Patheos

BuddhistCatholicContemplativeEvangelicalGeneral ChristianHinduJewishLatter-day SaintMuslimNew VisionsProgressive Christian

Beliefs

Topics

Columnists

Resource Library

Research Tools

Video

Podcasts

Thought Readers

Faith In Media Tracker

Newsletters

Ad-Free & Subscriber Log-In Subscription Support

Patheos

Ad-Free & Subscriber Log-In Subscription Support

Follow Patheos Patheos on Facebook Patheos on YouTube

Gateway Goddess

Cherry Pie: The Fruit of Love’s Labors

Last updated on: January 1, 2015 at 6:24 pm   by Kathy Kassab

Cherry Pie: The Fruit of Love’s Labors 2015-01-01T18:24:44-05:00 Kathy Kassab

LOGO Patheos Explore the world's faith through different perspectives on religion and spirituality! Patheos has the views of the prevalent religions and spiritualities of the world.

The cherry pie I’m making for the holiday weekend will be dedicated to love.

The cherries themselves are the fruits of love.  Cherry blossoms are attraction, first glances and flirtation. Cherries are the sweetness of a love matured, the juice of its physical manifestation. Cherry pie takes it a step further, makes it serious. There’s a lot of work in a pie, if it’s done right.

My father already has put a lot of love into the cherries. He was the one who planted the cherry trees. He picked the cherries, then pitted each one with a tool he made from a dowel rod and a nail. Such a tedious task; so much love in action, to pit enough cherries for a pie.

It will be a small, seven-inch pie. My sweetie and I are both cutting back on sugary desserts. But it’s coming up on the anniversary of our first date, as well as being a four-day weekend for us both. I think that qualifies as a special occasion that can be commemorated with pie.

Making a pie was my Grandma Lucile’s way of putting her love of family into action.  Pie was the ending to all Sunday family dinners. Grandma saw that there were at least two kinds; one apple, one from a seasonal fruit. Rhubarb was spring. Cherry, then blackberry, then peach for summer. Pumpkin for Thanksgiving, maybe a chocolate custard in winter. For Sunday, the pie would be served with ice cream—Prairie Farms, unless my cousins and I had begged hard enough for the adults to bring out the hand-cranked ice cream freezer.

Those pies saw my grandparents’ marriage through war, drought, Depression, prosperity and procreation. Grandma Lucile and Grandpa Bill were married 69 years. Was it the pie? Well, a good pie will make even a bad day better. And Grandma Lucile made great pie.

I never saw Grandma use a recipe for pie crust. Make weekly pies for a few decades and the recipe is remembered. I know she did use Crisco, which my modern self considers an abomination. I usually make an oil pastry crust, which calls for liquid vegetable oil mixed with water. It’s temperamental and hard to handle. It tears easily and never looks as good as a practical Crisco crust. But I love the flavor.

I have on occasion used the Pillsbury prepared crust; just roll it out and place it gently in the pan. I will not admit to this unless asked directly. Every time I use one, I can feel Grandma Lucile giving me the stinkeye from beyond the grave. She did not take shortcuts with pie.

She also did not pre-cook the bottom crust, which some people prefer to do. Grandma had much to accomplish in a day, and babying a pie crust was not on her list. Roll out the crust, drape it on the pan. Use a paring knife worn to a steel wisp from decades of sharpening to cut the crust’s edges smooth. Fill it, cover it, crimp it, bake it. Then on to the next task. That pie was on its own, and most of them knew better than to come out with a soggy bottom crust.

I tried for years to get my crusts crimped in her trademark pattern. She tried to teach me, but I never got it quite right. I gave up and developed my own style, pressing the edges together with a fork. Until last year.

I made a pie for my Shy Engineer’s birthday. We hadn’t been dating long enough for me to feel comfortable bringing a present, and I was too broke to buy much of anything. I considered a baklava, but I’d never made one. Also, he told me his mother made her own phyllo dough. I knew I couldn’t compete with that. So I made an apple pie, his favorite.

On a whim, I decided to crimp the crust Grandma Lucile style. I hadn’t tried in more than a decade. Nor had I seen it done in the five years since Grandma died.

And I got it, the first time. At last, the magic had been passed from her fingers to mine.

For my special Summer Love Cherry Pie, I’ll be using the filling recipe from Marilyn Moore’s The Wooden Spoon Dessert Book as a base. Everything I’ve ever tried from that book has been excellent. I’ll also add just a whisper of cinnamon to the recipe. Cinnamon belongs to the Sun, and the Shy Engineer is a Leo. Cinnamon can be used to draw prosperity, love and success. All are good wishes for those we love–and for ourselves.

As I stir the cherries, butter, sugar, cinnamon and flour in a sturdy saucepan, I’ll be thinking of the many kinds of love it represents. Hoping the energy of each will cook into it. My father’s love in tending the trees and pitting the cherries. The love that has blossomed and borne fruit between me and my sweetie. Grandma Lucile, married to the same man for 69 years. Grandma Lucile, making all those pies for all those years of family gatherings. And, of course, pie. I do love pie.

Gateway Goddess

Pagan

cherry pie

domestic spirituality

kitchen witch

magical cooking

Previous Post



June 27, 2013

Gay and Straight Benefit From Blessing Gay Marriage

Next Post



July 17, 2013 Sweet Blackberry Nostalgia Greets Summer's Grand Trine in Water


Browse Our Archives

Select a Category Gateway Goddess Pagan Uncategorized

Select a Month December 2016 November 2016 October 2016 November 2015 October 2015 September 2015 March 2015 December 2014 November 2014 October 2014 December 2013 November 2013 October 2013 August 2013 July 2013 June 2013 May 2013


Follow Us!

Follow Us on Facebook Follow Us on Twitter



TAKE THE

Religious Wisdom Quiz

True or False: Joseph's brothers sold him to traders for thirty pieces of silver.

Select your answer to see how you score.

TRUE FALSE

Related posts from Gateway Goddess

Pagan

Holiday Survival as the Family's Psychedelic Sheep

Gateway Goddess

Pagan

Ringing in happy home energies for the holidays

Gateway Goddess

Pagan

Decluttering for the Samhain Soul 2016: The Ritual

Gateway Goddess

Pagan

Decluttering for the Samhain Soul, Day 4: Seek...

Gateway Goddess

TRENDING AT PATHEOS Pagan

The Twelve Deities

When we talk about Greek religion, we often begin with the dodekatheion—the...

What do the Gods Look Like?

I was recently chatting with someone on Instagram. She asked me what...

My Blogging Style

While there are many people who share their results, the end of...

The Odyssey

On July 23, I saw Christopher Nolan's The Odyssey which is Homer’s...

Work in progress

As I write this two big events have just finished up. One...

Restoring the Watershed of Divine Love

Perhaps cooperation is not something we manufacture through legislation, ideology, or moral...

view all Pagan blogs

Patheos on Facebook Patheos on YouTube

Ad-Free & Subscriber Log-In Subscription Support

Copyright 2008-2026, Patheos. All rights reserved.

Subscription Support Ad-Free & Subscriber Log-In

Follow Patheos Patheos on Facebook Patheos on YouTube