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4 Ways to Transform a Difficult Back-to-School Season

4 Ways to Transform a Difficult Back-to-School Season

Last updated on: August 6, 2018 at 5:25 pm by Kelley Mathews

4 Ways to Transform a Difficult Back-to-School Season 2018-08-06T17:25:01-05:00 Kelley Mathews

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Reach Out Intentionally

We are each uniquely created and have gifts, talents, and our own story. After reflecting, look for opportunities to fellowship with others through their families and to serve in your community.

Donate supplies to teacher friends or schools.

Give time to organizations – as a reading partner, mentor, etc.

All children need to have healthy, caring adults walking alongside them in support (in addition to their parents and especially if they have uninvolved parents or a pain-filled void).

If your friends have kids and you are in a positive place for involvement, ask about plays or musicals at their school. Attend swim meets, football games, band events, or booster club happenings. Parents are proud of their children and welcome friends to participate and appreciate their kid’s talent. Sometimes they are unaware that others would love to come along and support their child too.

Pray Steadily

(See caveat above. Sometimes loss pain is too new or fresh. Pray and get involved however you are able.)

Pray to change your sadness to joy and your isolation to community involvement.

Pray for Teachers – their stamina, willingness, and passion to teach kids how to learn and equip them for the next step in their journey.

Pray for Kids – their excitement to learn and grow in healthy ways mentally, emotionally, physically, and spiritually. To experience the beauty and wonder of childhood and engage in age-appropriate development and knowledge of healthy self-worth for themselves and their peers.

Pray for all adults involved with kids – coaches, leaders, and neighbors.

Above, I mentioned having a “moment” in a store. I experienced this the other day. As I gripped my shopping cart and walked through the school supply aisles I thought about how I will never have the opportunity to take my child school supply shopping.

It was a momentary flash of reality and I made myself begin to silently pray for each parent and child there. I walked away from that section of the store with a lighter step, brighter outlook, and mental reminder to spend quality time with the younger people in my life, to be present in the lives of those around me personally and within my community.

As you begin to see the signs of back-to-school sales, advertising, and the eventual presence of school buses, remember that you can make a difference. Someone (or many) had an impactful presence for good in your childhood years. You are needed to pass it on to the next generation.

You matter. Your presence and input matter in the lives of those around you.

I would love to hear ways an adult made a positive impact on you during your childhood years. Please share.

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