At The Personalist Project: When Friendship Doesn’t Go Far Enough

codependency

friendship

Linkiness

The Personalist Project

2017-03-01T09:39:27-04:00

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Ash Wednesday

Last updated on: March 1, 2017 at 9:39 am By Kate Cousino

Today is Ash Wednesday. In a little while, I will go to Mass and receive ashes on my forehead, a reminder of mortality and my own weakness. It occurs to me that, for all the scoffing at people who are “only Christian on Sundays,” that it might be true that the only time any of succeed in being entirely unhypocritical is that moment each week when we stand alongside everyone else and say, “Lord, I am not worthy that you... Read more

Poetry

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Ash Wednesday

Lent

2017-02-28T23:13:07-04:00

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Fat Tuesday and the Good of Created Things

Last updated on: February 28, 2017 at 11:13 pm By Kate Cousino

It says something interesting about Catholic culture that Pancake Tuesday and Shrove Tuesday sit comfortably alongside each other as alternate names for the same day. Indulgence and confession, enjoyment and penitence, on a single day of the calendar. “Shrove” and “Shrivetide” refer to the practice of using the time immediately before Lent to examine one’s conscience and attend confession. In Catholic England (carrying over into Anglican England), the Shrive bells would chime in the village church to both call penitents... Read more

Body and Soul

Ash Wednesday

Fat Tuesday

Lent

2017-02-25T15:20:47-04:00

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Terrible, Horrible, No-Good, Very Bad Day

Last updated on: February 25, 2017 at 3:20 pm By Kate Cousino

Yesterday I wrote about meeting life’s small thorns with grace in the pursuit of virtue. So naturally, my day so far has included: My oldest son waking up several hours before the rest of us were ready to get up, and forgetting how to turn off his alarm clock, to his brother and mother and sister’s shared chagrin. Tired, cranky arguments over the course of the morning. Running out of pancakes at breakfast before everyone was full. A child... Read more

Parenting

Kids

2017-02-25T00:20:09-04:00

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At The Personalist Project: A Lent of Tiny Thorns

Last updated on: February 25, 2017 at 12:20 am By Kate Cousino

What is the use of giving up something like dessert? Dessert is not an immoral thing under most circumstances, and moderate enjoyment of physical pleasures can help us to be contented and pleasant to the people around us. Self-denial does not obviously or directly make us more loving or kind or generous to others, so what IS the point? But perhaps that is the point. Self-denial takes away some of the comfortable props we lean on to... Read more

Body and Soul

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Lent

The Personalist Project

virtue

2017-02-23T17:35:49-04:00

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Touching the Wall

Last updated on: February 23, 2017 at 5:35 pm By Kate Cousino

There is a scene in Henry Poole is Here where the protagonist comes to a breaking point. Weeks before he was diagnosed with a rapidly fatal terminal disease, and he has come to spend his last weeks in a run-down house in the neighbourhood where he grew up, getting drunk and coping in relative obscurity and anonymity. Of course, this being a movie, his life is quickly populated and complicated with and by a motley cast of quirky neighbours... Read more

Hope

Movies

Henry Poole is Here

review

2017-02-22T16:30:39-04:00

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Heart Speaks to Heart

Last updated on: February 22, 2017 at 4:30 pm By Kate Cousino

I wrote yesterday about why I don’t write a ton on specific theological controversies. I had a conversation today that made me think a little more deeply about that, and about how I would “give answer for the hope that I have.” It’s easy to burn out on theology and doctrine and all the rest of the trappings of faith, I think. I’ve certainly been burned and burnt out by the confusion of trying to rationally break down and comprehend... Read more

burnout

evangelization

Heart Speaks to Heart

Newman

2017-02-21T16:25:04-04:00

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Why I don’t have an opinion on the Dubia

Last updated on: February 21, 2017 at 4:25 pm By Kate Cousino

A friend called me recently and challenged me to defend Pope Francis in light of theological controversy over some of his writings on marriage and pastoral options in complicated situations. I demurred–mildly at first, and then with what was probably surprising vehemence. To be fair to my friend, much of our friendship was built over frequent debates on theology, history, liturgy, Church politics, philosophy, and the like. We’ve disagreed at least as frequently as we’ve agreed, but it’s only recently... Read more

2017-02-16T12:21:50-04:00

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At The Personalist Project: Tin Pacifists and the Search for Meaning

Last updated on: February 16, 2017 at 12:21 pm By Kate Cousino

“The Socialist who finds his children playing with soldiers is usually upset, but he is never able to think of a substitute for the tin soldiers; tin pacifists somehow won’t do.” – George Orwell, review of Mein Kampf Since the horrific mosque shooting in Quebec City a few weeks ago, I’ve been wondering how it is that ordinary young men (and women) get swept up into violent ideologies. Past that, I’ve been wondering how we can counter those ideas and... Read more

Hope

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