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That Life Exists and Identity: Thoughts on Robin Williams & Depression

That Life Exists and Identity: Thoughts on Robin Williams & Depression

Last updated on: March 9, 2017 at 1:31 am by Scott Eric Alt

That Life Exists and Identity: Thoughts on Robin Williams & Depression 2017-03-09T01:31:50-04:00 Scott Eric Alt

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I went into the woods because I wished to live deliberately. … I wanted to live deep and suck out all the marrow of life … to put to rout all that was not life … and not, when I had come to die, discover that I had not lived.” — Henry David Thoreau

When Dead Poets Society first came out, I was in college and struggling as a political science major. (I marvel at that still today—not my struggle, but my choice of majors.) I got mainly C’s. I saw Dead Poets at a time when a summer job answering data requests in a large computer room left me with a lot of time to read; and what I was reading, that summer, was Dickens, Hugo, Hardy, Cervantes. Robin Williams cast a spell on me in his role as an inspiring English teacher who taught his students to follow their passion, to always look at things in another way, and that “words and ideas can change the world.” As I saw the young boys of Welton Academy run off at night, into the woods, to read from Thoreau, Keats, Tennyson (and even a comical rendition of Vachel Lindsay), an encounter with literature seemed very romantic to me. It seemed to satisfy a longing: which, I guess, is what the movie was trying to do. It spoke profoundly to a shy young teenager who was soon to turn 20. That fall, I changed my major to English. Finally I began to get A’s, and I decided I was going to be a writer.

THE SLIMY MUD OF WORDS

A quarter century later Robin Williams killed himself and suddenly all words became inadequate. It has left all the commentators utterly without anything original to say. So we marvel at how someone who had so much talent and wealth was so empty inside; as if we shouldn’t have learned long ago that these things do not make people happy, nor do they have the power to keep depression at bay.

Or, we argue about whether Mr. Williams’ suicide was the result of disease or choice; to what extent depression took away his free will; and whether the Church teaches that someone who commits suicide automatically goes to Hell.

And yes, some of that is important to talk about. But when we do, we bump up less against answers than against mystery and our own profound incertitude. Those sure are not comforting, least of all to our feeling that we should know what to say. (Or, still worse, our feeling that we should say something, anything, rather than just sit and weep and pray.)

We want to put off facing discomfort and the appalling horror that renders us mute. So we make pointless statements about political liberalism and whether or not media coverage of the suicide reveals a leftist worldview. We wrap ourselves in End Times paranoia and write dumb blog articles to say that Mr. Williams was possessed by demons. (The fact that this article comes from an anti-Catholic, King James Only Web site, and yet was linked with easy credulity by several Catholics on Facebook, has me particularly worried.) We scheme to be sure our headlines, when writing about it, will improve our SEO ratings. We live, at bottom, in a media culture in which everything—even something as profoundly dark and unsettling as suicide—is fodder for instant commentary and analysis. But it is when we are confronted with something so wildly beyond our ability to understand, such as this, that we resort to clichés and dumbness.

We are rendered helpless. There is so much we do not know. There is so much we can not say. Yet still, the culture of instant commentary tells us that surely, at this time, of all times, we have a duty to say something. We must go live, now, with analysis. We must post to our blogs, now. As though we have the words that will turn it all to sense. And a week, or two, later, we’ve talked ourselves hoarse. We’ve blogged ourselves clean out of words. We’ve explained what it all means. We’ve put it in a jar, labeled it “suicide: blogged about,” and moved on.

And many people, just like Robin Williams, are still stumped and empty. We have spoken many words and said very little.

I FELT A FUNERAL IN MY BRAIN

In his book The Noonday Demon (2001), Andrew Solomon—who himself has suffered from depression—notes that the only way the illness can be described is through metaphor. He uses a very vivid one of vines twisting themselves around an oak tree:

The birth and death that constitute depression occur at once. I returned, not long ago, to a wood in which I had played as a child and saw an oak, a hundred years dignified, in whose shade I used to play with my brother. In twenty years, a huge vine had attached itself to this confident tree and had nearly smothered it. It was hard to say where the tree left off and the vine began. The vine had twisted itself so entirely around the scaffolding of tree branches that its leaves seemed from a distance to be the leaves of the tree; only up close could you see how few living oak branches were left, and how a few desperate little budding sticks of oak stuck like a row of thumbs up the massive trunk, their leaves continuing to photosynthesize in the ignorant way of mechanical biology.

