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Known Before You Were Formed: The Gospel Case for Trans Kids

Known Before You Were Formed: The Gospel Case for Trans Kids

Last updated on: April 24, 2026 at 10:30 am by Jeff Hood

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Known Before You Were Formed: The Gospel Case for Trans Kids 2026-04-24T10:30:55-06:00 Jeff Hood

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Trans Kids: Known Before You Were Formed

There is a verse in Jeremiah that gets stitched onto throw pillows and painted on nursery walls across America: “Before I formed you in the womb I knew you.” It is quoted at baby showers. It is invoked at rallies. It is used, constantly, as evidence of God’s intimate and personal investment in every human life from the very beginning.

What those same voices rarely reckon with is what that verse demands of us when that child grows up and tells us who they are.

Across the United States, a coordinated legislative campaign has targeted transgender youth with a ferocity that should disturb every person who claims to love children. State after state has passed laws banning gender-affirming medical care…the puberty blockers, the hormone therapy, the interventions that every major pediatric and psychiatric medical association has endorsed as evidence-based and, in many cases, life-saving. The families who seek this care are not reckless. They are not ideologically captured. They have watched their child suffer. They have watched the darkness gather. They made the agonizing, informed, medically supervised decision that they believed would keep their child alive.

The state has now told them they were wrong. Not because the medicine failed. Because the politics demanded a target.

This essay is about fighting back…with the facts, with the logic and with the full, uncompromising weight of the gospel of Jesus Christ.

What They’re Actually Banning

The first weapon in this fight is clarity, because the opposition wins on fog.

When politicians invoke images of reckless ideologues performing irreversible procedures on confused children at the first sign of a gender-nonconforming phase, they are describing something that does not exist. What does exist is a careful, multi-step clinical process that is among the most rigorously supervised and deliberately paced pathways in all of adolescent medicine.

Puberty blockers…gonadotropin-releasing hormone analogues…have been used in pediatric medicine since the 1980s. Their original and still-common purpose is treating precocious puberty: children who begin developing as young as six or seven. In that context, no one calls them experimental. No legislature has moved to ban them. They are simply medicine. When used for gender dysphoria, they do essentially the same thing: pause the progression of puberty, buying time. Time to think. Time for the child and family to work with therapists and physicians. Time to reach greater certainty before permanent changes occur. Critically…the effects are reversible. If a teenager takes blockers and later decides not to continue, puberty resumes. This is not a political claim. It is basic pharmacology.

Hormone therapy comes later…typically in mid-to-late adolescence…and only after extensive psychological evaluation, often spanning months or years. Gender clinics require demonstrated, persistent dysphoria. They require parental consent. They require the involvement of multiple specialists. The process that anti-trans activists describe as a hasty, ideologically driven rush is, in practice, one of the most deliberate and document-heavy clinical pathways a family can enter.

None of this is hidden. It is documented in guidelines published by the Endocrine Society, the World Professional Association for Transgender Health and the American Academy of Pediatrics…not fringe organizations, but the professional bodies that set the standards by which medicine is practiced. When legislators say these treatments are experimental and dangerous, they are not citing the medical literature. They are citing each other. They are manufacturing a crisis to justify a predetermined conclusion and children are paying for it with their health and sometimes their lives.

The Conservative Betrayal of Trans Kids

Here is the argument that should end the debate among any intellectually consistent conservative: this is a parental rights issue and the people banning this care have abandoned their own most cherished principle.

The political coalition driving anti-trans healthcare legislation is the same coalition that has spent decades arguing, on almost every other medical question, that parents…not bureaucrats, not government agencies, not the state…should make healthcare decisions for their children. This is not a peripheral position for this movement; it is a cornerstone, a rallying cry, a reason for being. They have invoked it in courtrooms, at school board meetings, in congressional testimony. It is the principle they reach for first.

And then, when it comes to trans kids, they walk directly into a state capitol and ask the government to override what a child’s parents, in consultation with a child’s physicians, have decided is best for that child.

The incoherence is total. There is no principled reconciliation between “the state has no business telling parents to vaccinate their children” and “the state absolutely has the authority to tell parents they cannot pursue hormone therapy for their child.” The only thing distinguishing these two positions is that one involves a child whose identity makes certain voters uncomfortable.

Parental rights means parental rights. It does not mean parental rights except when the parents make a decision we dislike. A government that can prohibit a specific medical treatment…not because it is medically unsound, but because a legislative majority disapproves of the population it serves…is a government that has claimed dominion over the doctor’s office and the kitchen table and the anguished midnight conversations between parents who are simply trying to keep their child alive. That is not a small-government outcome. That is not a conservative outcome. That is the state at its most invasive, reaching into the most intimate space that families occupy.

