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May 2016

May 04, 2016

Love or Hate? It’s in the Eye of the Receiver

“What sorrow for those who say that evil is good and good is evil, that...

April 2016

April 20, 2016

Heads Up Anti-Gay Church: The Parents Are Coming!

You may believe that by teaching against homosexuality, you are keeping people from being LGBTQ...

April 12, 2016

‘Poison in a Pretty Package’ – Landon Schott’s Book “Gay Awareness”

It's a dangerous book, a deadly message and you should know about it. It is...

April 07, 2016

What If You Don’t Feel Like Anyone’s Idol?

The American Idol Finale. For fifteen years we have watched as this show has turned...

April 05, 2016

Stop Pretending God Endorses Your Homophobia

People have always been bigoted—in any number of ways. Jesus’ enormous challenge to “love your...

March 2016

March 27, 2016

To Worried Christian Parents of LGBTQ Children

I write today to Christian parents of LGBTQ children who are worried about their kids....

March 23, 2016

Sharing My Heart, My Vision, My Hope

We recently announced my new book with Westminster John Knox Press, and launched our new...

March 17, 2016

Don’t You Dare Tell Me My Opinion is Invalid Because My Child Is Gay!

I have five adult children I love with all my heart. Two of them identify...

March 08, 2016

The Story of the Prodigal Transgender Daughter

Let me give a new twist to an old story. Mitchell had fought back the...

March 02, 2016

Are You a Prodigal Parent to Your LGBTQ Child?

Prodigal. It has come to mean “someone who was wayward but has now straightened up...

February 2016

February 25, 2016

“To my LGBTQ child, I am so sorry.” – Dad

I am so sorry. And I am so thankful. First, please let me say that...

February 22, 2016

LGBTQ – God is NOT Mad at You and Never Has Been

No matter what you have heard: God is not mad at you. God is not...

February 16, 2016

Christians, You Do NOT Have Permission to Condemn Gays

We’ve all heard it. This smiling, friendly person says, “I’m so glad to see you....

February 08, 2016

A Dad, His Son, Nail Polish & Neighbors: A Lesson in Coexistence

One of the moms in our Facebook support group posted this interaction with her neighbors....

January 2016

January 26, 2016

I Was the Lucky One — I Did Not Grow Up in a “Christian” Home

“If you look closely, you will see that the things the church emphasizes as truly...

January 20, 2016

What Do You Do When Your Son Is Gay?

"Mom, I'm gay." Earth-shattering words to many conservative Christian parents -- tragically, many view it...

January 12, 2016

Top 5 Takeaways From the Gay Christian Network Conference

  I love LOVE LOVE the experience of GCN Conference. I absolutely love all the...

January 04, 2016

A Father’s Plea to Christian Dads of LGBTQ Kids

Six years ago, my daughter came out. I love her. Nothing will ever change that....

December 2015

December 30, 2015

Apparently, I Won’t Be Going To Heaven

I want to share this with you. It is from our friend Jim Rigby.  Jim...

December 11, 2015

Christians… Happy Holidays & Merry Xmas!

Christmastime is here again, marked by the crisp cold air, the decorated trees popping up,...

December 08, 2015

What is Sin? The Word Just Drips With Shame.

Sin. Just the word is heavy. Like a brick. Especially when someone throws it at...

December 01, 2015

The Inclusive Explanation of Marriage

I saw this “Best Explanation of Marriage” meme being shared around social media by Christians...

November 2015

November 21, 2015

A Journey of Transparent Truth

Autymn was just transitioning from male to female when we met her. Rob and I...

November 20, 2015

Houston, You Have a Problem… Lies, Power & Transgender Hate

I am still just sick about the new lows those Houston anti-gay, unChristlike pastors stooped...

November 17, 2015

Growing Up Different, and Finding Where You Belong

There are inherent challenges of growing up different, not only for the different one but...

November 12, 2015

7 Ways Christians Can Honor God, Even While Using a Red Starbucks Cup

“Being a Christian does NOT mean giving the middle finger to those who disagree with...

November 10, 2015

To Reject One’s Child is the Worst Transgression

Families really go off a cliff when they allow any disagreement to translate into: “You...

November 02, 2015

From the Mom of Two LGBTQ Kids… A Little Motherly Encouragement

I’m a mother, through and through. I can’t help mothering those around me who can...

October 2015

October 30, 2015

Ask Any LGBTQ Person if They Have Ever Felt Like This – The Answer Will be Yes

This body-slamming incident with the security officer and the student is a shocker. But, is...

October 20, 2015

Beware of Falling Scripture – It Can Really Hurt

Are you getting a little tired of people pulling out scripture to entrap you, tell...

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