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2018-12-07T09:35:01-06:00

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Why My Heart Aches on Father’s Day

Last updated on: December 7, 2018 at 9:35 am By Amber Cantorna

“I’m so proud of you Amber,” my dad frequently told me growing up. He said it more times than I could count. It didn’t matter whether it was a new piece on the piano I had accomplished, a story I’d written, or a good grade I got on a test, my dad was good at telling me that he loved me, and that he was proud that I was his girl. As his only daughter, my dad and I were... Read more

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2018-12-07T09:35:23-06:00

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Our Internal Struggle with Power

Last updated on: December 7, 2018 at 9:35 am By Amber Cantorna

I have a confession: my wife and I enjoy binge watching Scandal. Similar to other TV series we’ve watched like Revenge, Prison Break, and Breaking Bad, something about the suspense and over-load of twisted details keeps us ever engaged and always wanting more. I can’t watch them week by week, mostly because my mind can’t keep track of all the intricate moving pieces that weave the story into the twisted plot that keeps me addicted. My wife is much... Read more

2018-12-07T09:35:42-06:00

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Just a Quick Note Before the Weekend to Say…

Last updated on: December 7, 2018 at 9:35 am By Amber Cantorna

Hey Everyone! So I haven’t fallen off the face of the earth. At least, not completely. I am still here and working hard for equality every day. In fact, it’s been such an insane couple of weeks that I can’t seem to even stop long enough to breathe and collect my thoughts in order to compile them into something coherent for you to read! I realize this is a problem. Breathing is in fact, important. And I am aiming to do... Read more

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2018-12-07T09:38:05-06:00

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The Unexpected People Who Change Your Life

Last updated on: December 7, 2018 at 9:38 am By Amber Cantorna

I’m amazed at how people can subtly change our life, sometimes without us even knowing it. This past week, because of an unexpected situation, I’ve been reflecting a lot on the people that have changed my life. Some of you know that I deal with chronic pain and undergo a somewhat intensive treatment on a regular basis. Last week, I walked into my doctor’s office with my wife and my service dog, Half Pint ready for another treatment. The three of... Read more

2018-12-07T09:38:31-06:00

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Mother’s Day Reflections from a Motherless LGBTQ Daughter

Last updated on: December 7, 2018 at 9:38 am By Amber Cantorna

I am a motherless LGBTQ daughter. My mother is not deceased, she does not live out of state, and my parents are not divorced. My mother lives only 60 miles from me, yet because of our differing religious beliefs, we are divided. We have not spoken in years. I never dreamed it would be this way. It certainly didn’t used to be. My mother and I used to talk on the phone at least once every day. Even after... Read more

2018-12-07T09:38:54-06:00

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Refocusing My Family and Beyond Update

Last updated on: December 7, 2018 at 9:38 am By Amber Cantorna

Dear Friend, Since my last email to you announcing the launch of Beyond, many exciting things have happened! Refocusing My Family is currently being reviewed by people for endorsements. Among those willing to endorse the book are author/theologian Brian D. McLaren, singer/songwriter Jennifer Knapp, Christian ethicist David Gushee, film producer of “For the Bible Tells Me So” Daniel Karslake, and well known blogger and activist John Pavlovitz, as well as about a dozen others. I’m excited about... Read more

2018-12-07T09:39:18-06:00

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Finding Comfort in the Unknown

Last updated on: December 7, 2018 at 9:39 am By Amber Cantorna

I’m always inspired by how easily wonder and mystery comes for little children. Their eyes get big as they believe in the impossible, or they might gasp in awe at something that to them seems like pure magic. For them, it’s so simple. They’re so full of belief, so curious, and so easily excited by discovering the things that we, as adults, think of as mundane. Growing up, there was a certain degree of magical wonder in our home. We believed... Read more

2018-12-07T09:39:43-06:00

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Choosing to Carry New Life Past Easter Sunday

Last updated on: December 7, 2018 at 9:39 am By Amber Cantorna

It is now two days after Easter and I suspect most of us spent a good chunk of yesterday recovering from Easter festivities. The Easter bunny may have visited your home or left baskets for your little ones. If you were lucky, he might have even left a basket for you! You most likely attended a church service of some kind or shared a meal with family or friends. But now that Easter is over, what’s next? How do we carry that... Read more

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2018-07-10T07:32:14-06:00

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5 Years Ago Today I Came Out (Video)

Last updated on: July 10, 2018 at 7:32 am By Amber Cantorna

5 years ago today, I came out to my family. This is my “It Gets Better” story to commemorate this day: https://youtu.be/w5lIcRy8pEs?t=29s You can read my story by clicking here: Refocusing My Family. Please consider partnering with us as we launch our new non-profit for LGBT people of faith, called Beyond. For more information, click this link: Beyond Campaign Launch. Read more

2018-07-10T07:32:14-06:00

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An Exciting Announcement from Amber Cantorna!!!

Last updated on: July 10, 2018 at 7:32 am By Amber Cantorna

Please watch this short video and then read the letter below!!! https://youtu.be/yDk07mpdWd4 (If you would like to view this video in ASL, go to AmberCantorna.com and hover over the “Donate” tab) Dear Friend, Five years ago this week, I sat my family down and spoke the three most terrifying words of my life: “I am gay.” Growing up in a fundamentalist, home-schooled, conservative Christian family with a father that’s been an executive at Focus on the Family for almost thirty... Read more

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