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Why I’d Rather Sit with a Skeptic than a Saint

Why I’d Rather Sit with a Skeptic than a Saint

Last updated on: November 25, 2025 at 3:45 am by Stuart Delony

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Why I’d Rather Sit with a Skeptic than a Saint 2025-11-24T17:13:13-05:00 Stuart Delony

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Transcendentalism and I would probably make decent drinking buddies. Not best friends. Not partners in crime. But the kind of folks who could sit across from each other with a bottle between us, trading half-formed ideas and wounded idealism, and occasionally nod in agreement when the silence gets deep.

I’ve never lived in a cabin in the woods, and I’m not quoting Emerson before breakfast. But the older I get—and the further I drift from the gravitational pull of institutional religion—the more I find myself bumping into the ghost of Transcendentalism. Not as a new creed, but as an old friend who also got tired of the noise.

The Beauty of Bypassing the Middleman

One of the central tenets of Transcendentalism is this: you don’t need anyone to mediate the sacred for you. No priest. No pastor. No guy with a $2,000 sneaker habit and a pulpit. That idea resonates now more than ever.

After years in ministry, and years more peeling off the layers of dogma like asbestos in a basement, I get the pull of going straight to the source. Nature. Experience. Conscience. Mystery. Whatever you want to call it. That feels honest. That feels human. That feels like what Jesus was pointing toward before the church polished him into something marketable.

Jesus Without the Branding

Here’s where I diverge from Emerson and the gang. They liked Jesus, but mostly as a literary figure—an enlightened sage who said pretty things about lilies and sparrows. I still carry Jesus with me, but he’s not a poet in my pocket. He’s the table-flipper. The empire agitator. The guy who made both the religious and political elite sweat.

I’m not here to defend doctrines or claim certainty. That boat’s sailed. These days, I live in the tension—between belief and doubt, silence and signal. But even from that space, the way of Jesus still haunts me. Not the theology. Not the miracles. Just the audacity of loving enemies and elevating the broken as if they weren’t disposable. That stays with me. It won’t shut up.

Where Transcendentalism Floats Away

But let’s be honest—Transcendentalism isn’t without its flaws. There’s a certain privilege baked into the idea that you can retreat into solitude and come back with enlightenment in your beard. Most of those guys weren’t surviving trauma. They weren’t trying to rebuild their psyche after being chewed up and spit out by spiritual systems.

They were writing essays. I was patching holes in my soul.

They saw nature as holy. I see kindness as miraculous. And sometimes, survival itself feels sacred.

The Problem with Saints

Saints—at least the ones polished up by modern faith—are exhausting. They smile too much. They sell certainty like it’s clearance-priced salvation. And if you spend enough time with them, you realize that sainthood is often just repression in a choir robe.

Give me a skeptic. Someone who doubts clean answers and still shows up. Someone who doesn’t need a theology to justify their compassion. Someone who knows the world’s broken but hasn’t hardened into apathy. That’s the kind of person I’d rather walk with. Or drink with. Or follow through the dark.

Faith After the Exit

These days, I’m not looking for a belief system. I’m looking for a way to live. Something that smells like honesty. Something that honors doubt without drowning in it. Something that still dares to love, even without the cosmic reward points.

If Transcendentalism gave me permission to find the sacred outside the sanctuary, then thank God for that. But I’m not lighting incense to Thoreau. I’m just trying to make it through the wreckage with a little bit of grace and a whole lot of honesty.

Call it post-evangelical. Call it spiritual agnosticism. Call it “still figuring it out.” I don’t care. Just don’t try to sell me certainty.

Because at this point, I’ll take a worn-out skeptic over a polished saint any day.

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