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February 2015

February 25, 2015

“Damaged Goods” Has Something For Everyone

Full disclosure: Dianna Anderson is a close friend of mine, and has been since before...

November 2014

November 05, 2014

Telling My Own Story: A Perspective from a Kinky Christian (A Guest Post)

I was pretty upset by a recent post by Jesus Feminist author, Sarah Bessey, in which she...

October 2014

October 13, 2014

“Hymens are for Forming Blood Covenants” and Other Things I’ve Learned from Christian Dating Books

I have read a lot of Christian dating books. You may have already read about some of...

September 2014

September 12, 2014

Purity Culture Doesn’t Want Men To Stop Getting Sex: It Wants Women To Stop Getting Power

Yesterday, I stumbled across an interesting blog post by David Murrow of "Church For Men." Interesting...

July 2014

July 14, 2014

Lauren Winner’s Real Sex, and the Church’s Responsibility to Single Parents

If you’ve been following this blog for any amount of time, you’ll know I have...

May 2014

May 19, 2014

Modest Is Hottest: A Guest Post for No Shame Movement

Today, I'm over at No Shame Movement sharing my story about growing up in Christian purity...

December 2013

December 07, 2013

The Magical Marriage Switch

[Content Note: Marital Sexual Coercion] Purity culture Christians like to think of marriage as something...

November 2013

November 27, 2013

What if God cares more about sexism than about how much you masturbate?

"You may think your sins don't hurt anyone...but it hurts GOD." If you grew up in...

October 2013

October 05, 2013

Once Upon a Cheap Hotel Room

Content Note: Brief Mentions of Rape/Sexual Abuse [Disclaimer: This is a story of my personal...

October 03, 2013

“You Are Not Your Own:” Wrapping Things Up

This post is part of a series called“You Are Not Your Own,” focusing on rape and...

September 2013

September 26, 2013

Rape Culture: It’s Not Just For Christian Dating Books!

Content Note: Rape Culture As I wrote my You Are Not Your Own series over...

September 23, 2013

“You Are Not Your Own:” Is Rape Just Another “Sexual Sin?”

This post is part of a series called“You Are Not Your Own,” focusing on rape and...

September 17, 2013

“You Are Not Your Own:” When Metaphors For Sex Sound A Lot Like Like Rape

This post is part of a series called“You Are Not Your Own,” focusing on rape and...

September 12, 2013

A little more on the “selfish wives” that say no.

I firmly believe in a person's right to say no to marital sex. Marriage is...

September 10, 2013

“You Are Not Your Own:” Only Selfish Wives Say No

This post is part of a series called“You Are Not Your Own,” focusing on rape and...

August 2013

August 20, 2013

“You Are Not Your Own:” People Belong To Their Partners

This post is part of a series called“You Are Not Your Own,” focusing on rape and...

July 2013

July 26, 2013

I don’t know, why do you tell your daughters to dress modestly?

Trigger Warning for Modesty Culture B.S. and Benevolent Sexism. Also, I used more swear words...

July 21, 2013

“You Are Not Your Own:” Women are objects, or weaker animals

This post is part of a series called“You Are Not Your Own,” focusing on rape and...

July 15, 2013

“You Are Not Your Own:” Men Are Animals

This post is part of a series called“You Are Not Your Own,” focusing on rape and...

July 05, 2013

“You Are Not Your Own:” So, whose are you?

This post is part of a series called“You Are Not Your Own,” focusing on rape and...

June 2013

June 28, 2013

Guidelines for a holistic sexual ethic, part 3

If you haven't read my other two posts on sexual ethics, I suggest you do...

June 25, 2013

Guidelines for a holistic sexual ethic, part 2

The other day, I talked about how I've noticed over the past few months many...

June 23, 2013

Guidelines for a holistic sexual ethic, part 1

I know I told you the other day that I would be too busy to...

June 05, 2013

“You Are Not Your Own” Series: On Traditional Gender Roles and Dehumanization

This post is part of a series called“You Are Not Your Own,” focusing on rape and...

May 2013

May 24, 2013

Is there room for other perspectives in the evangelical conversation against purity culture?

Today, @mslooola, who I follow on the Twitters (#FF her for more great tweets on...

May 07, 2013

Elizabeth Smart, chewed gum, roses, cars, and me.

Trigger Warning for Rape, Sexual Assault, and "Slut Shaming" As you may have seen, this...

February 2013

February 23, 2013

On being a female body at a Christian college

[I wrote recently about learning to love my body for Lent. Part of that loving so...

November 2012

November 13, 2012

“Progressive” Christianity and Premarital Sex

Almost exactly one year ago, I read an article on Relevant Magazine that made me...

September 2012

September 04, 2012

Unseduced and Unshaken: A Book Review

The following is a book review of Rosalie de Rosset's book, Unseduced and...

July 2012

July 10, 2012

On Cornerstone…

I spent last Friday at the Christian music festival, Cornerstone, and I saw some interesting...