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October 2015

October 14, 2015

What Does It Mean to “Come Out” For Your LGBTQ Child

My beloveds, I want to express my heart to you. We had the idea for...

October 08, 2015

Dear Perfect Family… From Your Son (Or From Anyone Who Has Been Rejected)

I'm writing with a heavy heart about our family, the family I grew up in,...

October 06, 2015

Have You Been Hurt? Three Areas of Healing That Will Reveal Your True Colors

You have undoubtedly endured some intense pain from which you may not have fully recovered....

October 05, 2015

Same-Sex Marriage is an Affirmation of Family & Marriage

Christians, shouldn’t you be rejoicing that people – who just so happen to be gay...

September 2015

September 28, 2015

You Can Hear Susan Whispering… “God loves you exactly as you are. Quit being afraid.”

When you hear Cyndi Lauper leaning into the microphone and practically shouting the chorus to...

September 25, 2015

A Pope Like Jesus

“I prefer a Church which is bruised, hurting and dirty because it has been out...

September 22, 2015

If You Could See Yourself Through God’s Eyes

I wish you could see yourself as the true and loving God sees you. I...

September 21, 2015

Look at What This Dad Does For His Daughter

Sometimes it takes a lot of words, sometimes it takes a few, sometimes it just...

September 17, 2015

Celebrating the Truth and Beauty of the Real You

When Clay told his parents he was gay, they screamed that he never should have...

September 15, 2015

From a Mom… Why I Want to Celebrate Your True Colors

When our daughter first came out to us, we had a problem on our hands....

September 14, 2015

How Can Anti-LGBTQ Christians Ignore the Heart of God?

Anti-transgender bathroom bills? Anti-LGBTQ discrimination efforts? To ignore or minimize others’ suffering goes against the...

September 09, 2015

Politics, Religion, and the Great Lie of Martyrdom

Kim Davis is not a martyr. She is more like the bus driver than Rosa...

September 08, 2015

The Church Is Changing. Are You Ready?

The church is changing. The truth of Jesus is being disentangled from the behavior-focused, non-affirming...

September 01, 2015

What Happens When A Heart Is Freed?

Parents, their LGBTQ children, the church... what happens when their hearts are freed from hate...

August 2015

August 19, 2015

If You Were My Gay Child, This Is What I Would Tell You

I was heartsick that a Pastor - claiming to speak for God - called his...

August 14, 2015

We Are Banned By 4 Top Anti-Gay Christian Facebook Pages. What Are They Afraid Of?

I am upsetting people. They respond by blocking and banning us — "in Jesus’ name."...

August 10, 2015

The Freedom of Living Outside of Your Bible

I came from a conservative evangelical background and was turned away from church, family members...

August 03, 2015

A Great Letter From a Christian Dad Confused About His Gay Son

Your child is gay. Your love for your child seems to somehow conflict with your...

July 2015

July 29, 2015

The Bible is Not a Bag of Trail Mix

My social media has been burning up with opinions ever since the court ruling on...

July 27, 2015

“The Church is Killing Its Gay Children” – The Deadly Results of Shame

Shame. It says, “There is something fundamentally wrong with you.” It is the lie at...

July 22, 2015

A Warning Label For The Bible

This needs to be said. This may open the floodgates to break people free from...

July 17, 2015

It’s Family Vacation. Everyone’s Here and Having Fun. Except Her.

You lie to the kids about why she is not here. It's the family vacation...

July 15, 2015

LGBTQ & The Issue of Celibacy

I am proud of Julie Rodgers. She was on staff at Wheaton College and committed...

July 13, 2015

The Absurdity of Straight Pride

Someone posted this very clever little meme: Straight Pride. See what they did there? Here’s...

July 10, 2015

Dear Susan: God Tells Us To Judge Each Other… Right?

Are we supposed to judge each other? Doesn't God tell us to do that? Aren't...

July 09, 2015

How to Be an Everyday Hero

“Anyone can slay a dragon, he told me, but try waking up every morning and...

July 06, 2015

A Big Gay Wedding – Actually, 40 of Them!

What do you call more than 40 same-sex couples marrying en masse on the lawn...

July 03, 2015

40 Real Answers to your 40 Questions. To Kevin DeYoung & The Gospel Coalition

“If I get the choice between Pie Heaven and Regular Heaven, I will choose Pie...

July 02, 2015

A Peace Offering to Evangelicals Who Opposed Marriage Equality

You may be struggling. We see it with comments and posts on social media, with...

July 01, 2015

What Does It Look Like To Love Someone?

Look at that face! Tao Porchon-Lynch is 96-years old and brought the house down with...