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October 2016

October 03, 2016

Salt Lake Tribune Op-ed: Accurate Sex Education for Teens

With three colleagues of mine - all experienced therapists working within the Mormon community and...

September 2016

September 30, 2016

I’m Gay and this is My Church Too!

With General Conference among us, I know we are bound to hear much about the...

September 28, 2016

Troubling Report is Disavowed – Yes, of course!

Today, faculty members of John Hopkins University published an op-ed in The Baltimore Sun, Hopkins faculty...

September 26, 2016

“Virtue” Reclaimed

I remember being taught in YW and Sunday school as a youth that it would...

September 20, 2016

A Critique on “The Great Porn Experiment”

In 2012 Gary Wilson gave a Ted Talk called The Great Porn Experiment where many claims...

September 17, 2016

I’m aroused… Now what?

So after yesterday's post I thought I'd offer the following suggestions parents can talk to...

September 13, 2016

Upcoming Presentations – Take Advantage

I am often asked if I would be willing to present in areas outside of...

September 12, 2016

Messages Teens Pick Up when we Teach Shame-Based Sex Ed

Today’s guest post is written by Maya Dehlin. Opinions shared on guest posts may not completely...

September 09, 2016

The tired question: Do people “choose” to be gay?

Today’s guest post is written by Dr. Jim Pfaus. Opinions shared on guest posts may not...

September 08, 2016

Atlantis Article… Are you kidding me?

The recent article regarding gender and sexual orientation posted in The New Atlantis has started...

September 07, 2016

Beware of Sex Addiction Assessments

Many people take online "sex/porn addiction" assessments to see if they would qualify for the...

September 06, 2016

Beware of Sex Addiction Treatment

I have written and talked a lot about the controversial issues surrounding "sex/porn addiction." This...

August 2016

August 30, 2016

A Ward’s Embrace to a Gay LDS Couple

Today’s guest post is written by Nick Einbender. Opinions shared on guest posts may not completely...

August 29, 2016

What is Sex Positivity?

What is meant when you use the term "sex positive?" This is an excellent question....

August 22, 2016

Should I Stay or Should I Go?

I do not understand how any sex positive person would choose to be Mormon. It...

August 11, 2016

Upcoming Mormon Matters Retreat!

I'm excited to announce that I will be leading the following retreat, Navigating a Healthy...

July 2016

July 01, 2016

Tone Does Need to Change

Today’s guest post is written by Lori Bolland Embree. Opinions shared on guest posts may not...

June 2016

June 30, 2016

Crisis Facing our LGBTQ+ Members

I don't want to use triggering or sensational language at a time like we are...

June 04, 2016

Rainbow Mormon Initiative Launch

Tomorrow will begin the Rainbow Mormon Initiative, founded by my colleague Dr. Kristy Money. This...

May 2016

May 24, 2016

Should teen sexting be outlawed?

Should teen sexting be outlawed? Or should it be a slap on the wrist with...

May 06, 2016

A Mama Dragon’s Support for Tyler Glenn

Today's guest post is written by Lori Bolland Embree. Opinions shared on guest posts may not...

May 03, 2016

Presenting at KS City Oasis

What better way to spend Mother's Day than to talk to people about healthy sexuality!!?...

May 02, 2016

Where is the Church’s Accountability?

Thank you to Peter Moosman for today's guest post. Opinions shared on guest posts may not...

May 01, 2016

How can you stand by the evils of homosexuality?

How can you call yourself a member of our Church when you stand by the...

April 2016

April 25, 2016

Rape Culture Alive and Well

It's difficult for me when you use such language as "rape culture" to describe our...

April 20, 2016

“I thought I was the only one” – No Longer!

"I see a lot of other women saying things like, "I thought I was the...

April 15, 2016

Upcoming Events I’ll be Presenting At

I will be out in Salt Lake City, Utah this following weekend for several events....

April 15, 2016

News of BYU Rape Policies are Triggering Me….

About 10 years ago I was attending BYU-Provo and found myself in a situation where...

February 2016

February 14, 2016

Prioritizing love, intimacy & relationship…

Over the last several years I have worked with my colleague and friend, John Dehlin,...

February 04, 2016

Upcoming Presentations in Arizona

For those of you who are interested - I will be one of the presenters...