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Is Christianity Too Hard… Or Are We Making It That Way?

Is Christianity Too Hard… Or Are We Making It That Way?

Last updated on: July 11, 2025 at 3:29 pm by Benjamin Raven Pressley

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Is Christianity Too Hard… Or Are We Making It That Way? 2025-07-11T15:29:57-04:00 Benjamin Raven Pressley

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The Bidding For Your Soul

“You might be saved but now you gotta…” Picture courtesy of Free church clip art

All of my life, I have observed how many religious institutions have kept Christ just out of the reach of people. Preachers scream out His name from the pulpit, followed by ‘Just As I Am,’ and people come to the altar. Jesus gloriously saves all who come. Then the bidding for your soul begins. “Yes, you are saved”, they say, “but now you gotta…”

And then it begins. I have been there, done that and oh, buddy do I have the T-shirt to prove it! I remember when I got saved and filled with the Holy Spirit, how free I was, indescribably free. I felt so clean, unfettered. Then it was you have to do this, you have to do that, you have to cut off this and grow out that and stop doing this. I remember one day I said to myself, I felt freer before I was saved than I did now that I was saved. Now it is at this point that I believe a lot of people quit. They can’t live the life that is required of them. My encounter with Christ was too real, though. I was not going to give up that easily. But something was definitely wrong.

It is at this point that most people, if they have not given up decide they will try harder. I am going to say something that may sound a little crazy to some of you out there: Trying harder can be just as bad as quitting. Trying harder is a trap that can lead to so much confusion and heartache. It is like being lost in a labyrinth. We go this way and that and just get more and more deeply lost. I mean, think about it, when will what you are doing be good enough?

I knew this girl once who had a sincere desire to live for God and she bought every book by every Christian author that came out. I don’t doubt her desire and love for God, but, she was the most confused, bound person I ever knew. I counseled with her as her friend on many occasions. Last I heard, she was in a bad marriage and doesn’t even live for Christ anymore. It is sad. My heart goes out to people like this.

Maybe if you are reading this, you are one of those people. If you are, I have good news. You don’t have to be that way. You can be free.

The Good News Is You Can Be Free

In Galatians 3:2-3 it says: “This only would I learn of you, Received ye the Spirit by the works of the law, or by the hearing of faith? Are ye so foolish? Having begun in the Spirit, are ye now made perfect by the flesh?”

So, here is the root of the problem.

We are saved by grace, it is a work of God, a work of His Spirit. Then once we are saved, we think we have to do the rest in our own strength, in our flesh, as these verses put it. As Apostle Paul, the author of the book of Galatians, puts it, it is foolish to even think we can be made perfect by any effort of our own. This is why so many live in such utter frustration and even condemnation. They are trying to live for God in the flesh, in their own works. You couldn’t save yourself from sin; that is why you came to Christ to begin with. Why do you think you can do it on your own now?

According to Romans 11:6, it has to be one or the other. It has to be by grace or by works. Which is it? “And if by grace, then is it no more of works: otherwise, grace is no more grace. But if it be of works, then it is no more grace: otherwise, work is no more work.” That’s pretty plain, isn’t it? Before Jesus died on the cross to save us from our sins, people were supposed to live by the law as described in the Ten Commandments (Exodus 20:3-17) and as described in the first five books of our Bible, known then as the Torah or Pentateuch. But early on, people were told if they failed in even one point of the law, they were guilty of all (Deuteronomy 27:26. Reiterated in James 2:10 and Galatians 3:10).

That was why Jesus died on the cross in our place, because He was the only one who was perfect. Our judgment was placed upon Him. He bought our salvation with His precious blood. If it could be done by works, then Christ would not have had to come to suffer and die as He did.

If you are truly born again, His law is written on your heart (Romans 12:14-15).

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“But I Have To Do More, God Expects Us To.” Does He?

I think people mean well and they really love God and their struggle to do things for God is not open rebellion. I believe most people sincerely want to live for God and think it is pleasing to God the way they are living for Him. After all, they are doing good things, right? That being said, though, sooner or later, a person frantically trying to please God runs into that wall that they cannot climb. You know what wall I mean? That wall with that big billboard on it that says, “It’s not good enough. Climb this wall, too.”

Stop.

Stop right where you are and receive this: God is pleased with you!

He is pleased with you because of what His son Jesus has accomplished and He is pleased you have believed that.

You can’t add to what Jesus has done. God looks at those who have believed and sees His Son, not the person. What could be better than that? Is it really that easy? Yes, it is really that easy. Am I saying you don’t have to live right and you can live any way you want? What I am saying is if you have really believed in the Lord Jesus Christ because you know you cannot live a righteous life in yourself, you have come to Him knowing you were a sinner and trusted Him for forgiveness of your sins, then– you won’t want to live any other way. Your desires will be changed. That is what Psalms 37:4 means when it says he will give you the desires of your heart means.

