The Great Eggs and Okra Fiasco of North Georgia<\\/h3>\\n My grandmother, God rest her, was an excellent cook. I want to get that out of the way right up front because I don\\u2019t want anyone to think I am disrespecting her culinary abilities. My grandfather wasn\\u2019t overweight accidentally if you catch my drift. The woman knew her way around a kitchen. But even the best of us in whatever field we excel in will have occasional misses, and my dear grandmother was no exception. Her biggest miss (actually, the only one I really remember) was the Great Eggs and Okra Fiasco of North Georgia.<\\/p>\\n This fiasco began, as they tend to do, as a very mundane happening. We were set to travel from my grandparents\\u2019 home in the North Georgia mountains to. . . Well . . . To somewhere. I actually don\\u2019t remember where we were going. But the trip required us to leave at such a time that Grandma decided to cook breakfast for us to eat on our way. That\\u2019s okay as far it goes, but somehow this beautiful Christian woman decided on that memorable day to cook something she had never, to my knowledge, made before. And she was so proud of the idea, too!<\\/p>\\n \\u201cI\\u2019m going make a scrambled egg and okra souffl\\u00e9. How does that sound?\\u201d<\\/p>\\n

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The Great Eggs and Okra Fiasco of North Georgia<\/h3>\n My grandmother, God rest her, was an excellent cook. I want to get that out of the way right up front because I don\u2019t want anyone to think I am disrespecting her culinary abilities. My grandfather wasn\u2019t overweight accidentally if you catch my drift. The woman knew her way around a kitchen. But even the best of us in whatever field we excel in will have occasional misses, and my dear grandmother was no exception. Her biggest miss (actually, the only one I really remember) was the Great Eggs and Okra Fiasco of North Georgia.<\/p>\n This fiasco began, as they tend to do, as a very mundane happening. We were set to travel from my grandparents\u2019 home in the North Georgia mountains to. . . Well . . . To somewhere. I actually don\u2019t remember where we were going. But the trip required us to leave at such a time that Grandma decided to cook breakfast for us to eat on our way. That\u2019s okay as far it goes, but somehow this beautiful Christian woman decided on that memorable day to cook something she had never, to my knowledge, made before. And she was so proud of the idea, too!<\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019m going make a scrambled egg and okra souffl\u00e9. How does that sound?\u201d<\/p>\n

Not That She Cared How I thought It Sounded<\/h3>\n We didn\u2019t always look forward to Grandmas cooking. Image courtesy of Pexels.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n Understand, Grandma was of that generation that didn\u2019t really care how the children thought anything they suggested sounded.<\/i> She was just asking to be polite\u2014or maybe to revel in our growing apprehension. She cracked a few eggs and threw them into the frying pan, then added a whole bag of okra\u2014unbreaded. There was enough food in that frying pan to guarantee whatever came out was going to be a big warmed-over mess. Which this was. To make it worse, she promptly served our plates, and then covered them until we were in the car and ready to eat. I have no idea what that particular dish might have tasted like hot, or at least warm, but by the time I could eat it, it had become a congealed, wet, slimy, cold mess of unappetizing, inedible, food matter. Did I say inedible? <\/i>My mistake. What my grandmother prepared, let no man (or boy) call inedible. Somehow in the course of that trip, I managed to force down an entire plate of the stuff. And keep it down\u2014barely. But I swore I would never eat anything like that again.<\/p>\n I learned a valuable lesson that day about the importance of changing your diet when something you eat disagrees with you or causes you great discomfort. I also don\u2019t like squash, and I have tried to not eat it for several decades now. The problem is, at times I might receive an invitation to speak at some area church, and at times I might mention my dislike for squash in the sermon or talk. Invariably, after the service, I would be approached by a sweet elderly saint who would place her hand on my arm and assure me that my problem was simply that I hadn\u2019t tried her <\/i>squash. And, wonder of wonders, she just happened to have brought some for the after-church potluck. I can\u2019t tell you how many times I\u2019ve had to straddle the line between speaking truthfully and being kind and loving towards the dear woman waiting expectantly for my reaction to her squash casserole. I think I\u2019ve usually resorted to saying something like, \u201cWow! That\u2019s as good a squash casserole as I have ever had!\u201d<\/p>\n A Lesson Learned . . . On Repeat<\/h3>\n I\u2019m relearning this lesson now, as an adult. I\u2019ve learned my diet has to change again. Not food, this time, but what I am ingesting mentally. I\u2019m eating far too much Facebook and far too little scripture, for example. The anger and hatefulness I\u2019ve been consuming via social media have affected me both spiritually and emotionally. I\u2019m realizing how bad it is for me right now, and I need to cut way back on junk food and start filling up on the things of God. Besides scripture, there are wonderful, uplifting, books out there that I haven\u2019t read that I could jump into. 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