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Kurt W. Bubna

About Kurt Bubna

Kurt Bubna is a grace-soaked storyteller, cancer survivor, and self-proclaimed recovering idiot who writes and speaks with raw honesty, quirky humor, and unshakable hope. With compassion in one hand and a sarcastic grin in the other, he tackles life’s messiest moments—from divorce and disappointment to faith and forgiveness—always pointing back to the relentless love of God. A former pastor turned author and writing coach, Kurt is passionate about helping others write—and live—their redemptive story. Whether he’s mentoring writers, crafting hope-filled articles and books, or navigating his own chaos, he believes every setback is a setup for grace. He lives in the High Desert of Central Oregon with his wife, Katherine, a few well-worn cowboy boots, and a heart that beats for second chances. “Still standing. Still laughing. Still writing. Still growing… By grace alone.”

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Three Ways to Handle Religious Bullies

A lot of Christians reacted in anger when I posted on my... read more


Are Divorced People Stupid?

Despite how many in the Church treat divorced people, divorce is not an unpardonable... read more


What An Unexpected Death Can Teach You About...

Death is not a topic many of us want to think about... read more


How To Resolve Conflict Without Nuking Your Relationships

Conflict happens, and no one likes to hear this, but healthy conflict... read more


Why Shame Is A Problem And What To...

When it comes to relationships, shame is a silencer. When overwhelmed by... read more


Why You Must Check To See If Your...

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