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Kurt W. Bubna

About Kurt Bubna

Kurt Bubna is a grace-soaked storyteller, cancer survivor, and self-proclaimed recovering idiot who writes and speaks with raw honesty, quirky humor, and unshakable hope. With compassion in one hand and a sarcastic grin in the other, he tackles life’s messiest moments—from divorce and disappointment to faith and forgiveness—always pointing back to the relentless love of God. A former pastor turned author and writing coach, Kurt is passionate about helping others write—and live—their redemptive story. Whether he’s mentoring writers, crafting hope-filled articles and books, or navigating his own chaos, he believes every setback is a setup for grace. He lives in the High Desert of Central Oregon with his wife, Katherine, a few well-worn cowboy boots, and a heart that beats for second chances. “Still standing. Still laughing. Still writing. Still growing… By grace alone.”

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A Word to Fallen Leaders and Pastors

I never thought I'd be here. I pictured a different finish. After... read more


Can a Fallen Pastor Ever Lead Again?

I have a box of old sermon resources. I don't open it... read more


When Christians Won't Let You Outlive Your Past

There are days when I still feel like an outcast. I wish... read more


Does Divorce Permanently Disqualify a Pastor?

Few church questions can divide a room faster than this one. Can... read more


How Do You Live Your Best Life?

When I say, "best life" I don't mean the version where everything... read more


Stop Living in the Land of What If

I thought I had a plan. Not a vague idea. A real... read more


What Happens When a Christian Keeps Failing?

What happens to a believer who keeps messing up or a leader... read more


When Submission in Marriage Gets Twisted & Misused

Some teachings in the church have caused more subtle damage than anyone... read more


When Adult Children Walk Away: A Word to...

There’s a lot of buzz on social media right now about adult... read more


When Porn Isn’t About Sex

I’ve sat across from more men than I can count, their eyes... read more



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