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Kurt W. Bubna

About Kurt Bubna

Kurt Bubna is a grace-soaked storyteller, cancer survivor, and self-proclaimed recovering idiot who writes and speaks with raw honesty, quirky humor, and unshakable hope. With compassion in one hand and a sarcastic grin in the other, he tackles life’s messiest moments—from divorce and disappointment to faith and forgiveness—always pointing back to the relentless love of God. A former pastor turned author and writing coach, Kurt is passionate about helping others write—and live—their redemptive story. Whether he’s mentoring writers, crafting hope-filled articles and books, or navigating his own chaos, he believes every setback is a setup for grace. He lives in the High Desert of Central Oregon with his wife, Katherine, a few well-worn cowboy boots, and a heart that beats for second chances. “Still standing. Still laughing. Still writing. Still growing… By grace alone.”

All Posts by Kurt

The Unmasked And Naked Truth About Humans

Our way of life is far from perfect on this side of... read more


What To Do When A Relationship Is Broken

Relationships make life worth living despite stress or a less-than-fun situation. The... read more


You Don’t Have To Like Me

The desire to be liked and approved by others runs deep in... read more


Why You Shouldn’t Listen To All The Religious...

Many things in the Bible are not as black and white as... read more


How To Find Hope Despite A Broken Relationship 

Sometimes, failure stares me in the face and seems to mock my... read more


Life After Divorce (Yes, It's Possible)

Divorce is costly. Though not an unpardonable sin, when we fail at... read more


What I Hate About Christians (Us/Me)

Christians, like all humans, are far from perfect and subject to the... read more


Why Weird Is Wonderful (Seriously)

No one is truly normal. Everyone has quirks. Everybody has something somewhere... read more


Why Defining Moments Matter For All Of Us

Defining moments in life can happen fast and unexpectedly or result from... read more


What You Must Remember About Getting Old(ish)

We, collectively as a nation, are getting older—much older. About one in... read more



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