The parents of trans kids did not arrive at these decisions easily or quickly. They watched their children suffer. They sought evaluations. They consulted specialists. They sat in waiting rooms. They prayed…many of them…longer and harder than their critics ever will. They made the decision that every parent is supposed to have the sovereign right to make: the decision they believed would keep their child whole.

The state looked at all of that and said: we know better.

The Theology That Kills Trans Kids

There is a theology that has been weaponized against trans kids and it is worth naming it directly. It goes something like this: God created male and female, full stop, and any deviation from that binary is a rebellion against the created order…a confusion sown by culture or sin or mental illness. The body is the truth. The child who disputes it is wrong and the kindest thing we can do is help them accept reality.

This theology has a clean, confident sound. It also causes children to die.

Consider what it actually claims. It asserts that the body is always the final, authoritative word on who a person is…that the outer form is more real, more God-breathed, more trustworthy than the inner life. But the Christian tradition has always held the opposite. The human person is not reducible to flesh. The soul, the self, the inner life that looks out through the eyes…these are not illusions layered on top of biology. They are, in fact, the seat of the imago Dei, the image of God that gives every person their irreducible, inalienable dignity. To insist that the body alone determines identity is, ironically, a kind of materialism that orthodox Christianity has resisted for two thousand years.

Moreover, the demand that trans kids simply accept their assigned gender and conform…sometimes dressed up as “compassionate”…has already been tried. It was called conversion therapy. The evidence is devastating: it does not work and it causes lasting psychological damage. The American Academy of Pediatrics, the American Psychological Association, the American Medical Association, every major body that has seriously studied the question has reached the same conclusion. We tried the coercive approach. We counted the bodies. We stopped.

Or rather…we stopped calling it therapy. We started calling it state law.

The Gospel Pattern

Jesus was not subtle about whose side he was on.

He kept returning to the same kind of person: the one the religious establishment had decided did not qualify. Not as a gesture of charity from a safe distance, but as a deliberate, repeated, almost confrontational choice to sit down at the table with whoever had been told to eat somewhere else. He touched the leper when touching was forbidden. He spoke to the Samaritan woman when speaking was unthinkable. He looked at the woman the crowd was ready to stone and said: neither do I condemn you.

Every time the religious establishment drew a circle and said these people do not belong inside it, Jesus walked to the edge of that circle and took the hand of whoever had been pushed out. Not occasionally. Every time. The pattern is so consistent it cannot be incidental. It is the method. It is the movement of the gospel itself…always toward the one whose dignity the powerful have decided is negotiable.

Transgender children in America today are among the most systematically excluded people in the country. They face depression, anxiety and suicidal ideation at rates that should make every person of faith stop and ask why…and what they intend to do about it. When trans youth have access to affirming care, those numbers fall. Not slightly. Dramatically. Acceptance is not a nicety. It is, in the most concrete and clinical sense, what stands between some of these children and death.

When legislators ban that care…when they criminalize the physicians who provide it, when they force families to choose between their child’s survival and their state of residence…they are not protecting children. They are harming them. The harm is measurable. The harm is documented. And the faith community that is not speaking against it is not neutral. Silence on behalf of power is a theological position. It has always been.

The Stakes for Trans Kids Are Not Abstract

When states pass these bans, families face a brutal menu of options: relocate to a state where care remains legal…available only to those with the financial means to uproot their lives…continue care in secret and risk legal exposure, or watch their child lose access to treatment their physicians recommended and their family chose together.

For most families, none of those options is accessible. The child simply goes without.

Picture what that looks like in an ordinary house on an ordinary street. A teenager who had finally, after years of darkness, found something like equilibrium…who was sleeping again, eating again, making plans again…is now told that the medication keeping them stable is no longer available to them because a state legislature decided their care was a political problem to be solved. The parents, who fought for that stability, who sat in waiting rooms and filled out evaluations and drove to appointments and watched their child come back to life, now have no good move. There is no appeal. There is no exception. There is only the question of what happens next and they already know the answer because they lived through the before.

This is not an abstraction. This is happening in specific houses, to specific families, right now. The legislators who pass these bans claim the language of protection. They are protecting no child who is actually in front of them. They are performing protection for a constituency and the children paying the price are the ones they have decided don’t count.

The Words They Choose Are Not Accidents

Before we talk about what to do, we need to talk about language…because in this fight, language is a weapon and the people who wield it against trans kids know exactly what they are doing.

