{"id":2495,"date":"2022-01-07T14:29:05","date_gmt":"2022-01-07T19:29:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/spiritualitychannelseries\/?p=2495"},"modified":"2022-01-17T22:02:55","modified_gmt":"2022-01-18T03:02:55","slug":"joy-heals","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/spiritualitychannelseries\/2022\/01\/joy-heals\/","title":{"rendered":"Joy Heals"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<\/head>

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Mary Ellen Lucas<\/em><\/p>\n

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The body heals with play, the mind heals with laughter,<\/p>\n

and the spirit heals with joy.<\/p>\n

\u2013 Marisa Donnelly<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Reflecting on Marisa Donnelly\u2019s idea that joy heals the spirit may seem out-of-place and terribly naive in light of the grief and loss people have recently endured. However, I believe joy is medicinal and is needed now more than ever.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Merriam Webster\u2019s definition of joy is \u201cthe emotion evoked by well-being, success, or good fortune\u2026.\u201d Joy, a state of happiness, occurs whenever we experience great pleasure and delight. We also know we can attain joy when we rejoice in another\u2019s good fortune.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

I have found joy as the quality that elevates my spirit. Joy is the perfect elixir, an elixir so vibrant that states of joy, love and gratefulness are stirred within and fill my heart fully.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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\u00a0<\/span>Challenges Hide Joy<\/span><\/strong>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>I don\u2019t believe we have fully recognized the pandemic\u2019s toll on our psyches yet. Grief will accompany us for years to come, and as we begin to emerge more fully back into our communities, healing will be essential, not only healing for our\u00a0<\/span>bodies but also for our spirits.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Ultimately, I believe the pandemic was a crash course on impermanence, the temporary conditions of life and our relationships. We are forgetful about these truths until life changes in the blink of an eye.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

In the past year, we\u2019ve dealt with shortages in food and toilet paper (of all things!),\u00a0<\/span>isolation, loneliness and a tsunami of stresses. Marisa Donnelly identifies what heals the body, mind and spirit as play, laughter and joy, which have been in an even shorter supply. These qualities disappeared faster than the material goods from store shelves.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

As I began to write a reflection on joy, I received the following text from a client: \u201cI\u2019m tired, and I just can\u2019t seem to find my joy as I had it before Covid and all of the other stress.\u201d Last year my client had contracted Covid, was hospitalized, and thankfully recovered except for lingering exhaustion.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

My client is one of the many unsung heroes of the pandemic. She is a teacher who took risks because of her loving concern for her students who are behaviorally\u00a0<\/span>challenged and have been struggling in their own right.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s been one long, tough slog navigating back to a sense of well-being while supporting her family during pandemic challenges, managing a pressurized school situation of learning new technology and adapting to fluctuating schedule changes warranted by her school district\u2019s mandates. She was beyond tired and admittedly felt a sagging spirit.<\/span><\/p>\n

Life changed for every one of us. The hope now is the potential for change as we reevaluate what is most important.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Have you ever witnessed or participated in a moment that you thought might not ever happen? When I watched my daughter get married and cradled my grandson and granddaughter for the first time, the flood gates of joy opened wide within me.\u00a0 \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Attending the Developmental Olympics with my oldest son Sean was another immersive experience of joy. The Special Olympics began as an Olympic-style competition for those with special needs. Developmental Olympics engaged developmentally challenged individuals who wouldn\u2019t reach the level of prowess the Special Olympic games required.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Sean wasn\u2019t ever going to have the skills to be a candidate for the Special Olympics since his disabilities were more profound. However, as a participant in Developmental Olympics, Sean was eligible to participate in the sporting games that were more his speed.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Sean attended regularly-scheduled practices after school with a beautiful volunteer coach. His coach determined Sean\u2019s strengths, identified three events Sean could participate in and then helped to hone his skills through practice.<\/span><\/p>\n

After weeks of training, participants showcased their skills at regional events. If a participant was placed first at the regional events, the next step was an invitation to participate in the state\u2019s Developmental Olympic games, which was huge.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Sean\u2019s events were a 25-meter unassisted walk and a 50-meter unassisted walk. In other words, Sean had to start and walk towards the finish line all on his own. He didn\u2019t entirely stay in the lane as well as he could have and had to be cajoled the whole way through, but he kept at it until he crossed the finish line. The whooping and cheering in celebration of Sean completing the walk brought a smile to his face beyond description. Pure joy!<\/span><\/p>\n

