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When Neighbors Asked About her Husband, Curious About the 52-year-old Man’s Disappearance, Kaling Wald Would tell Them he was “In God’s hands now.”

When Neighbors Asked About her Husband, Curious About the 52-year-old Man’s Disappearance, Kaling Wald Would tell Them he was “In God’s hands now.”

Last updated on: March 12, 2015 at 5:35 pm by Frank Schaeffer

When Neighbors Asked About her Husband, Curious About the 52-year-old Man’s Disappearance, Kaling Wald Would tell Them he was “In God’s hands now.” 2015-03-12T17:35:23-06:00 Frank Schaeffer

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“Peter Wald’s family truly believed he would rise from the dead. They believed it because they had prayed for it, every single day, while his corpse lay rotting for six months in an upstairs bedroom of their north-end Hamilton home.”

Fundamentalists say they really believe and the rest of us don’t. But the dirty little secret of fundamentalism is that they say one thing but do another. I mean, why is Franklin Graham still raising money to pay himself close to a million a year, if he really believes–as he says he does–that Jesus is about to come back because gays, women and our black “Muslim” president are all signs of End Times Doom?

But here’a refreshing story about what sincerely held religious belief, when actions follow words, looks like! Read on!

O Canada!!!

From the Toronto Star Thursday, December 4, 2014

Peter Wald’s family truly believed he would rise from the dead.

They believed it because they had prayed for it, every single day, while his corpse lay rotting for six months in an upstairs bedroom of their north-end Hamilton home.

When neighbours asked about her husband, curious about the 52-year-old man’s seeming disappearance, Kaling Wald would tell them he was “in God’s hands now.”

On Monday, Kaling, 50, pleaded guilty to failing to notify police or the coroner that her husband had died due to a sickness that was not being treated by a doctor. It’s the first known case of its kind in Canada.

The criminal charges originally laid in the case — neglect of duty regarding a dead body and offering an indignity to a body — were withdrawn and replaced with that single charge under the Coroner’s Act.

Kaling had no ill intent, all agreed. As assistant Crown attorney Janet Booy put it, the devout Christian woman’s faith had “tainted and warped her better judgment.”

“We were trusting God . . . we thought, ‘OK, Lord, you know better,’ ” Kaling told the Hamilton Spectator after court Monday, with lawyer Peter Boushy by her side.

Peter Wald, 52, died “probably around March 20th” last year, according to the agreed statement of facts read out in court Monday. He’d suffered from diabetes and his left foot had become infected. But he had refused to go to the hospital and believed God would cure him.

He went into a coma, she says, and days later she noticed his stomach bloating and signs of rigor mortis on his forehead.

She then left him — his body covered with two blankets, his head with a toque — in the bed and padlocked the bedroom door.

Kaling sealed in the door and the vents with duct tape to protect her family from the smell of the cadaver. And then for six months, life went on and they prayed for their dead husband and father in the bed upstairs as they awaited his return.

It was Sept. 17, 2013 when the body was finally discovered. The sheriff had arrived to evict the family from the St. Matthews Ave. house after they had defaulted on the mortgage.

Expecting the eviction, the family packed the dead man’s belongings and had his shoes and bags ready to go.

“That was how strong our faith was,” Kaling says…

Everyone living in the home — Kaling, five of her six children ages 11 to 22, and seven other adult friends — were interviewed by police. Each provided a consistent account of his death and their religious belief that he could be resurrected.

In court Monday, the Crown acknowledged that had they gone to trial their chance at a conviction would be slim. There was no criminal intent — as Wald said afterwards, she wasn’t even aware there was a law against this.

“It’s an extremely sad case . . . she truly believed her husband was going to be resurrected from the dead, even after six months,” said assistant Crown attorney Janet Booy.

Booy says she researched the law extensively and could not find another case like this.

Kaling — who has no past criminal record — had her sentence suspended and was put on 18 months of probation and ordered to seek counselling around the “public health concerns” of the incident.

“Your belief that your husband would resurrect is not an issue,” Superiour Court Justice Marjoh Agro said at her plea Monday…

The Walds were known around their north-end Hamilton neighbourhood for their blue Astro van that was covered in messages of love for God and had crosses carved into the headlights so they would project the religious symbol.

They were regularly spreading the gospel and handing out food for homeless people in the winter through their street ministry, she says.

She insists, “we lived a normal life. We were clean people.”

She disputes references in the media that the family was seen chanting in the backyard and says they were simply putting on religious skits for homeless people in the neighbourhood.

The family has since moved to Fort Erie, Ont. With the criminal case behind her, she says she can finally grieve the loss of her husband and move past the attention the strange case received.

“It was unusual, yes. It was certainly not normal. And we won’t do that again . . . laws exist and we know that now.”

But she still believes strongly in resurrection, and says there have been many “documented” cases of it around the world. Her faith was not shaken by the legal consequences, she says.

“In fact, it has cast me more at the mercy of God, because he is the ultimate judge.”

Question: So are these folks any crazier than evangelical leaders like Billy Graham and Franklin Graham and the editors of Christianity Today magazine who routinely teach that Jesus is coming back soon, any day now, while ALSO urging people to take out lifetime subscriptions, or donate to the Billy Graham Center and Museum to build some very permanent buildings that will last hundreds of years?

At least these Canadians actually seemed to put their money (or should I say their corpse) where their mouth was…

As I say in my book WHY I AM AN ATHEIST WHO BELIEVES IN GOD: How to give love, create beauty and find peace, “Religion is a neurological disorder for which faith is the only cure.”

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