Listen for the word transsexual.

It is largely obsolete, replaced decades ago by transgender in clinical guidelines, journalistic style books and the expressed preferences of the community itself. Transgender describes identity. Transsexual reduces a person to their anatomy, their surgeries, their medicalization…it frames the entire question as one of bodies and procedures rather than personhood. When someone uses it casually in 2026, there are a limited number of explanations: they are very old, they have had no meaningful contact with trans people or contemporary discourse, or they are using it deliberately.

In political and media contexts, it is almost always deliberate.

Words like transsexual, biological male, born a boy…these are chosen because they reframe the entire conversation before a single argument has been made. They insist, at the level of vocabulary, that trans identity is not real, that the body is the only truth, that we are dealing with a kind of delusion that must be named and managed rather than a person who must be seen and respected. They are not neutral descriptors. They are conclusions disguised as nouns.

The Christian tradition, of all traditions, should understand this. The entire Gospel of John opens with the assertion that language is not incidental to reality…In the beginning was the Word…that what we name things matters, that naming is an act of power with moral weight. When God calls creation good, that declaration is not merely descriptive. It is constitutive. When Jesus looks at Simon and says you will be called Peter, he is not updating a database. He is calling a future into being.

When we call a trans girl a boy, we are also making a declaration. We are saying: the name you have given yourself is not the name that counts. The name we assign you from the outside is the one that is real. We are placing our authority over her self-knowledge. We are refusing the testimony of her inner life.

This is not a small thing. This is, in miniature, the same gesture that every system of oppression has always made…insisting that the powerful get to name the powerless, that the definitions flow one direction only, that the person who is already vulnerable must accept the vocabulary of those who hold power over them.

Pay attention to the words. Correct them, gently and firmly, when you encounter them. Not because language is all that matters, but because language is always the first battlefield and the people harming these kids have understood that for years.

We should catch up.

What the Gospel Demands Now for Trans Kids

The gospel is not a historical document. It is a living demand.

It demands presence…showing up so that trans kids see adults, especially adults of faith, standing and declaring: you are made in the image of God. You are not a mistake. You are not an abomination. You are known before you were formed and we will not let them take your care away.

It demands action…appearing at legislative hearings, calling representatives and speaking not only in the secular language of rights and policy, but in the language of faith, because many of the people voting for these bans believe themselves to be acting on Christian conviction and they need to hear a different Christian voice…one that has actually read the text.

It demands consistency…holding the parental rights absolutists to their own principle, demanding they explain in plain language why government should override the decision of parents and physicians in this case and no other. Make them say it out loud. Make them defend it.

It demands honesty about the medicine…refusing to let deliberate misinformation about “experimental” procedures stand uncorrected, insisting that conversations begin with what the clinical guidelines actually say, not what a think tank press release claims they say.

And it demands, most fundamentally, that we refuse to let fear and political ambition write the last word about who these children are.

The gospel has always been told from the margins…in the voice of the refugee, the prisoner, the outcast…by people who had every reason to believe that the forces arrayed against them were permanent and immovable and who turned out to be right that they were not. That tradition runs through Jeremiah, who heard God say before I formed you in the womb I knew you…not as comfort for those already safe, but as commission for those being sent into the hard places. The knowing comes before the forming. The love comes before the argument. The child is already held before the world has had a chance to decide what it thinks of them.

Somewhere tonight there is a trans kid who does not know that. Who has heard, from pulpits and legislatures and the mouths of people who claim to speak for God, that they are a confusion…a mistake…a problem requiring management. Who is lying in the dark running the math that frightened teenagers run when the pain has begun to outweigh the reasons to stay.

The gospel has an answer for that child. Not a policy position. Not a theological argument. A name.

You were known before you were formed. Not despite who you are. As who you are.

Someone has to go say that. Not abstractly. Not in an essay read in safety. In person, at cost, tonight…in whatever room that child is in.

That is the instruction. It has not been amended.

Go.

Not to record it. Not to post it. Not to build a following out of it or add your name to the right side of history at a safe and comfortable distance. The children being harmed by these laws do not need more content. They need someone to show up in the actual room…the living room, the hospital waiting room, the school hallway, the church where their parents are being told God made a mistake when he made them.

The gospel has never been a performance. It has always been a body, present, in the place where the cost is real.

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About The Rev. Dr. Jeff Hood

The Rev. Dr. Jeff Hood is a theologian, writer and activist who has spent years ministering to people on death row. As a spiritual advisor and witness to executions, he speaks out against state violence and calls for a society rooted in justice, mercy and the sacredness of life. You can read more about the author here.

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