In other words, He will give you the desires you should have. You will be doing work for the kingdom because you want to, not because you have to or because you think you have to please God by your works—you will do it because you can’t help but do it because you are so in love with the Lord. Love will bubble over and flood out on others in abundance. You won’t be able to contain it. You will be drawn to His Holy Word. You will have a desire to worship and do kingdom work with other believers. You will want to forgive and tell others the gospel.

Unsaved people often tell me, “Man, you must lead a pretty boring life. All you do is go to church and stuff.” I tell them, “Hey, I party all I want. I drink and smoke all I want—I just don’t want to!”

Do you see the difference?

If your desire is for the things of this world and you are having to make yourself live right, it could be that you haven’t really been saved. That isn’t a judgment; it is just worth exploring. Ask the Holy Spirit like David did, “Search me, O God, and know my heart: try me, and know my thoughts: And see if there be any wicked way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting.” (Psalms 139:23-24) Also meditate upon this prayer by David and see if it is a prayer you can pray from your heart: Psalms 51:1-17.

“Search me, O God, and know my heart: try me, and know my thoughts: And see if there be any wicked way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting.” (Psalms 139:23-24)

If you know that you are saved or “born again” as Jesus calls it in John 3:3 and you are living under this bondage of trying to please God and you want to be free to live and love the Lord like I am talking about, it starts by having a relationship with God Himself. It isn’t about religion, that’s a man-made thing; It is about relationship. It is also knowing who you are in Christ, knowing and believing what the Word says about you is truer than how you feel about it.

When you realize who you are in Christ and what He has accomplished on your behalf, then it will become natural for you to live for God. Not struggling. Not trying to pay a debt you think you owe. You will be transformed. You will be free.

I so want to see the people of God free. I so want you to be free. Do you know who you are in Christ? Are you sure? Don’t be lost in the labyrinth any longer. Determine yourself today and KNOW YOU ARE FREE.

Are We Doing Enough?

Do you ever as a Christian feel like you’re not doing enough for the kingdom? When I read about spiritual giants like D.L. Moody, Billy Graham, Charles G. Finney and others I cannot help thinking how far I fall short compared to these amazing people’s accomplishments. I know what the Holy Spirit spoke to me as plain as day and told me to not compare myself to others and to only look to Jesus as my model. How true that is. He set the example how we are to walk upon this earth. And as I pondered these thoughts and thought about Jesus I thought about just how relevant and natural He was. He didn’t have big crusades He just lived the truth. He was so real that tax collectors, thieves and harlots respected Him and were drawn to His truth because He lived it, He walked it, He embodied it. He never compromised on what the truth was or backed down under pressure but He loved people. He was about relationship not starting another religion. I am thankful how God used D.L. Moody, Billy Graham, Charles G. Finney and others.

The Holy Spirit used them to shake and awaken a nation. But I remember reading about D.L. Moody saying something like “I just set myself on fire and people are always drawn to a fire”. I like that. It tells me to live a life that my walk with God is as natural as the air I breathe not some project or evangelistic crusade. Live for Christ like it is relevant because it is. And as opportunity arises don’t back down or be ashamed of what you believe just lovingly draw people to the truth by the power of the Holy Spirit.
—Benjamin Raven Pressley

“You must be free to see the Great Spirit in the form he appears to you. He may appear to you to be a monster at first or a seemingly powerless little girl, but he speaks. Don’t let appearances fool you. There are teachers all around you if you but open your eyes. They may be gentle and they may be fierce. They may seem like they want to kill you sometimes but in reality, they are the smith that heats and pounds the steel to draw out the sword only he sees within you. A true teacher is not here to fight our battles, but to whisper from our heart, reminding us it is us, it is every one of us who holds the power over the worlds we create and the things we give our power away to. Deny it if you will, you can try but the Creator’s love is such that he will not let up because he believes so much in you that he will just keep sending a teacher in another form until you recognize and receive him. When the student is ready the teacher will be recognized, then greatness begins! Try to convince yourself that they can’t be real. But they show up anyway, sometimes at the strangest of places and times. They will shout through demons if they have to but if you are truly discerning, truly listening for the Creator’s voice you will not be shaken by what seems to be a threat but you will hear the Spirit’s voice daring you to be and do more than you ever thought possible, challenging you to fight. That monster you thought would surely kill you? Listen closer for he sings ‘You will not die’. Learn to laugh at the lies. Let the Spirit teach you what is real and what you will die to defend. Know that every chain that seems to bind you, he holds the key to unleash you. It is he who teaches our fingers to war and helps us see that we have all the weapons we need to fight.”
—Benjamin Raven Pressley

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American Preacher Reformers: A Legacy of Faith and Change

This list highlights influential American preachers who played significant roles in religious revivals and social reform movements throughout U.S. history. Their passionate preaching and dedication often led to profound societal shifts.

