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Shouldn’t Communication Be Better?

Shouldn’t Communication Be Better?

Last updated on: September 13, 2025 at 5:19 am by Karl J. Forehand

Shouldn’t Communication Be Better? 2025-07-14T07:24:47-06:00 Karl J. Forehand

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Shouldn’t Communication Be Better?

“You can tell whether a man is clever by his answers.

You can tell whether a man is wise by his questions.”

– Naguib Mahfouz

In the Bible, John refers to Jesus as the Word of God (logos, Gr.). Some Christians refer to the Bible, which was compiled hundreds of years later, as the Word of God. Discussing this with a Christian can be confusing, especially if they believe it is perfect or without error. If Jesus and the Scriptures were God’s primary communication with us, shouldn’t they have conveyed the message more effectively?

Vocabulary.com gives us this definition of logos, a Greek term John used that predates Christianity. *“*Philosophers have used the term logos since ancient times. Aristotle was the first to define the word ‘reasoned discourse’ and considered it one of the major forms of persuasion. Christians adopted logos to mean ‘the word of God,’ and Jungian psychology labels the rational part of the human mind as logos. Logos is a Greek word meaning ‘word, discourse, or reason,’ and it’s the root of logic.”

Some concepts, like Love Your Neighbor and the Golden Rule, are straightforward. My issue is that if Jesus is the logos, the reasoning of God, then His message should be much more precise. I assumed that Jesus conveyed a simple, clear message, but it was our fault for misunderstanding and not grasping what He was saying. As a Christian, I naturally defended myself by dismissing anything complicated to understand as my smallness compared to God’s greatness—how could I possibly grasp that?

While I agree that we have added elements to Jesus’ message and complicated our spirituality through organized religion, I no longer feel that way. If God exists and Jesus is His “reasoned discourse,” they could have communicated more effectively. Jesus never wrote anything down, rarely answered questions, and spoke in riddles and parables. If the Bible is God’s guide, word, or message to us, it should be more precise and documented when it occurred, not decades later. The canonization of the scriptures took 400 years to complete, which means it was open to interpretation and reinterpretation by those in power during that time.

Albert Einstein said, “If you can’t explain it simply, you don’t understand it well enough.” I agree with Einstein; this is how I approached my deconstruction. I sought simple, stated truths that felt powerful in their simplicity. I found some of these in Christianity, along with extra material surrounding these simple truths. I discovered the same powerful truths in other traditions as well. I am grateful to people like Thich Nhat Hanh, who simplify their traditions and offer reasonable, validating, and helpful comparisons. One outcome of my deconstruction is learning to appreciate nature and what it reveals—or you might say, reasons—about the universe. Nature is almost like a drumbeat or a rhythm that echoes its history, expressing its intentions and communicating with other parts of the whole. The fact that it cannot write books or deliver a compelling speech doesn’t prevent it from showing us what is true about our universe.

I sometimes say that I have learned more from nature than my theology books. I don’t see myself as a Christian anymore, and I know enough to realize that I can’t be definitive about God or the afterlife. I also don’t want to dictate to someone else what to do with their own journey. However, I firmly assert that one of the worst ways to learn more about the universe, or even God, is to go to a building and listen to someone pontificate about an imperfect book and an imperfect Messiah who struggled to communicate effectively. I’m not claiming that Jesus wasn’t good, but the literature his church endorses doesn’t seem to meet the standard of effective communication.

I’m not the greatest speaker in the world, but I’ve worked hard to transform from the kid who hid under the coffee table when people came over into a competent preacher. I quickly become frustrated with ineffective communicators, and few things thrill me more than a great speech or a well-written song. Both can convey profound truths through simple messages. I hoped for that when I started studying the Bible intensely, but it only led to an increasing disappointment in a system where I couldn’t express my concerns.

If the Bible benefits you and you can overlook its inconsistencies and errors, I won’t suggest you stop. However, if you’re like me and clinging to a single piece of literature only leads to confusion or reminds you of its misuses, I encourage you to set it aside until reading it no longer causes you anxiety.

It’s an important piece of literature, but not the only one!

If there is a Word of God (logos) in the universe, I hope I can hear and understand it. However, I’m confident it won’t be where I initially expected it. I’m still uncertain why we have trouble finding it if it exists, but I make reasonable and pure discoveries when I ask good questions.

Discourse and reason are good things. I believe the adventurous will find this inclination of the universe to communicate if we open up and stop trying to put a new spin on our old theology. We must remove our idols from our immediate gaze to see what we have missed; for most Christians, the Bible is their biggest idol.

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