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2013-08-17T11:00:39-05:00

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Love the Sinner, Hate the Sin?

Last updated on: August 17, 2013 at 11:00 am By Susan Cottrell

“I’m Christian, Unless You’re Gay.” If you are someone who believes that you should ‘love the sinner but hate the sin,’ you really must read this. I am thrilled to share this original article by Dan Pearce. Absolutely brilliant. Thank you, Dan. Today I want to write about something that has bothered me for the better part of a decade. I’ve carved out no fewer than a dozen drafts of this post, all strangely unalike, all ultimately failing to accomplish... Read more

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2013-08-15T11:08:05-05:00

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How to Become an Ally via Facebook

Last updated on: August 15, 2013 at 11:08 am By Susan Cottrell

“Where did any of us arrive at the conclusion that we were given permission to finger point and say shame on you! If someone could preach how damaging judgments are that would be fabulous… oh wait! YOU ARE!!! I am in tears… This world, these “christians” are not what God had in mind.” This is from Facebook chats with a longtime friend I hadn’t seen in ages. I wanted to share it with you. It shows the wonderful progression of... Read more

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2013-08-13T10:38:41-05:00

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Jesus in the Real World

Last updated on: August 13, 2013 at 10:38 am By Susan Cottrell

I love Jesus. I really love Jesus. But I am sick about all the stuff people try to attach to Him. I grew up in a home where any religion was ridiculed. It was for the weak, gullible, unintelligent — the last thing anyone in our family wanted to be. Yet, Jesus is so appealing. When my sister told me that Jesus wanted to love me and forgive my sin and be my Savior, that’s all I needed to know.... Read more

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2013-08-12T10:17:27-05:00

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“My LGBTQ Child, I’m Sorry” – Dad

Last updated on: August 12, 2013 at 10:17 am By Susan Cottrell

I am so sorry. And I am so thankful. First, please let me say that it is an honor and a privilege to be your parent. I could not have asked for a better child. I am sorry if I ever did or said anything, or failed to do or say something to let you know how much I love and accept you. I am also so very sorry for the hurt and rejection and condemnation you have felt from... Read more

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2013-08-08T10:00:42-05:00

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Does Jesus Ask You to Love LGBTQ?

Last updated on: August 8, 2013 at 10:00 am By Susan Cottrell

I recently heard from yet another Christian mom whose daughter was rejected by their extended family. They had rallied around in love and sacrifice to accommodate the significant physical challenge she was born with, but when she revealed her same-sex attraction, their unconditional love became, well, conditional. We love you – but we cannot accept this about you. We love you – but you must change. All the sacrifice required to love her in her physical requirements vanished when it came... Read more

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2013-08-06T10:04:41-05:00

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Why We Hurt Those Who Grieve

Last updated on: August 6, 2013 at 10:04 am By Susan Cottrell

My dear friend Linda Robertson posted this morning about the pain she experienced in church following their son Ryan’s death. She poured her heart out about all the things people do and say: from walking away when they see you coming, to asking if you’re better yet two weeks after the death, to saying Ryan wouldn’t have wanted you to be sad. I thought as I read it how hurtful people can be instead of offering comfort when we need... Read more

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2013-08-05T10:00:54-05:00

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Are you near Atlanta? Jacksonville?

Last updated on: August 5, 2013 at 10:00 am By Susan Cottrell

I am thrilled to announce that I will be the featured speaker at two upcoming PFLAG meetings. What an honor! First, I will be speaking at the PFLAG meeting on Thursday evening, August 15th, in Jacksonville, FL. For more information on this event, please click here. Then, I will be speaking at the PFLAG meeting on Sunday afternoon, August 18th, in Atlanta, GA. For more information on this event, please click here. I will speak on resolving the unique tension... Read more

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2013-08-01T10:34:32-05:00

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How to Come Out to Your Sister

Last updated on: August 1, 2013 at 10:34 am By Susan Cottrell

Coming out for anyone can be scary, because you can’t really say, “Just kidding!” if someone goes ballistic. Becca took a courageous step to come out to her sister away at college and was quite relieved at her loving response. Because they had been reading my blogs, they shared their conversation with me and then kindly gave me permission to post it. Of course not all responses will be so supportive — people have to measure their own situation for... Read more

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2013-07-31T10:24:25-05:00

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What Happens When They Come For You?

Last updated on: July 31, 2013 at 10:24 am By Susan Cottrell

What happens when the church or society decides that something in your life is now a “particularly evil sin?” What happens when they come for you? We have been evangelicals for 24 years — last weekend we visited an open and affirming church in Austin. I was struck by the immediate kindness, compassion and intimacy we experienced from everyone. Fellow worshipers, pastors, staff were genuine and real and honest. From their hearts flowed overwhelming peace. How different this was from... Read more

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2013-07-29T09:56:44-05:00

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Parents, Your LGBTQ Kid is Going to be Fine

Last updated on: July 29, 2013 at 9:56 am By Susan Cottrell

Your child is gay. Do not be afraid; it’s going to be alright. In fact, it will be amazing! Your world feels shaky but I encourage you to relax. It’s not just going to be okay, it will be better than okay. Your child is gay, or bi, or trans, but that’s not all. Your child is so much more. Your child is courageous to follow their heart in the face of incredible condemnation. Your child is daring to be... Read more

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