BuddhistCatholicContemplativeEvangelicalGeneral ChristianHinduJewishLatter-day SaintMuslimNew VisionsProgressive Christian
Beliefs
- Buddhist
- Catholic
- Contemplative
- Evangelical
- General Christian
- Hindu
- Jewish
- Latter-day Saint
- More Voices
- Muslim
- New Visions
- Pagan
- Progressive Christian
Topics
- Religion News
- Food and Religion
- Sports and Religion
- Religious Art
- Religious Music and Entertainment
- Religious Events
- History and Religion
- Style and Religion
- Politics and Religion
- Women in Religion
- Recreation Outdoors and Religion
- Business Finance and Religion
- Careers Workplace and Religion
- Education and Religion
- Family Parenting and Religion
- Health Fitness and Religion
- Home and Religion
- Relationships and Religion
- Technology and Religion
- Travel and Religion
Columnists
- Buddhist Columnists
- Business Finance and Religion Columnists
- Careers Workplace and Religion Columnists
- Catholic Columnists
- Contemplative Columnists
- Education and Religion Columnists
- Evangelists Columnists
- Family Parenting and Religion Columnists
- General Christian Columnists
- Health Fitness and Religion Columnists
- Hindu Columnists
- History and Religion Columnists
- Home and Religion Columnists
- Jewish Columnists
- More Voices Columnists
- Latter Day Columnists
- Muslim Columnists
- New Visions Columnists
- Nonreligious Columnists
- Pagan Columnists
- Politics and Religion Columnists
- Progressive Columnists
- Recreation Outdoors and Religion Columnists
- Relationships and Religion Columnists
- Religion News Columnists
- Religious Art Columnists
- Religious Events Columnists
- Religious Music and Entertainment Columnists
- Sports and Religion Columnists
- Style and Religion Columnists
- Technology and Religion Columnists
- Travel and Religion Columnists
- Women in Religion Columnists
Resource Library
- 2026 Calendar
- Library of World Religions
- The 100 Most Holy Places on Earth
- Patheos Answers
- Podcasts
- Videos
- Faith Leaders Database
- Anglican Episcopalian
- Bahai
- Baptist
- Buddhism
- Christianity
- Confucianism
- Eastern Orthodoxy
- Hinduism
- Holiness and Pentecostal
- ISKCON
- Islam
- Judaism
- Lutheran
- Methodist
- The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
- New Age
- Paganism
- Presbytarian and Reformed
- Protestantism
- Religion Behind the Scenes
- Roman Catholic
- Scientology
- Shia Islam
- Sikhism
- Sufism
- Sunni Islam
- Taoism
- Zen
- See all religions
Research Tools
Ad-Free & Subscriber Log-In Subscription Support
Ad-Free & Subscriber Log-In Subscription Support
- Trending:
- Forgiveness
- |
- Marriage
- |
- Consciousness
- |
- Death Penalty
- |
- Election
- |
- Halloween
Modern Kinship
- Home
- Progressive Christian
- A Clenched Fist When We Need Open Hands
A Clenched Fist When We Need Open Hands
Last updated on: August 30, 2017 at 11:43 am by David and Constantino Khalaf
A Clenched Fist When We Need Open Hands 2017-08-30T11:43:42-07:00 David and Constantino Khalaf
Patheos Explore the world's faith through different perspectives on religion and spirituality! Patheos has the views of the prevalent religions and spiritualities of the world.
We wish our brothers at the Council on Biblical Manhood and Womanhood had refrained from putting forth their ill-timed “Nashville Statement.” We wish they hadn’t felt compelled to draw this line in the sand. The history of the Church reads like a catalog of these kinds of lines, and none of them have ever brought us any closer to the Kingdom. Lines serve one purpose: to divide.