Sean\u2019s third event was the tennis ball throw. Sean had his unique way of throwing a tennis ball. Often he took at least twenty arm windups before he would finally release the ball. Sean often had a gleam in his eye as he watched us watching him. Maybe he enjoyed faking us out since every time he gave the appearance. He was about to throw the tennis ball, nope, back his arm would go again with the clutched ball remaining tightly held in his hand.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m not sure what Sean\u2019s criteria was for the perfect moment to release the ball, but when he did finally let go, Sean\u2019s joy and pride at his pitch was equivalent to a pitcher throwing a no-hitter. It never mattered to Sean how far the ball was thrown. The thrill was having done it.<\/span><\/p>\n

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A Bubble Of Joy\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Let me paint a picture for those who have never witnessed a Developmental Olympics event. The long-awaited game day finally arrives! Buses, vans, cars unload excited participants who are already bubbling up with joy as they come.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Thanks to Developmental Olympic volunteers, traffic flows smoothly. Volunteers make sure everyone goes to where they are supposed to be. These kind-hearted volunteers generously donate their time to facilitate these events and ensure every athlete has their cheering squad. Throughout the day, volunteers call out a participant by name as they cheer, hoot, whistle, yell positive reinforcements and offer continuous applause.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Once everyone is gathered together, the opening ceremony begins. First, an \u2018official\u2019 welcome is given with some special guests saying a few short words. Then the\u00a0<\/span>athlete\u2019s oath is recited. Everyone stands and, if able, recites, \u201cLet me win. But if I cannot win, let me brave in the attempt.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Every time Sean participated, I would speak the oath on his behalf, and without fail, tears sprung to my eyes every time. Wild cheering would then follow not only by all the spectators and volunteers but also from the participants, who in my eyes looked severely affected or were suffering. Yet, here they were yelling with glee and unbridled joy.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

It was humbling to look around to see the athletes, some who didn\u2019t understand what those words meant yet would go on to exhibit bravery in their attempts to do well in their events.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Eager with delight, participants would then be called to line up when it was their moment to shine at their event. There were no nerves for these athletes! They were unabashed in their confidence, with no self-consciousness whatsoever. The purity of their hearts wouldn\u2019t allow it.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

At the games, I observed athletes who sat in wheelchairs, kids who wore braces, visibly crippled children, and kids who wore helmets as Sean did. Joy illuminated their faces as the disabilities receded to the background.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Joy had a vitality that transcended any ache, pain or tiredness they may have been feeling.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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\u00a0<\/span>Joy Is Contagious\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Joy, ever-present, was widely contagious. Everyone smiled no matter the outcomes. There was no emphasis on winners and losers, just each person giving their best. Sean\u2019s joyful enthusiasm was contagious.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

The joy bubble spread beyond the athletes to all those fortunate enough to witness the prevailed abilities. Everywhere I looked, joy was visible. The purity of the participant\u2019s heart, the lack of competitiveness, the fun of being a part of the games was all that mattered.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Indeed, being awarded a gold, silver, or bronze medal is always a highlight, but no participant ever grumbled about not earning a medal or feeling cheated if they didn\u2019t win. Over the years, Sean eventually garnered many awards and proudly wore them around his neck just like athletes at the Olympics do. I know that even if Sean never won any medals, it wouldn\u2019t have mattered. Nothing could pop the bubble of joy he experienced at the Developmental Olympics.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Finding Joy<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

I learned at the Developmental Olympics how joy could be had no matter the external circumstance. <\/span>If joy is what our spirits need to help us heal, how is joy attainable? How do we invoke joy or recapture joy as the case maybe?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Right at the entryway into joy is loving gratefulness. It is essential to acknowledge any blessing that arrives at a certain moment in time that is often a culminating point in one\u2019s life to allow yourself to be immersed in the joy of the moment.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

I hope when we land on the other side of the pandemic, we will have learned or begun to understand more of what is essential to our well-being. I hope we will have become more aware of the moments to lean into, take stock of our blessings, and grow in gratefulness for the privilege of being alive.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

To be brave in our attempts to find new ways to move forward, we must strengthen our bodies\u2019 immune systems and fortify our spirits. Our spirits can grow stronger by an\u00a0<\/span>intentional<\/span><\/em>\u00a0choice to love and be grateful. Joy will then prove to be the best medicine we can use to resuscitate our weary spirits and hearts.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Be the healer of your spirit. Remember to revitalize your spirit by embracing moments of joy today and in the days ahead.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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