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December 2013

December 03, 2013

“Serious Christians Should Abstain From”… Thing I Totally Did

Pascal-Emmanuel Gobry makes a very good point: Remember when Pope Francis gave that interview? And...

October 2013

October 01, 2013

The Pope and the Pregnancy Center

Last night I put in my two hours at the pro-life pregnancy center where I...

September 2013

September 17, 2013

Christianity in Three Books?

Rod Dreher asks which three books we'd use to introduce Christianity--in at least a few...

August 2013

August 26, 2013

In Defense of Living With Your Parents

me at the Weekly Standard: A few years ago I was getting a ride home...

August 01, 2013

Thanatostalgia

I don't actually know who Russell Brand is, except that he's British and popular for...

July 2013

July 22, 2013

Take the Guns, Leave the Cannoli–Unless the Cannoli Is What You Need!

I'm a compulsive giver of advice. Despite my demonstrable lack of ability to run my...

July 22, 2013

#lifehacks

View the self as a challenge to be met, not a problem to be solved....

June 2013

June 21, 2013

“‘Middlemarch’ and What We Mean When We Say Shame Works”: me at AmCon

sorry for length!: The idea that “shame works”—that stigmatizing behaviors and shaming the people who...

June 15, 2013

Kitchen Adventures: When Foods Collide

I overspent and underthought at the farmers' market this week, so now I'm scrambling to...

June 14, 2013

“Being Gay, Having Faith”: A Series in NYC, Including Me

audio and other materials now online. And you can read a post I wrote riffing...

June 11, 2013

What Am I Reading This Summer?

along with the reading lists of many lesser mortals: Last year’s summer reading list was...

May 2013

May 30, 2013

An Introduction to Me, For Readers of the Atlantic

Hi! Here's some stuff which might interest you if you're coming over because of this...

May 30, 2013

“I’m Gay, But I’m Not Switching to a Church That Supports Gay Marriage”: me at the Atlantic

here you go... When I became Catholic in 1998, as a college sophomore, I didn't...

May 23, 2013

From George Eliot, “Middlemarch”

This was not the first time that Mr. Bulstrode had begun by admonishing Mr. Vincy,...

May 19, 2013

Interview with a Sports Psychologist

Posting it here in case other people also find it fascinating! I'm going to try...

May 01, 2013

And I gave my heart to know wisdom, and to know madness and folly…

In the continuing saga of my criticism of critical thinking.... An astute reader pointed out...

April 2013

April 29, 2013

“Believe” is a transitive verb, and other good points against me

Christian H at The Thinking Grounds makes an attempt to figure out why on earth...

April 09, 2013

Gay Catholic Whatnot: Come see me speak in New York City tomorrow!

On a large panel discussion called "Being Gay, Having Faith: Dialogues on Gay Sexuality and...

April 05, 2013

Addictions and Corrections to the Minutes

See what I did there? Anyway, I have a whole lot of random notes or...

April 02, 2013

The Twelve Steps and/as/vs. Religion

There is no way I will regret writing this post! Anyway, Helen Rittelmeyer has a...

April 02, 2013

What I Learned from Being a Christmas-and-Easter Jew

'Tis the season. I went to my first Easter morning Mass ever this year, and...

February 2013

February 04, 2013

“‘I Think My Liver Hurts’: Re-reading Dostoyevsky Sober”

Me at AmCon.

January 2013

January 08, 2013

“It was shining and so beautiful.”

GIANT SQUID. Via pretty much everyone I know.

January 05, 2013

A conversation with me and Sr. Jeannine Gramick

at Interfaith Voices. (Scroll down--I missed this when it was posted over the summer.) I...

December 2012

December 18, 2012

I’m quoted in this Natl Catholic Register story on NDAlliance

A lot will depend on the personnel, as always, but ND has a chance to...

December 06, 2012

Advent post: Be prepared to say yes

Let's say that you want to be more generous during this Advent. So you walk...

December 05, 2012

Advent post: Stop blowing those charity bubbles!

This post, unlike the first two, is about something I consistently do wrong when trying...

December 04, 2012

Advent post: Alongside amends

A season of preparation and penance can bring us to the thought of apologies and...

December 03, 2012

“If Only I’d Listened to Virtually Anyone”

...Ouch. Via Ratty.

November 2012

November 20, 2012

Same wing… better gremlins

Lists of conservatives or other right-wingers whom you should know: David Brooks, a reader of...