Jonathan Edwards
- Era/Movement: First Great Awakening (1730s-1740s)
- Key Contributions/Focus: Theologian, philosopher, prominent figure of the First Great Awakening. Emphasized personal conversion and God’s sovereignty.
- Notable Characteristics: Fiery sermons (e.g., “Sinners in the Hands of an Angry God”), intellectual depth, sparked widespread revivals in New England.
George Whitefield
- Era/Movement: First Great Awakening (1730s-1740s)
- Key Contributions/Focus: Transatlantic revivalist, known for his open-air preaching across the American colonies and Britain.
- Notable Characteristics: Dynamic and dramatic delivery, powerful voice (could reach thousands without amplification), emphasized “new birth” and personal conversion.
Charles G. Finney
- Era/Movement: Second Great Awakening (early-mid 19th century)
- Key Contributions/Focus: “Father of Modern Revivalism,” promoted “new measures” in evangelism, early abolitionist, president of Oberlin College.
- Notable Characteristics: Protracted meetings, emotional appeals, “anxious bench,” emphasized individual responsibility and human agency in conversion; advocated for social reforms.
Lyman Beecher
- Era/Movement: Second Great Awakening (early-mid 19th century)
- Key Contributions/Focus: Prominent Presbyterian minister, social reformer, advocated for temperance and other moral causes. Father of Harriet Beecher Stowe.
- Notable Characteristics: Influential speaker, connected religious fervor to broader social reform movements.
Richard Allen
- Era/Movement: Early 19th Century / African Methodist Episcopal Church
- Key Contributions/Focus: Former slave, founder and first bishop of the African Methodist Episcopal (AME) Church, a crucial institution for African American religious and social life.
- Notable Characteristics: Pioneering leader in establishing independent Black churches, advocating for racial equality and self-determination.
Peter Cartwright
- Era/Movement: Second Great Awakening (early-mid 19th century)
- Key Contributions/Focus: Methodist “circuit rider” evangelist, known for his rugged frontier ministry.
- Notable Characteristics: Preached extensively on the American frontier, engaging large camp meeting crowds with powerful, often emotional, sermons.
D.L. Moody
- Era/Movement: Post-Civil War Urban Revivals (late 19th century)
- Key Contributions/Focus: Evangelist, founder of Moody Bible Institute, pioneered large-scale urban crusades.
- Notable Characteristics: Simple, direct preaching style, emphasis on personal salvation, collaborated with hymn writer Ira D. Sankey, significant international impact.
Billy Sunday
- Era/Movement: Early 20th Century Urban Revivals
- Key Contributions/Focus: Former professional baseball player turned highly theatrical evangelist, significant during the Prohibition era.
- Notable Characteristics: Energetic, dramatic, and often acrobatic preaching style, used common language, championed moral reform and temperance.
Aimee Semple McPherson
- Era/Movement: Early 20th Century / Pentecostalism
- Key Contributions/Focus: Charismatic evangelist, media pioneer, founder of the International Church of the Foursquare Gospel.
- Notable Characteristics: Utilized radio and elaborate stage productions, preached healing and the “Foursquare Gospel,” highly influential female evangelist.
Martin Luther King Jr.
- Era/Movement: Mid-20th Century / Civil Rights Movement
- Key Contributions/Focus: Baptist minister, leader of the Civil Rights Movement, advocate for nonviolent civil disobedience.
- Notable Characteristics: Eloquent orator, deeply rooted in Christian theology, galvanized a movement for racial justice and equality through powerful sermons and speeches.
Billy Graham
- Era/Movement: Mid-late 20th Century / “New Evangelicalism”
- Key Contributions/Focus: One of the most widely known evangelists in history, conducted massive “crusades” globally, advised numerous U.S. presidents.
- Notable Characteristics: Clear, direct gospel message, utilized mass media (radio, television), promoted ecumenical cooperation among Protestants, popularized evangelical Christianity.

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About Benjamin Raven Pressley

Benjamin Raven Pressley is an author, teacher and spiritual guide. He is of Cherokee heritage. He has been a follower of the teachings of Jesus Christ and the apostles since 1975. His independent studies include the Holy Bible as well as other holy books of other religions. He is ordained by the Universal Life Church. He is a self-taught naturalist and his love and respect for nature is evident in many of the things he writes. He has authored several books on spirituality as well as a fantasy series and books on survival skills. He does not consider himself to be a religious person but believes true spirituality is an all-encompassing view of life and invites open discussion on matters of spirituality. Find out more about the many resources he offers at WayoftheRaven.net/Wheres-Raven You can read more about the author here.

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