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January 29, 2024

314 – Unmasking Patriarchy: Diagnosing Narcissism & Abuse

Unmasking Patriarchy: Diagnosing Narcissism & Abuse David Hayward (from his Website) I am a pastor...

January 23, 2024

Cultivated Ignorance – Evolving from Racism and Homophobia

Evolving from Racism and Homophobia (an excerpt from our book, Leaning Forward) After starting my...

January 19, 2024

Barbie Gets Revenge on Greg Locke

Barbie Gets Revenge on Greg Locke Photo from Freepik - AI- Generated The roof of...

January 19, 2024

What’s Wrong with God’s Plan and Purpose?

There may not be a more popular thing to say in Christianity than, "God has...

January 16, 2024

What’s Wrong with Influencing?

What's Wrong with Influencing? It is common, in certain branches of Christianity, for pastors to...

January 10, 2024

Leaning Forward – What’s Wrong with Prayer?

What's Wrong with Prayer? ‎ The first prayer I ever...

January 07, 2024

Stop, Drop, and Heal

Stop, Drop, and Heal Seven or eight years ago, we began what most people call...

January 05, 2024

Usurping Women’s Voices from the Patriarchy, Sherri Bothwell

Usurping Women’s Voices from the Patriarchy Sherri Bothwell was introduced to Christianity as an 11-year-old...

January 03, 2024

Trauma and the Pastor’s Wife with Laura Forehand

Trauma and the Pastor’s Wife Laura Forehand is a third-grade teacher and former pastor’s wife....

January 02, 2024

Something Better Than Mercy – The Value of Compassion

The Value of Compassion I still remember where I was when terrorists attacked the World...

January 01, 2024

Good Questions – Part 2 – Get Rid of Satan?

Good Questions – Part 2 – Get Rid of Satan? “A prudent question is...

January 01, 2024

Reclaiming Married Sex from Purity Culture – Megan Benninger

Reclaiming Married Sex from Purity Culture Megan Benninger has survived spiritual abuse in a variety...

December 2023

December 29, 2023

How to Speak Women with Susan Cottrell

How to Speak Women Susan Cottrell is an international speaker whose TEDx talk has 1.6...

December 26, 2023

Why Worship is NOT Necessary

Why Worship is NOT Necessary Worship was important to me in fundamentalist, evangelicalism. My congregations...

December 25, 2023

Trauma and the Black Community with NikkiG

Trauma and the Black Community Nikki G. is a Life Coach and Advanced Certified Trauma...

December 22, 2023

Deconstructing the Holidays

Deconstructing the Holidays Sometime during this Christmas season, I commented on a post from one...

December 22, 2023

The Intersection of Patriarchy and Abuse with Ashley Easter

The Intersection of Patriarchy and Abuse Ashley Easter is a trained victim advocate, an author,...

December 19, 2023

New Lenses – My Story – Karl Forehand

New Lenses - My Story - Karl Forehand The first time I remember understanding something...

December 18, 2023

As A Woman with Paula Stone Williams

As A Woman with Paula Stone Williams I was lucky to create a Leaning...

December 15, 2023

Advocates for Healing and Change with Janyne McConnoughey

Advocates for Healing and Change with Janyne McConnoughey I was lucky to create a Leaning...

December 13, 2023

What I Learned from Women about Religious Trauma

What I Learned from Women about Religious Trauma I was a pastor for almost 20...

December 11, 2023

Tending the Wounds of Religious Trauma with Rebekah Drumsta

Tending the Wounds of Religious Trauma I was lucky to create a conference called Leaning...

December 06, 2023

The Alpha Male Grifters and What Women Want More

The Alpha Male Grifters and What Women Want More About two years ago, I had...

December 04, 2023

The 5-Why and Church Harm

The 5-Why and Church Harm In the 1930s, the Japanese industrialist Sakichi Toyoda (the inventor...

November 2023

November 19, 2023

What Women Know About Trauma

Leaning Forward is the title of a book by Karl and Laura Forehand about moving...

November 15, 2023

Small Men in Power

Small Men in Power Yesterday, two fights broke out in Congress in the United States....

November 12, 2023

Let Them Speak, Advocating for Survivors of Religious Trauma

Advocating for Survivors of Religious Trauma If we are fortunate, occasionally, we have situations in...

October 2023

October 31, 2023

I Didn’t Want to Deconstruct

I Didn't Want to Deconstruct As some of you may know, my beliefs and affiliations...

October 18, 2023

The Implications of a Monarchy

The Implications of a Monarchy Even though I have moved beyond Christianity and have doubts...

October 16, 2023

Disappointment in the Desert

Disappointment in the Desert Laura and I have deemed our deconstruction journey as a journey...