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2012-12-28T14:42:03-05:00

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Family Love Letters

Last updated on: December 28, 2012 at 2:42 pm   By Susan Cottrell

I think our most under-expressed emotion is our love, appreciation and gratitude for each other. Don’t you? Isn’t that something we could always enjoy more of? Hannah, my youngest, had a wonderful idea for Christmas this year: to write a personal card to each family member, saying how much we love them. Everyone included, we each wrote nine cards. It was an amazing encouragement! Perhaps your family would write each other a year-end card to say, “Thank you for being... Read more

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2012-12-25T11:27:54-05:00

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A Christmas Letter to Hurting Young Adults

Last updated on: December 25, 2012 at 11:27 am   By Susan Cottrell

Christmas can be full of wonder. But if you are hurting, it can be downright painful. My daughter’s roommate is engaged to a great guy–and her parents don’t approve. No specific reason, but somehow, in her 25 years, she never seems to measure up. I wrote her, and I was inspired to revise and post this as an open letter to all of you whose parents have rejected you, or who are otherwise disenfranchised. I don’t know what you have... Read more

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"Come to Me all who are weary and heavey-laden"

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2012-12-21T15:35:14-05:00

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Brother’s Keeper

Last updated on: December 21, 2012 at 3:35 pm   By Susan Cottrell

Victoria Soto, 27, hid her students in the cabinets and closets before the gunman stormed in. She told him they were in the gym, then he shot her dead. Some 20 families in CT will have children missing at Christmas next week. Children who would have been there, opening presents in their jammies. These children will also be missing at graduation, at their weddings, as their parents grow old. My heart breaks. But my heart is grateful for Victoria Soto–without... Read more

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2012-12-19T13:03:14-05:00

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How Great is God’s Love

Last updated on: December 19, 2012 at 1:03 pm   By Susan Cottrell

Love. God has lavished such great love on us that He calls us His children! What a great and beautiful love He pours out. My beloved children came in for a brief early Christmas. Oh, how I love them! With everything in me I love them. My heart’s desire is to love my children as lavishly as God loves me, not because of who they are but because of the love God has put into me. If you break it... Read more

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2012-12-13T12:05:31-05:00

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WTF

Last updated on: December 13, 2012 at 12:05 pm   By Susan Cottrell

My friends, I’m delighted to announce I’ve got videos up from my recent retreat — so exciting to live in this technology! Below is a sneak peak at one of them!  Watch this one, and then go to the website:  FreedHearts.org and click on “Schedule Susan to Speak.”  There are several other video clips there.  This gives you an idea of my speaking style and content.  Feel free to invite me to speak at your event, church, retreat, or group. ... Read more

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2012-12-11T18:52:22-05:00

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Religion = Death

Last updated on: December 11, 2012 at 6:52 pm   By Susan Cottrell

I learned something new today. Religion means to tie back, constrain, as in bondage. Fascinating! Religion is about constraint, about a return to bondage. Isn’t that the truth? Haven’t you been sick to death of all the rules and regs associated with world religions? “Do this, don’t do that.” Religious rules are man-made. They are invariably about what you can do to be right with God. May I tell you that Jesus comes right alongside you to say he’s sick... Read more

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Ephesians 2:8-9

For grace you have been savied through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God not as a result of works so that no one may boast

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Jesus hates religion

John 6:28-29

Religion means tie back restrain bondage

This is the work of God that you believe in him whom he has sent

What must we do to do the work of God?

2012-12-06T17:47:48-05:00

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The Picture of Grace

Last updated on: December 6, 2012 at 5:47 pm   By Susan Cottrell

What comes to mind when I say the name “Jesus”? Do you think of his love? His grace? Forgiveness that only he provides? Or do you think of everything he is against? If you think that question is facetious, read these words of Philip Yancey: “Recently, I have been asking a question of strangers–for example, a seatmate on an airplane–when I strike up a conversation. ‘When I say the words “evangelical Christian” what comes to mind?’ In reply, mostly I... Read more

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2012-12-04T11:54:43-05:00

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The Rainbow Connection

Last updated on: December 4, 2012 at 11:54 am   By Susan Cottrell

My husband, daughter and I are on a ship right now. Out over the vast ocean, we saw a rainbow shooting out of the clouds into the water. Unlike most rainbows off in the distance, this one was right in front of us. We followed the arc around to the left and found the other side, pouring into the water. The top went behind dark clouds, but what we could see formed an arc, a perfect half-circle. What kind of... Read more

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2012-11-29T18:31:46-05:00

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Behavior Modification Program??

Last updated on: November 29, 2012 at 6:31 pm   By Susan Cottrell

Jesus is the founder and finisher of our faith. Our faith. NOT our actions! Oh, our actions naturally flow as we get to know Jesus more and more, and entrust ourselves to Him more and more. But our actions are a byproduct of our faith. Yet, how much time do we spend focused on, teaching, and striving to correct our actions? It’s like watering branches hoping for fruit. Jesus begins and ends (created, cares for, and directs) our faith! Faith is... Read more

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2012-11-23T13:41:27-05:00

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Thanksgiving Reflections

Last updated on: November 23, 2012 at 1:41 pm   By Susan Cottrell

Yesterday was Thanksgiving. We spent the day with people we love. My sisters, next to me and center, my niece, far right, all our husbands and some of our kids. The men bonded over football, and we women laughed ourselves silly in the kitchen. Yeah. It was fun. We enjoyed those who were with us and remembered those who weren’t. My sister said, “Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday, even more than Christmas. Just food and family — and being thankful.”... Read more

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