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August 2016

August 22, 2016

Should I Stay or Should I Go?

I do not understand how any sex positive person would choose to be Mormon. It...

August 11, 2016

Upcoming Mormon Matters Retreat!

I'm excited to announce that I will be leading the following retreat, Navigating a Healthy...

June 2016

June 04, 2016

Rainbow Mormon Initiative Launch

Tomorrow will begin the Rainbow Mormon Initiative, founded by my colleague Dr. Kristy Money. This...

May 2016

May 24, 2016

Should teen sexting be outlawed?

Should teen sexting be outlawed? Or should it be a slap on the wrist with...

May 07, 2016

A Not-A-Mother’s Thoughts For Mother’s Day

Today’s guest post is written by Janell Jensen Gehmlich and is a slightly edited copy...

May 03, 2016

Presenting at KS City Oasis

What better way to spend Mother's Day than to talk to people about healthy sexuality!!?...

April 2016

April 15, 2016

Upcoming Events I’ll be Presenting At

I will be out in Salt Lake City, Utah this following weekend for several events....

April 15, 2016

News of BYU Rape Policies are Triggering Me….

About 10 years ago I was attending BYU-Provo and found myself in a situation where...

February 2016

February 15, 2016

Boundaries for Worthiness Interviews

My daughter is turning 12 this week. The bishopric called to schedule her Beehive interview....

February 14, 2016

Prioritizing love, intimacy & relationship…

Over the last several years I have worked with my colleague and friend, John Dehlin,...

February 04, 2016

Upcoming Presentations in Arizona

For those of you who are interested - I will be one of the presenters...

January 2016

January 31, 2016

Suicide Awareness and Prevention: 10 Things We All Can Do

It's one thing to advocate for awareness of the discrimination against LGBTQ members that is...

January 27, 2016

When my Loved Ones Don’t Leave the Church

Faith transitions are brutal - for everyone involved. Those who are facing information or experiences...

January 26, 2016

Intimacy vs. Protection Quote

Protection, although often loving, is not intimacy. It may be a part of intimacy -...

January 20, 2016

Guest Post re LGBT Policy

The following is published with permission and written by Wiktoria Heinz, MD. Dr. Heinz is...

January 09, 2016

Midwest Workshop – Healing from Faith Transitions

REGISTRATION FOUND AT THE FOLLOWING LINK:

December 2015

December 17, 2015

How do we Support our Gay Teen?

Our teenager has come out to us as possibly being gay. We are pretty sure...

December 06, 2015

4 Bullies to Avoid During the Holidays

The Holiday season can be a mixed bag for sure when it comes to our...

December 04, 2015

Upcoming Sexual Intimacy Workshops in December

I'll be giving two presentations while I'm out in Utah during Christmas break in a...

November 2015

November 29, 2015

Spiritual Thoughts for the Day

Some scriptures I heard discussed in a sermon today that are so relevant when we...

November 13, 2015

Clarification is Deficient

The First Presidency came out with a 'clarification' letter today regarding the policies that were released...

November 12, 2015

Families Post #5

These stories are very personal and can be emotionally and psychologically triggering. Anonymous Last night...

November 12, 2015

Families Post #4

These stories are very personal and can be emotionally and psychologically triggering. Alyssa Carlson Paquette...

November 08, 2015

Families Affected by New Policy

I received permission from both Devon & Ashley Gibby and Kate (who I'm leaving last...

October 2015

October 28, 2015

A Call for Accepting all Families

Families have been widely varied throughout all of history - from how many children, to...

October 20, 2015

One More Day to Register… Let’s Talk About Sex

Let's Talk About Sex - How to talk about what we don’t know how to...

October 16, 2015

I think I’m going through a faith crisis…

I think I'm going through what I hear is a 'faith crisis.' I've been struggling...

October 08, 2015

Upcoming Let’s Talk About Sex Seminar

Let's Talk About Sex - How to talk about what we don’t know how to...

February 2015

February 13, 2015

The Effects of Excommunication on All of Us: Healing Perspectives

This week the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints has once again been in the...