{"id":347,"date":"2023-12-11T13:16:43","date_gmt":"2023-12-11T19:16:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/thecatholicbirdlover\/?p=347"},"modified":"2023-12-11T13:16:43","modified_gmt":"2023-12-11T19:16:43","slug":"wishes-make-us-human-but-what-happens-when-they-change","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/thecatholicbirdlover\/2023\/12\/wishes-make-us-human-but-what-happens-when-they-change\/","title":{"rendered":"Wishes Make us Human, but What Happens When They Change?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<\/head>
Wishes, our deepest desires, our longing for\u00a0more<\/em>\u2026<\/p>\n
This is what makes us human. It\u2019s what connects us to one another. And it is what connects us to God. It is the longing for eternity. The desire to create something to inspire generations. The desire to fly, to touch the stars\u2026These are wishes that must be pursued, even at the risk of heartbreak, even if they may never come true. Because in pursuing them we find our truest selves and we find God.<\/p>\n
This was the message of Disney\u2019s latest movie Wish.<\/a> And though the movie doesn\u2019t explicitly mention God, we know our desires are\u00a0from<\/em> Him and they are important<\/a> to Him.<\/p>\n
Of course, sometimes God asks us to do things we don\u2019t want to do. To sacrifice our desires even. Check out my post on what to do when God asks us to sacrifice.<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n
The very fact that we can wish is proof of God:<\/p>\n
With his [the human person\u2019s] openness to truth and beauty, his sense of moral goodness, his freedom and the voice of his conscience, with his longings for the infinite and for happiness<\/strong>\u2026he discerns signs of his spiritual soul\u2026[which] can have its origin only in God. CCC 33<\/p><\/blockquote>\n
We long for a world without hate, without hunger, without fear. This speaks to our nature as children of God. We weren\u2019t made for a world torn by sin, but for Paradise. Even our smaller wishes reflect this. A desire to become a great chef, a desire to learn to become a performer, a desire to become a mother.<\/p>\n
The movie Wish explores the importance of these wishes, reminding us that we should never give them up. And I agree. I consider myself a dreamer. But recently, I\u2019ve been wrestling with something.<\/p>\n
Dreams change.<\/strong><\/p>\n
And that scares me.<\/strong><\/p>\n
The smart one. The writer. The bird nerd. The capoeirista (martial artist). The Korean learner.<\/p>\n
Throughout my life, my perceived identity has changed as my dreams change.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n
Throughout my life, each of these monikers, born of wishes and desires I was actively pursuing made up the core of my perceived identity. When I was in high school, I fell in love with birds. I had a set of binoculars, I attended a Young Birders Event, I spouted fun facts and I was sure of one thing: one day, I would be a student at Cornell University. In college, I was an ecologist<\/a>. I was certain that one day I would travel the world from seasonal position to seasonal position.<\/p>\n
At each of these moments, I was sure of what my life would be. But my senior year of high school, I had a chance to be a student at Cornell and I turned it down. Post-college, I had the opportunity to take a seasonal position in Hawaii, to travel the world via my career like I\u2019d wanted for the past four years. I turned it down.<\/p>\n
My desires had changed.<\/p>\n
Though I didn\u2019t attend Cornell as a student, I did pursue an internship at their Lab of Ornithology.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n***
** ***When I was first offered admission to Cornell, my desire to pursue an economically sound path was stronger than my desire to study at the school<\/em> with the best lab of Ornithology in the US. When I was offered a position in Hawaii, my desire to stay close to my friends and family outweighed my desire to explore the world<\/em>.<\/p>\nI suppose the core desire remained the same. Though I didn\u2019t study at Cornell, I\u00a0did<\/em> pursue an internship with the Cornell Lab of Ornithology. And though I didn\u2019t travel as an ecologist, I did<\/em> travel as a tourist (read about my experience in a Korean Catholic Confession here<\/a>). But I\u2019ve found myself really unbalanced by the fact that my goals could change so completely.<\/strong><\/p>\n
If even my own desires and goals\u2013something so personal to me, so removed from circumstance and the world\u2013can change without warning and so completely, what is there to rely on? The movie Wish doesn\u2019t answer this question.<\/p>\n
Obviously, the answer is God. But a conceptual answer isn\u2019t always helpful with pragmatics.<\/em> What does it mean to rely on God? How can he reveal my true identity, the identity of daughter of God that doesn\u2019t change even when my dreams do?<\/p>\n
Perhaps as the columnist, I\u2019m expected to provide a satisfying answer to the question I\u2019m posing. But honestly, I\u2019m rather stumped by this one. Pithy answers like \u201cpray constantly\u201d and \u201cread Scripture\u201d are decidedly vague and unhelpful. So, I shall leave this column open-ended. If God affords me some greater wisdom, then I shall return to answer. But perhaps the answer might come from you, the reader.<\/p>\n
Feel free to DM me on my instagram @birdloversmusings<\/a> and send me your thoughts!<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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