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Understanding Honor and Shame in Any Context

Understanding Honor and Shame in Any Context

Last updated on: January 12, 2022 at 3:52 am by Brad Vaughn

Understanding Honor and Shame in Any Context 2022-01-12T03:52:44-07:00 Brad Vaughn

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In the third major section of Saving God’s Face, I try to grasp the inner logic of face, honor, and shame.

Here are some of the questions I explore:

How do honor and shame shape what one thinks is moral and immoral?

Should “honor-shame” be contrasted with “law”?

Is honor-shame an “Eastern” idea?

Does honor-shame thinking reduce to relativism, as is commonly supposed?

Can we treat “glory” and “honor” as synonyms?

What role do honor and shame have in the Bible?

Concerning honor, shame, and “face,” what do the Bible, ancient biblical cultures, and China have in common?

There are a lot of misunderstandings when it comes to the subject of honor-shame, i.e., “face.” As a result, we tend to either misinterpret the Bible or simply overlook its prominent teachings on the matter. Whenever this happens, our theology is bound to be stunted and overly biased, reflecting the values of a particular culture.

“Honor,” in the West, is thought to concern chivalry and the like. This overly reductionistic perspective blinds people to how concerns about “face” influence every person in the world every day.

Even God cares about saving face

Honor and shame are central questions in the past and the present. To be human is to care about one’s face. Even God cares about saving his face. That, in part, is why I named my book Saving God’s Face. God wants to manifest his glory so that he would be honored as Father and King in all the cosmos. As creatures made in his image, we are most fully human when reflecting his honor in the world. To the degree that we disregard the Creator’s worth, we are shameful. To use familiar language, we fall short of God’s glory (Rom 3:23).

Therefore, it’s a little too simple to say that we should not seek face because that is “sin.” Likewise, we also can’t reduce the desire for honor/glory to sheer “pride.” Concerning God seeking honor, Piper has explained why God is no “megalomaniac.”

Honor and Shame Are Universal Human Categories

I often tell people that when thinking of “honor-shame,” they should immediately think of collectivism (instead of individualism). That reorientation helps us see the significance of “face” issues. Naturally, we notice how honor and shame influence one’s sense of identity, view of morality, and understanding of countless concepts in Scripture.

Honor and shame are concepts that only exist in our relationships with others.

A community makes judgments about what it regards as worthy of praise or criticism. This does not mean that a theology of honor-shame is bound to be relativistic. Instead, we have to recognize that what God regards as honorable and shameful is precisely what should mark the Church. Accordingly, the Christian view of honor-shame also has a communal orientation.

“Bless those who persecute you” (Rom 12:14) and “count others more significant than yourselves” (Phil 3:3) are the true marks of God’s people. These are what define honor and shame for the Church. Simply because Christ is the head of the Church does not make honor-shame any less collectivistic in orientation.

Honor and shame touch every sphere of our lives

In many ways, honor and shame provide us with a more holistic perspective. Consider two things.

First, how do we define “shame”?

Brene Brown gives one possible definition for human shame:

“Shame is the fear of disconnection— the fear that we’re unlovable and don’t belong” (Daring Greatly, 109).

No one wants to be isolated, disconnected, and unloved. Relationships drive us, whether positively or negatively. No matter how you define “shame,” it matters to everyone.

Second, honor-shame is not merely an “Eastern” idea.

Social Media–––why do people post what they do on Facebook? Why do people keep blogs?

TV––Why do people want to be on American Idol or Reality TV shows? Do the words “shame” and “Jerry Springer Show” have any relationship?

Social Movements–– Princeton professor Kwame Appiah, in his book The Honor Code, argues that various social movements in history occurred, in large part, due to the role played by honor and shame. These include the end of the slave trade, foot binding, and dueling.

World Events–– One often hears of “honor killings” in the Middle East and ways that honor and shame influence conflicts around the world.

AIDS — In my book, I recount how honor-shame has negatively affected the AIDS problem. Fear and stigma surround the subject such that even health professions suffer discrimination by those around them.

Counseling––This one is rather obvious. I have found no one better on this subject than Brene Brown. I highly recommend her book Daring Greatly.

Theology––I’ve written plenty on this already. Check out Saving God’s Face for more.

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