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The Gift of Being Unfinished: Where God Meets Us

The Gift of Being Unfinished: Where God Meets Us

Last updated on: August 23, 2025 at 8:27 am by Christine Moriarty Field

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The Gift of Being Unfinished: Where God Meets Us 2025-08-23T08:27:58-05:00 Christine Moriarty Field

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We like to imagine life tied up neatly with a bow.

A clear calling.
A perfect plan.
A happily-ever-after.

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But if you’ve lived a little life, you know it rarely works out that way.

I never planned to face an empty nest that felt too quiet.
I never planned to watch a long marriage unravel in my sixties.
I never planned for the heartbreak of adult children making choices that left me feeling cut off and powerless.

For a long time, I thought I couldn’t move forward until I had a plan. A tidy one. Something that explained how God was going to make all this pain “worth it.”

But here’s what I’ve learned: God doesn’t wait for us to have a perfect plan. He meets us in the unfinished places.

The Myth of “Having It All Together”

Christian culture sometimes whispers that by now, we should know our purpose. We should have a clear sense of where God is taking us. We should be settled, stable, and confident in who we are.

But when we look at scripture, we see a different story.

Abraham set out “not knowing where he was going” (Hebrews 11:8).
Ruth walked toward a future she couldn’t see, clinging only to loyalty and faith.
Peter stumbled again and again before becoming the rock Christ promised he would be.

God never required them to have a perfect plan. He simply asked for their trust in the next step.

The Beauty of Being Unfinished

Being unfinished doesn’t disqualify us—it’s exactly where God does His best work.

Think of Moses. He thought his story was finished after he fled Egypt. Yet at eighty years old, God met him in the wilderness and called him to lead His people. Or consider Sarah, who laughed at the idea of new beginnings but found herself holding the promised child in her old age.

When I rebuilt my life after divorce, I didn’t have a roadmap. I had no grand vision of how God would restore me. I just had a shaky faith and the willingness to take one small step.

I joined a new group, even though I felt awkward walking in alone.
I went back to church after years of absense.
I picked up my journal, not to write polished prayers, but to pour out my raw heart to God.

And in those small, unfinished steps, God met me. He didn’t demand perfection—only my presence.

The Courage of the Next Step

Maybe today you feel like you’re standing in the middle of your own wilderness.
Maybe you’re waiting for God to hand you the blueprint before you move.

But what if He’s waiting for you to move before He hands you the blueprint?

God often reveals His one step at a time.

So. take the step, even if it’s small:

Sign up for that class.
Call that friend.
Pray the prayer you’ve been afraid to speak aloud.
Open your Bible to the passage that stirs your heart.

These small acts are not wasted. They are the soil where trust grows, and where God shows Himself faithful.

The Invitation

You don’t need a perfect plan to live out your second act with purpose. You don’t need to tie up your story with a bow.

What you need is faith for the next step.

God is not waiting for your perfection. He is waiting for your presence.

So. take a breath. Take a step. And watch Him meet you in the middle.

Because the gift of being unfinished?
It’s knowing that God is still writing your story.

I invite you to visit my site at www.realmomlife.com for a copy of Second Act Soul Check In.

What is one small step you could take today to move forward in your Second Act?

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