The question in both our minds, as we talked about this over dinner was, “But why?” We can’t help but wonder what the point is of this grandstanding. It is difficult for us to understand the need for such a statement because, as far as we are concerned, the Apostles’ Creed is as close as we can get to a manifesto of our own—as close as we can get to an ironclad statement of our faith:
We believe in God, the Father almighty, creator of heaven and earth.
We believe in Jesus Christ, God’s only Son, our Lord, who was conceived by the Holy Spirit, born of the Virgin Mary, suffered under Pontius Pilate, was crucified, died, and was buried; he descended to the dead. On the third day he rose again; he ascended into heaven, he is seated at the right hand of the Father, and he will come to judge the living and the dead.
We believe in the Holy Spirit, the holy catholic Church, the communion of saints, the forgiveness of sins, the resurrection of the body, and the life everlasting. Amen.
Even this, we strive to hold with open hands. We pray we never get so caught up in the pride of our convictions that we lose sight of the lessons God may have for us. We’ve come to think of these not so much as truths we are called to defend, but truths in which we’ve entrusted ourselves:
We trust in God; we trust in Jesus Christ; we trust in the Holy Spirit. We know them to exist; we sense them to be One; we are convinced that this trinitarian God is good.
That is the extent of what we could call our “Portland Statement.”
Article 10 in the CBMW’s statement is the opposite of an open hand. It is a fist, clenched and ready to strike:
WE AFFIRM that it is sinful to approve of homosexual immorality or transgenderism and that such approval constitutes an essential departure from Christian faithfulness and witness.
WE DENY that the approval of homosexual immorality or transgenderism is a matter of moral indifference about which otherwise faithful Christians should agree to disagree.
Without so much as a single reference to scripture, the men who wrote this (and the few women who have since co-signed it) are going beyond what even the Church fathers did with the ancient creeds—they are declaring their own unsupported statements to be the sine qua non of the Christian faith.
That level of arrogance, coming from followers of the Carpenter who blessed the meek, is astounding. It saddens us to see our siblings’ actions stray so far from Christ’s approach to loving others. It worries us to see them display the hubris of the Pharisees Jesus so often corrected.
Above all, we worry about the damage this statement will do. The fact is the CBMW’s words do not hurt us personally; they have no bearing on our lives, and they will certainly never come between us and the Lord we so love. But not all LGBTQ people have the community we’ve found or the strength in our faith we have attained.
What the authors and signers of this manifesto fail to see is that their bad news—their anti-gospel—will destroy families and bring schism to local churches. It will drive away from God those who are clinging to their faith by a thread. Once a line is drawn, many will see it as a wall raised between them and God.
In a week when America’s fourth largest city is underwater and tens of thousands have seen their lives turned upside down, a month when the possibility of nuclear war has increased tenfold, a year when our country stands perilously divided, a statement such as this boggles the mind. It is outrageous that when the men at CBMW finally loosen their fists, it is only to ask for money:
“In the months and years to come,” they write, “the mission of CBMW will include distributing The Nashville Statement and developing resources to equip pastors and churches to stand firm for the Bible’s teaching on marriage and sexuality. One way you can be involved is to join us in prayer for the Lord’s blessing on our efforts, as well as to make a financial gift in support of this very important work.”
It seems to us that in the months and years to come, the work of Christians will need to be focused on godlier calls—on the more difficult tasks of reconciliation and healing, and on helping the poor and downtrodden. It’s easy to draw lines in the sand—it’s far more difficult to wade out into the ocean to help those who are drowning.
Like our Facebook page and follow us on Twitter for more.
Get all our updates
Previous Post

July 13, 2017
Dear Eugene Peterson, We Will Read Your Books
Next Post

October 22, 2017 The Dehumanization of People With HIV
Browse Our Archives
Select a Category Academia Church Dating Faith Family LGBT LGBTQ Marriage Politics Relationship Relationship Advice Relationships Uncategorized
Select a Month January 2018 October 2017 August 2017 July 2017 June 2017 April 2017 March 2017 February 2017 January 2017 December 2016 November 2016 October 2016
Follow Us!
TAKE THE
Religious Wisdom Quiz
In the Sermon on the Mount, who did Jesus say would "inherit the earth"?
Select your answer to see how you score.
The meek The strong The wise The just
Related posts from Modern Kinship
The Gay Christian Network Becomes Q Christian Fellowship
The Dehumanization of People With HIV
Dear Eugene Peterson, We Will Read Your Books
TRENDING AT PATHEOS Progressive Christian
What Being a Modern-Day Apostle Means to Me
In my last column, I discussed the ins and outs of modern-day...
Did Ancient China Once Worship the God of...
Across human history, a common thread weaves through the origins of the...
Love Your Neighbor – Including Earth-Kin: Lev. 19,...
God’s command to love your neighbor means acting in an ethical and...
Lead a Church Study of “Jesus and Lao...
Guest writer Jack Thomas (The Irreverent Reverend) reflects on leading his church...
Pastoral Wisdom for Responding to Sermon Pushback
Getting sermon pushback on your social justice sermon? Learn practical, Proverbs-based strategies...
Principles for Understanding the Apostolic Ministry Today
Whenever people discover that my formal ministry title is "apostle," as in...
view all Progressive Christian blogs
Ad-Free & Subscriber Log-In Subscription Support
- About Us
- 2026 Calendar
- Videos
- Podcasts
- Library of World Religions
- Faith In Media Tracker
- Advertise With Us
- Write for Us
- Privacy Policy
- Terms of Service
- Do Not Sell My Data
- Contact Us
- Radiant Digital
- Manage Newsletter Subscriptions
- Unsubscribe From Notifications
- Sitemap
Copyright 2008-2026, Patheos. All rights reserved.
Subscription Support Ad-Free & Subscriber Log-In