It is a powerful image, of an illness so strong and gripping that it wraps itself around you and chokes your life and being away. It robs you of self, of identity.

And though it does so, depression remains as individual as its sufferer. It has not felt like choking vines to me.

It has felt like four grey, stone walls, moving in closer, with no window, no door of escape.

It has felt like constant hurt, without specific pain, and a sluggish, and a halt, and crippled step.

It has felt like a deep and wounded, sick, and nauseous dread of two seconds from now.

It has felt like I of all people am left on Earth, and yet constantly pressed in, airless, by a roiling crowd. It has felt like being trapped in four tight walls of noise without cease.

Like losing a child, you do not understand it unless it comes to you. And then you weep astonished (as another writer has put it) “that life could include such suffering, or that you personally could have been permitted such pain.”

Still, those who have been through it, and written about it, and found the words after dark and silent struggle, tell us that the noonday demon can in fact be exorcised. Here is William Styron, in Darkness Visible:

If our lives had no other configuration but this, we should want, and perhaps deserve, to perish; if depression had no termination, then suicide would, indeed, be the only remedy. But one need not sound the false or inspirational note to stress the truth that depression is not the soul’s annihilation; men and women who have recovered from the disease—and they are countless—bear witness to what is probably its only saving grace: it is conquerable. …

There, whoever has been restored to health has almost always been restored to the capacity for serenity and joy.

If we may not understand such pain, there is prayer. For even saints have suffered depression, and have known the appalling silence of God, before liberation, and His embrace.

BREAK, BLOW, BURN, AND MAKE ME NEW

In graduate school, when suffering through my first (and gratefully very short-lived) episode of depression, I was appalled to learn how many writers suffer from it; and more than that, that they use their writing as a way of staying above the pain. Is that what awaited me and my words?

Charles Dickens had a desperately poor and miserable childhood. His father was imprisoned for debt; and, to keep the family going, young Charles went to work in a rat-infested shoe polish factory, placing labels on bottles, for twelve hours a day. He spent the rest of his life trying to write the pain of those years out of himself.

This professor, who told us all these happy things, said that Dickens’s well-known hyperactivity, and exuberant comedy, were also methods of staying above the pain. He noted, at the time, that Robin Williams suffered from depression. (“Good Will Hunting” had just come out.)

Patrick Coffin, movie buff and host of Catholic Answers Live, notes that Mr. Williams was often attracted to the role of a “wounded healer.” Think Awakenings. Think Good Will Hunting. Think The Fisher King. He sought healing through art, and in the roles he chose.

In that way, his art, and his comedy, became a way—not so much of “staying above” the pain, but of meeting it and transforming it.

I like that idea of what words and art can be for; of what they have the power to do. I’m sorry that was not enough to save him, in the end. I wish it had been. His great comedy and art surely have transformed us. They have acquainted us with life, and with laughter, and the powerful play.

AT LENGTH RENEW THEIR SMILE

In Dead Poets Society, John Keating, played by Mr. Williams, reads to his students this poem by Walt Whitman:

O me! O life! of the questions of these recurring,

Of the endless trains of the faithless, of cities fill’d with the foolish,

Of myself forever reproaching myself, (for who more foolish than I, and who more faithless?)

Of eyes that vainly crave the light, of the objects mean, of the struggle ever renew’d,

Of the poor results of all, of the plodding and sordid crowds I see around me,

Of the empty and useless years of the rest, with the rest me intertwined,

The question, O me! so sad, recurring—What good amid these, O me, O life?

Answer

That you are here—that life exists and identity,

That the powerful play goes on, and you may contribute a verse.

The powerful witness in all of this, in depression, in suicide, in loss, in unbearable confusion and grief and pain, is the witness of life. That life exists. That you are here, and that it matters.

The great horror and pain of depression is that it robs you of any sense of self and identity. And that may be why, in a cruel irony, some seek relief from it in self-annihilation. But they value their life, and they do not want it to end. They only want the pain to end.

I can speak from my own experience, though, when I say that one of the great joys of recovery from depression, when it has run its course, is the joy of discovering identity again, and who you are, and that you are. It is enough.

When words fail us, and what to say, or understand, we can turn to prayer and to Christ. I pray that is where Mr. Williams has gone; for if he has, he now knows the wounded healer. On the Cross, Christ knew Robin Williams. He made provision for his life, and his art; his suffering, and his death; and also his eternal life.

Goodnight, Captain.

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