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November 2013

November 07, 2013

Please Don’t Change… (others)

We are not responsible to change people's behavior. It's not our job, even with our...

November 01, 2013

Hellish Torment is ALWAYS from the Enemy

My heart breaks for the spiritual abuse of people whose heart's desire is to do...

October 2013

October 31, 2013

Halloween Trivia – Are You Afraid?

It's Halloween, a time for scary costumes! But something else is even scarier -- it...

October 30, 2013

Abuse in Church – Fear Hides, Love Frees

Maybe the church has too much time on its hands. Like kids near the end...

October 28, 2013

You Have Two Options: Love or Fear

John Lennon said, “There are two basic motivating forces: fear and love. When we are...

October 24, 2013

An Apology to a Lesbian, Many Years Later

Ellen rejected her young friend Becky when Becky came out to her. Years later, Ellen...

October 22, 2013

A Trans Made Me Blush

This is Rob Cottrell. I have experienced a lot in life. I didn't think something...

October 21, 2013

Linda & Rob Robertson’s Story: From Fear to Love

We lost the ability to love our gay son because we no longer had a...

October 16, 2013

A Mom’s Letter: Her Daughter Left Husband for a Woman

I share with you an email from a mother (with her permission) upset up by...

October 14, 2013

All We Need Is Love

Last week, our church hosted the Break the Hate Arts Event with a neighboring church,...

October 09, 2013

You Think Homosexuality is Wrong: So What?

Marybeth mentors women toward wholeness from sexual abuse. Tender-hearted and intelligent, she can uniquely love...

October 07, 2013

Do You Believe There’s Help to Cry For?

The first time Wentworth Miller tried to kill himself, he was 15. Fifteen. An age when...

October 03, 2013

Zero or Hero – What Kind of Neighbor Are You?

Three college guys moved into the place directly below us. One of them kindly came...

October 01, 2013

The Mystery of an Outlandishly Queer Creation

Queer:  1 strange; odd: she had a queer feeling that they were being watched. Creation:  1 the...

September 2013

September 30, 2013

I Do Love Gays, But…

Love is more attractive than hate. Oh, you don't hate, you say. I know. But...

September 26, 2013

If You’re an LGBTQ Teen…

If you're a teen, confused by your sexuality—or certain of it but do not feel...

September 24, 2013

God’s Beloved Gay Daughter

"She has just been with God. She was not, is not, mine to judge or reject...

September 23, 2013

Divorced… And It’s About Time

My precious friend Mary Ellen celebrated her one-year divorce anniversary on Monday. She posted on...

September 21, 2013

Avalanche of Love for LGBTQ

“Who am I to judge if someone who's gay approaches the Lord with an honest...

September 18, 2013

Dad’s Letter to Friends about His Gay Daughter

This dad’s letter beautifully expresses our duty as parents to embrace and protect our children....

September 16, 2013

Bending the Rules

Jesus replied, "And you experts in the law, woe to you, because you load people...

September 14, 2013

Dads, Where Are You?

Recently I read a list of the top 5 life events that cause stress, and...

September 12, 2013

Can You Be Gay & Christian?

“Judgment without mercy will be shown to anyone who has not been merciful.” Whew! I’m...

September 10, 2013

Joy In San Antonio

I spoke at San Antonio PFLAG Thursday, the day City Council voted to include LGBTQ in...

September 07, 2013

Loving With Pride

I’m at the Pride Festival today – my first one! – which is a beautiful...

September 05, 2013

A Guide to Coming Out to Christian Parents

Coming out to your family can be overwhelming. You don't know the response until you...

September 03, 2013

It’s Your Journey

You may be out, or you may still be in the closet. You may be...

August 2013

August 31, 2013

LGBTQ, Welcome Home

Has it been awhile since you have felt at home in your life? With your...

August 28, 2013

Do Good or Bad – The Enemy Doesn’t Care

"I fear, lest somehow, as the serpent deceived Eve by his craftiness, so your minds...

August 26, 2013

“Have a good life. Goodbye.” – Dad

"Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me." That's crap....

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