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August 2012

August 19, 2012

If he’s Jesus and I’m the church, that’s not equal

"Husbands and wives are equal, they just have different roles." Do you have any idea...

August 13, 2012

Worshiping the Man: Christian Patriarchy as Idolatry

I just realized something that should have been obvious a long time ago. Christian Patriarchy...

August 12, 2012

Just Obey: Christian Patriarchy as Spiritual Abuse

I have heard the term "spiritual abuse" thrown around the blogosphere lately and I just...

August 11, 2012

Theology 101: Divine Revelation and Spiritual Headship

About a month ago a reader asked why, if evangelicalism was a religious tradition that...

August 07, 2012

So you say you don’t hate gay people, Part IV

I'm sure you've all heard it before. If we normalize and accepting being gay, next...

August 04, 2012

So you say you don’t hate gay people, Part I

One thing I have heard a lot recently is Christians who oppose marriage equality insisting,...

July 2012

July 30, 2012

Dear Lisa: Let us offer you some hope

Lisa of broken daughters recently wrote a post in which she admitted that even though...

July 23, 2012

Raised Quiverfull: Anne’s Story

"I think my parents were first influenced by the Christian Patriarchy and Quiverfull movements back...

July 22, 2012

Command v. Suggestion: “Wives, submit!” and “Husbands, love!”

Any Christian Patriarchy advocate reading my post yesterday would surely have been shaking his or...

July 21, 2012

Christian Patriarchy to Men: You don’t have to grow up!

What are the qualities we generally associate with maturity? The ability to see things from...

July 19, 2012

Marital Rape? Doug Wilson on Dominance and Submission in the Marriage Bed

*Trigger warning for survivors of sexual or domestic violence* The blogosphere I follow has lit...

July 18, 2012

Raised Quiverfull: Skarlet’s Story

"My parents were both christians before they got married, but after five years of attending...

July 16, 2012

Staying together “for the children”?

Growing up, I believed that divorce was wrong and completely out of the question. Marriage...

July 06, 2012

The husband along for the ride

When I did my readers survey, one reader asked the following question: You talk about...

June 2012

June 29, 2012

Raised Quiverfull: Tricia’s Story

"At the first homeschool convention my parents attended, they heard one of the "big names"...

June 29, 2012

Raised Quiverfull: Sierra’s Story

"I was not born into fundamentalism. My mother was an ordinary evangelical and my extended...

June 29, 2012

Raised Quiverfull: Sarah’s Story

"My parents were already slipping into PF/QF teachings by the time I was born. They...

June 29, 2012

Raised Quiverfull: Melissa’s Story

"When I was 5 my parents decided to homeschool me. At around age 8 some...

June 29, 2012

Raised Quiverfull: Mattie’s Story

"My parents consider themselves to be first-generation Christians. They were heavily influenced by Mary Pride...

June 29, 2012

Raised Quiverfull: Lisa’s Story

"Both my parents grew up in moderate Christian families. They first got involved with the...

June 28, 2012

Raised Quiverfull: Libby Anne’s Story

"My parents were originally fairly ordinary evangelicals, but after they started homeschooling me (for practical,...

June 28, 2012

Raised Quiverfull: Latebloomer’s Story

"My parents have always been fairly traditional and conservative, but their participation in the local...

June 28, 2012

Raised Quiverfull: Joe’s Story

"When I was seven, my parents divorced. This was 1987, the sort of peak to...

June 14, 2012

“Different but Complementary” and “Separate but Equal”

I recently ran across a short post on Kaelee Bates, a blog run by a...

May 2012

May 27, 2012

Marital Blind Spots: Miming Our Parents’ Mistakes

I recently read a guest post called "But He Never Hit Her." Every once in...

May 26, 2012

Worthwhile Reads: Marriage, the Bible, Sex, and Modesty

Spiritual Tyranny offers an excellent satire, Modesty Check for Men, pointing out what would happen...

May 14, 2012

Jon Stewart on Gay Marriage: The Measure of Progress

In the wake of President Obama's announcement last week, in which he came out in...

May 08, 2012

Raised Quiverfull: Marriage

In many ways, every Christian Patriarchy/Quiverfull couple has a different dynamic. What sort of a...

May 06, 2012

The Purity Culture and Sexual Incompatibility

I was raised in what I call "the purity culture." I knew that some people...

April 2012

April 22, 2012

Marriage, Divorce, and the ROOT of a problem

It bugs me how often people address symptoms rather than getting to the root of...