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July 2025

July 27, 2025

6 Ways to Boost Intimacy in Your Marriage

Dear Terry, I’ve been married to John for ten years and I’m worried because we’ve...

July 20, 2025

Can You Be Friends With Your Ex After Divorce?

There are many reasons why people strive to be friends with their ex after a...

July 14, 2025

Should You Stay in an Unhappy Marriage for Your Kids?

By far, this is one of the most commonly asked questions about divorce. The reason...

July 07, 2025

6 Ways To Get Ready For Commitment or Marriage

Over the last fifty years, there has been a quiet shift in the landscape of...

June 2025

June 29, 2025

6 Questions to Ask Potential Marriage Partners

Who we choose to marry is one of the most important and costliest decisions a...

June 22, 2025

5 Ways to Stop Confusing Chemistry for Compatibility

Chemistry is such a powerful force that many couples confuse it with compatibility. While chemistry...

June 15, 2025

The Pros and Cons of Getting Married Again

Over the last two decades since my divorce, I’ve come to the conclusion that my...

June 08, 2025

Happy Father’s Day to Stepfathers

What are some of the aspects of being a stepfather that make it a rewarding...

June 02, 2025

How To Heal From Feeling Rejected After Divorce

When a marriage ends because our partner leaves or betrays us, it’s natural to experience...

May 2025

May 18, 2025

The Best Way To Co-Parent With a Difficult Ex

Studies show that conflict is what creates the most pain and anguish for children after...

May 11, 2025

Loving Someone With Anxiety

Approximately 1 in 5 Americans suffer from some form of anxiety disorder. Statistically, women are...

May 04, 2025

What Really Happens in Marriage Counseling?

As a marriage counselor, I’ve witnessed firsthand the benefits of my clients learning to manage...

April 2025

April 27, 2025

How Four Myths Almost Destroyed My Second Marriage

For years, I struggled to save my second marriage from the brink of divorce because...

April 20, 2025

10 Signs Your Teen Is Having Difficulty Coping with Divorce

The teenage years can be rewarding, yet challenging for both teens and their parents. Helping...

April 13, 2025

How to Be Vulnerable and Express Your Needs

Being vulnerable means being authentic and being able to risk expressing your thoughts, feelings, and...

April 06, 2025

What are the Secrets to a Happy Second Marriage?

While many couples see remarriage as an opportunity to start fresh start and a new...

March 2025

March 30, 2025

8 Lessons I’ve Learned About Marriage to Prevent Divorce

Since my divorce, I’ve learned a lot of lessons about marriage. I firmly believe that...

March 23, 2025

How to Prevent Resentment from Destroying Your Marriage

Karen, age 48, had been married to Kyle, 50, for five years when she found...

March 16, 2025

How Managing Conflict Can Help Couples Thrive

Dear Terry, After fourteen-years of marriage, I’m at the end of my rope. My husband,...

March 09, 2025

Self-Care Doesn’t Mean You’re Being Selfish in Relationships

Karen, 35, sat on the couch near (but not close) to her boyfriend Ron, 36,...

March 02, 2025

5 Smart Ways to Repair Broken Trust

Karen, 48, and Mike, 53, sat on the couch in my office and described their...

February 2025

February 23, 2025

7 Ways to Rid Yourself of Jealous Feelings

Establishing and maintaining trust with your partner can be a huge challenge if you’re prone...

February 16, 2025

How Do I Manage Ongoing Arguments with My Spouse?

Jenny, 42, and Sam, 43, sit on the couch in my office and discuss their...

February 10, 2025

How Do I Overcome the Legacy of Divorce?

Do you ever wonder if you’ll get out from under the shadow of your parents’...

February 02, 2025

6 Ways to Curb Defensiveness with Your Partner

During tough conversations, it’s helpful to choose battles wisely and to distinguish between petty issues...

January 2025

January 26, 2025

Mothers And Daughters: Healing Together After Divorce

In a culture where girls are barraged with inappropriate images of what it means to...

January 19, 2025

5 Smart Ways to Repair Broken Trust in Relationships

Mistrust can come in many forms, from suspecting partners of infidelity, to fearing that they...

January 12, 2025

4 Tips to Setting Up a Family Meeting

As a therapist, many parents complain to me that there is too much conflict and...

January 05, 2025

Are You Honest With Your Partner About Your Money?

Despite the fact that financial issues and money problems are the number one subject couples...

December 2024

December 29, 2024

6 Tips for Remarried Couples to Build Trust and Intimacy 

Brian, 58, and Alyssa, 52, a couple who I counseled recently, came to my office...

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