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August 2022

August 18, 2022

I Remember When I Discovered

‏ I remember when I discovered that I like girls. Before then, there were some...

August 13, 2022

Book Release: Out into the Desert

Two years ago, Laura and I wrote this book called: Out into the Desert: Thriving...

July 2022

July 28, 2022

The Biggest Problem with Church

“And when you pray, you shall not be like the hypocrites. For they love to...

July 26, 2022

Baptism, Confirmation and other Forms of Manipulation

I started thinking the other day about things like: Baptism of Children Confirmation of Children...

July 14, 2022

Going Within by Kyle Butler

(This is a guest post by my friend, Kyle Butler) About a year or so...

July 13, 2022

What It’s Like Being Disabled

First of all, I'm not sure if disabled is the right word, I've been busy...

July 06, 2022

The Shortest Blog Ever

I try to keep my writing as succinct as possible. So this blog is an...

June 2022

June 17, 2022

Sharing Our Work

Laura and I are making our final passes through our book we wrote together over...

May 2022

May 12, 2022

A Transition Plan for Fundamentalists

I know it's hard waking up one day and realizing that your faith and practices...

April 2022

April 07, 2022

Words Matter in Recovery

Over the past few years, words have become very important to me. Not just words,...

April 04, 2022

Why Deconstructing Is Not a Dirty Word

      It is becoming more and more popular for Evangelicals to speak up...

April 01, 2022

Why I Like to Write

I didn't talk much in high school. But, one thing that I would respond to...

March 2022

March 27, 2022

How to Solve the Gas Crisis

  I am typing with my voice since I had a stroke a couple of...

March 19, 2022

What Christians Say – His Ways Are Higher

      Many times, when I have conversations with people on the Internet that...

March 19, 2022

Pressing the Reset Button

            Everyone knows that one of the most common cures...

March 15, 2022

Things Christians Say – You Need God’s Protection

            Most of my criticism of Christians is probably more...

March 12, 2022

Things Christians Say – God is in Control

As I have begun to investigate the things that Christians typically say, I would estimate...

March 05, 2022

Things Christians Say – “It’s Satan, Demons, or Evil””

  Most of my life inside organized religion was lived with a certain amount of...

March 01, 2022

What It Is Like To Have a Stroke

The Tuesday before my stroke I felt a little tingling in my arm. I thought...

February 2022

February 17, 2022

What I Don’t Need From Church

Photo by Pille Kirsi from PexelsFor 20 years I was somewhat of a church planter...

February 14, 2022

Stroke Recovery Fundraiser

Jason Elam has graciously organized a fundraiser for my stroke recovery.  Please decide if you...

February 03, 2022

The Hotel -:March 22nd

  Some time ago I visited a hotel in my hometown to investigate places to...

February 01, 2022

Surviving My Stroke Recovery

Several weeks ago I had a stroke. In many ways I have fought my inherited...

January 2022

January 29, 2022

It’s Okay to be Sad

            (warning, voice typing) Recently I  had a stroke. I...

January 02, 2022

My Top 5 Blog Posts on Patheos in 2021

I am grateful for the opportunity to write on this site.  Sometimes it surprises me...

December 2021

December 29, 2021

Writing from the Inside

Early in life, I knew that I hated grammar and everything related to the Language...

December 23, 2021

What I Learned From Writing a Novel

Around March 22nd, my new novel will be be released, called The Hotel. I've always...

December 02, 2021

BEING is on Audible

Every time I read my book, I cry.  I didn't expect it to be like...

November 2021

November 25, 2021

Progress is the Soul of the Universe

"Progress is the soul of the universe" de Chardin For 20 years, I was a...

November 12, 2021

The Genesis of Violence – A Review

My friend, Matthew Distefano has released another book.  But, this one is quite different.  It's...

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