We Have a Volunteer!

Last updated on: August 22, 2014 at 3:57 pm by Rebecca Frech

We Have a Volunteer! 2014-08-22T15:57:17-05:00 Rebecca Frech

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Last week, I kicked our 8 year old out of the family. I’d had enough of his whining and complaining. I was done arguing with him, so he was out.

He said: “I hate doing schoolwork. I wish school didn’t exist. I don’t want to work. I just want to play, and I hate this family.”

So, I picked him up and carried him out onto the front porch and locked the door behind him. We have other children, what’s one more or less?

I opened the door and handed him his shoes. I thought he might need them on his way to his new life. He wasn’t mine anymore, but that was no reason for him to be barefoot in the cold.

He sat on the curb and wailed and cried at the top of his lungs. I’m not sure he was really that heart-broken, he was mad, and when he gets mad he wails. He’s always been a wailer, but it has gotten better as he has gotten older. Maybe by the time he’s 50, he won’t do it anymore.

My next door neighbor called me and said, “Why is #2 sitting on the curb and crying?”

“Because I kicked him out of our family.”

“Oh, alright.”

Have I mentioned that I love my neighbor? She thinks my parenting style is amusing rather than abusive.

A bit later, he came and knocked on the door and said, “I’m ready to be part of our family again.”

I brought him in and announced to his siblings, “We have our very first voluntary family member. The rest of you got stuck with us, but #2 chose us out of all the families in the world.” The other children, sharing their mother’s sense of humor, cheered, whistled, and clapped. They welcomed him to the fold.

Just as I was patting myself on the back for my good parenting skills, he looked up at me and said, “Don’t get too excited, Mom. I just couldn’t figure out how to get to anyone else’s house.”

Sounds like love to me!

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