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February 2022

February 10, 2022

It Wasn’t About Modest Attire

The first time I was touched in a sexual way, I was eight. A loathsome...

September 2020

September 13, 2020

While We Worried About Imaginary Children

Over the weekend, it's been revealed that our nation has expelled 8,800 unaccompanied minors...

February 2020

February 20, 2020

Fifty Years Ago, If a Guy Said to a Girl…

I don't usually comment on "The Transformed Wife," whose real name is Lori Alexander. I...

February 14, 2020

The Patron Saint of Love and Bees

Today is Saint Valentine's Day, and I suppose you want me to write about love--...

January 2020

January 22, 2020

Why the Legionaries of Christ Cannot be Reformed

No doubt many of you have read the shocking article in the Associated Press,...

October 2019

October 19, 2019

Medieval Peasants had it Made: In Dialogue with a Twitter Traditionalist

Last night on Twitter, I had an interesting insight into what your standard Catholic and...

October 09, 2019

If Women Had Faces

There are so many serious things to talk about today. A million and one grave...

September 2019

September 14, 2019

Father Leo Patalinghug’s Unchaste Aerobics

I don't usually pay much mind to Father Leo Patalinghug. He's just one of those...

July 2019

July 08, 2019

A Bad Feast for Victims

We got through another Feast of Saint Maria Goretti and its aftermath, somehow. It's over...

May 2019

May 30, 2019

The Diocese of Buffalo is Endangering the Faithful

I have, on and off, been following the case of the seminarians in the Diocese...

April 2019

April 10, 2019

A Word on Pope Emeritus Benedict’s Statement

I have just finished reading Pope Emeritus Benedict's remarks which were released today. I've never...

March 2019

March 11, 2019

The Scandal of a God Incarnate

Yet another content warning for my friends who are sensitive to this sort of thing:...

March 07, 2019

Was Jesus Really Sexually Abused?

Just a heads up for my friends who have been abused, I'm going to...

February 2019

February 22, 2019

Patrick Madrid Accidentally Explains the Sex Abuse Crisis

Today I saw three tweets that enraged me, and then they made me sad....

February 18, 2019

How Ought We Respond to the Times Article on Gay Priests?

I'm going to have the comments off today, because I'm going to talk about a...

February 13, 2019

What is a Sodomite, Anyway?

Last night I got into an argument with someone who kept talking about "Sodomites." He...

November 2018

November 01, 2018

A Legacy of Scandal: Sheltering Abuse at Franciscan University

I loved Father Mike Scanlan. I know that I have been less than complimentary...

October 2018

October 04, 2018

We Might All Try Respecting Each Other

There's an odd political cartoon going the rounds on facebook. No, I'm not talking about...

September 2018

September 25, 2018

My Catholic School Taught Me That Victims Should Be Silent

I went to a Catholic school named after the Virgin Mary, when I was...

September 20, 2018

Sexual Assault is not a Teenage Rite of Passage

I have heard many different responses to the accusations against Justice Brett Kavanaugh. Most of...

September 19, 2018

No, Dennis Prager, That’s Not Empowerment

My daughter, Rosie, used to love tearing up the National Review. I don't remember who...

September 17, 2018

What “Boys Will be Boys” Really Means

My friend Lindsay posted a facebook status today that had me jumping out of...

August 2018

August 06, 2018

Clericalism and Priestly Abuse: What do the Laity do Now?

I have some very difficult things to say in response to the United States...

July 2018

July 26, 2018

It’s Not Enough to be a Humanae Vitae Family

This is the week of the year where I'm supposed to say something about birth...

July 21, 2018

Virginity, Pornography and Vocations: In Dialogue with David Upham

Somehow I've attracted the ire of no less than Professor David Upham. Up until...

June 2018

June 23, 2018

Evening in the Gardens of LaBelle

The day's heavy rain cleared up while Michael was running errands with Rosie. It...

May 2018

May 30, 2018

A Non-Apology and a Response from a Catholic Feminist

I received an apology early this afternoon. Well, something made to look like...

May 29, 2018

By My Magnanimous Leave: How to ask Someone on a Date

Apparently it's time to talk etiquette with the Marchioness of Manners, Mary Pezzulo, once again....

May 21, 2018

When a Girl Says “No…”

The conversation happened when I was an awkward, ugly, bookish teenager, ridiculously well-read but...

April 2018

April 19, 2018

What Does Modesty Have to do With It?

A surprising number of people have responded to the story about the sexual harassment...