I have developed a deep kinship with nature and animals.  I love...

July 2021

July 24, 2021

Being Brave

It is probably true that mot of what we teach our children is by the...

July 11, 2021

Being with Jackson

This my grandson, Jackson Bennett Holmes.  I used to call him J.B., but now we...

July 08, 2021

Being with George

  We are currently on vacation in Nevarre, FL.  Our online friends, Jason and Brandi...

July 06, 2021

Being with Adventure

Yesterday officially began our vacation when we flew out of Kansas City to meet some...

June 2021

June 20, 2021

Why Being is Enough

I'm working on my next tattoo.  A lot of people can't believe I have even...

June 13, 2021

Being Where You Are

Right now, I am sitting on our porch in rural Missouri.  It took me a...

June 06, 2021

My Feet Hurt

  In a scene from the movie, Forest Gump, Forest is talking to a young women that...

June 03, 2021

Being with my Wife

For the past few months, I have been working 53-hour work weeks.  I work on...

June 01, 2021

Myth, Stories and Tradition

“I don’t think we have stories. I think we are stories, and we’re stories that...

May 2021

May 31, 2021

Being with my Bypassing

Thousands of years of a tradition and philosophy and religion have coalesced together to give...

May 09, 2021

How Moms Teach Us to Be

My mother is an incredible woman.  She grew up poor with a love for music...

May 05, 2021

Learning to Be

(This is the introduction to my book:  Being: A Journey Toward Presence and Authenticity.  It...

April 2021

April 25, 2021

Compost and Communion

As I progress in my deconstruction and the subsequent journey, it seems that language becomes...

April 17, 2021

My History of Rejection

Recently I commented to a friend that I have a long history of rejection.  For...

April 13, 2021

Being: A Journey Toward Authenticity and Presence

Good News:  We have a cover and we have a release date for the new...

April 11, 2021

The I AM in All of Us

There are about 300 instances, in the Bible, where the writers tried to capture what...

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