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When the Miracle Hasn’t Come Yet

When the Miracle Hasn’t Come Yet

Last updated on: December 17, 2025 at 3:49 pm by Christine Moriarty Field

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When the Miracle Hasn’t Come Yet 2025-12-17T15:49:59-06:00 Christine Moriarty Field

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We talk a lot about the Christmas miracle – the baby in the manger, the breaking of heaven into earth, the fulfillment of ancient promises.

But we don’t talk much about the waiting that preceded it.

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Four hundred years of silence between the last Old Testament prophet and the birth of Christ. Four hundred years of waiting, wondering, hoping, and sometimes doubting that God would keep His promises.

Four hundred years is a long time to wait for a miracle.

Maybe you’re in your own season of waiting this Christmas. Waiting for a prodigal to come home. Waiting for reconciliation with an estranged child. Waiting for the phone to ring, for healing to come, for hope to feel like more than a fragile thread you’re clutching in the dark.

Maybe you’re wondering if your miracle will ever come.

The Biblical Pattern of Waiting

Here’s what I’m learning: waiting is not wasted time in God’s economy. It’s sacred time. Formative time. The place where faith is refined and hope is proven genuine.

Abraham and Sarah waited decades for Isaac. Joseph waited years in prison before his dreams came true. Hannah wept year after year before Samuel was born. Mary waited nine months carrying the Savior of the world in her own body, knowing people would judge her, question her, misunderstand.

God’s people have always been people who wait. And waiting has always required hope.

When Love Looks Like Patience

As mothers, we want to fix things. We want to rush the process, force the breakthrough, make the miracle happen through sheer force of will and determination.

But sometimes love looks like patience. Not passive resignation, but active, faith-filled waiting. The kind of waiting that keeps praying even when the answer doesn’t come. The kind that keeps the door open even when we’re not sure our child will ever walk back through it. The kind that hopes even when hope feels foolish.

This is the hardest kind of love. The kind that offers no immediate reward, no guarantee of success, no proof that our faithfulness matters.

But it matters. It always matters.

Accepting Hard Seasons Without Losing Hope

Here’s a tension I’m learning to hold: I can accept that things are hard right now without accepting that they’ll always be hard. I can acknowledge the pain without surrendering to despair. I can say “this is awful” while also believing “but it’s not the end of the story.”

This Christmas might be one of the hardest you’ve ever experienced. Your family might be fractured. Your child might be lost in addiction, mental illness, or rebellion. Your relationship might be broken in ways that feel beyond repair.

That’s your current reality. But current reality is not ultimate reality.

Jesus came into a broken world – not after we fixed ourselves, not after we proved we deserved rescue, but right into the middle of our mess. He specializes in entering impossible situations and changing everything.

Reconciliation as Divine Work

The Gospel is fundamentally about reconciliation – God reconciling humanity to Himself through Christ. If reconciliation is at the very heart of God’s character and mission, we can trust Him with the reconciliation we long for in our own families.

We can pray for it. We can hope for it. We can keep our hearts open to it. But we can’t manufacture it. It’s God’s work, not ours.

And here’s the comfort: He’s better at it than we would be anyway. He sees things we don’t see. He works in ways we can’t imagine. He has access to hearts we can’t reach.

So we wait. We pray. We hope. We trust.

Never Abandon Hope

This Christmas, whatever you’re facing, don’t abandon hope. Hope is not naïve optimism. It’s not denial. It’s not toxic positivity.

Hope is a decision to trust in the character of God even when circumstances suggest we shouldn’t. Hope believes that the God who kept His promise to send a Savior will keep His promises to us too – maybe not on our timeline, maybe not in the way we expect, but faithfully nonetheless.

Seeking Joy in the Waiting

And while you wait, seek joy. Look for it. Hunt for it. Create space for it.

Joy doesn’t mean pretending you’re not in pain. It means finding moments of light even in the darkness. It means letting yourself laugh, even if you’ve been crying. It means accepting kindness, beauty, and goodness as gifts when they appear.

Joy is an act of defiance against despair. It says, “This is hard, but there is still good in the world. This hurts, but I am still alive. This breaks my heart, but my heart can still feel, still hope, still love.”

The Miracle of Sustained Faith

Maybe your miracle won’t come this Christmas. Maybe you’ll wait another year, another decade. Maybe the reconciliation you long for will take longer than you ever imagined.

But here’s a different kind of miracle: the miracle of sustained faith. The miracle of a heart that keeps hoping even when hope seems foolish. The miracle of love that doesn’t give up, even when giving up would be easier.

That kind of faith is rare. That kind of love is costly. That kind of hope is powerful.

Things are hard now. They won’t always be this hard. People can change. Reconciliation is possible. God is still working.

Hold on to hope. Keep seeking joy. Trust the One who entered our brokenness to heal it.

And wait with faith.

I invite you to download my gift to you this season: Prayers for Bone Weary Moms of Adult Children.

Let’s Discuss: Are you waiting for breakthroughs with your adult children this year? Let’s share our stories. A shared burden is lessened.

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