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When God was at Blogher ’13 & I talked to Queen Latifah

When God was at Blogher ’13 & I talked to Queen Latifah

Last updated on: August 9, 2013 at 11:37 pm by Grace Sandra

When God was at Blogher ’13 & I talked to Queen Latifah 2013-08-09T23:37:19-04:00 Grace Sandra

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As an extrovert, fine, I admit it: I’m a conference junkie. I’ve always loved conferences, I stay up the latest and party the hardest though when I say “party” I mean getting drunk on conversations and high on laughter. Of all the conferences I’ve ever been to, maybe 45 or more, I’ve only ever had a drink at two. When your extrovert flag flies as high and bright as mine, trust me, you don’t need a smidge of choice beverage to have a fan-flipping-tastic time. I digress.

For 16 combined student & staff years I served with InterVarsity Christian Fellowship where I attended, served & trained at several of the aforementioned conferences. One of my favorite conferences EVER is the Urbana conference where over 18,000 attendee’s from all over the world come to figure out what, where & how God may be calling them into the world. It’s hard to describe what an amazing experience it is to worship alongside that many other Jesus-followers while hearing top-of-the-line legit, multi-ethnic, multi-cultural men and women preachers who BRING IT. It’s intense serious brain and soul food for the avid Christian truth-teller. As a college student, I witnessed a miracle at Urbana ’96 and IT FREAKING BLEW ME AWAY.

And then Blogher ’13. It’s equally difficult to describe communing with 5,000 other lady-folk -also from all over- who love to write, create, explore and push the boundaries of the written word through the medium of blogging? It too, is amazeballs with a cherry on top.

I’m 97.2% sure Urbana & Blogher ’13 are two of my favorite conferences -EVER. But how can they be, both being so vastly different by nature, so opposite yet so important to me? That lead me to a little conference comparison indulgence…

The Basics:

Urbana – App. 18,000 – 20,000 delegates. Was held at the University of Urbana-Champaign, Illinois. Outgrew it. Now in St. Louis.

Blogher – App. 5,000 delegates. Location varies. Recently in Chicago.

The Mission & Vision:

From the Urbana website: “The Urbana Conference and Urbana.org have the same goal: to compel this generation to give their whole lives for God’s global mission. I hope Urbana.org becomes a place for you to discern how God may be leading you and a resource to help equip you for the journey ahead.” You can read more about this here.

Blogher website: (I couldn’t find anything specific to the conference but here is their overall stated purpose): “Founded in 2005 by Lisa Stone, Elisa Camahort Page and Jory Des Jardins to answer the question, “Where are the women bloggers?”, BlogHer has become an unstoppable movement, inspiring women to find their voices and turn their passions into content, community and commerce, attracting some of the web’s best talent and top social sites, in topics from food and fashion to politics and parenting. Today the BlogHer community reaches an audience of 92 million across premium blogs, Web sites, Pinterest, Facebook and Twitter (May 2013, Nielsen Site Census).” You can read more about this here.

Mutual Ground found in:

Urbana: Delegates find mutual ground in their Christian faith, the mission of carrying out the good news of Jesus to the rest of the world and the desire to be trained and discipled to do so.

Blogher: Delegates find mutual ground in creativity, writing, blogging, authoring books, instagraming, gender issues, life-stage issues, etc.

The Role of Community:

Urbana: You frequently see random young people breaking out in small group prayer sessions. The inherent message of truth and beauty of personhood and value is often spoken. The gift of community in a group of like-minded believers is powerful.

Blogher: You don’t need anyone to say out loud “every person here has value and beauty, ” you just know it. It was instinctive and obvious as each person descended upon the stage.

Bottom line: the conferences are way different. What struck me as I rode home from Blogher was that God was there.

God was present at Blogher ’13.

When you pull all of the other elements out a conference what’s left is the people. I firmly believe all truth is God’s truth. It doesn’t matter who’s on stage loving, encouraging or inspiring delegates. If it’s true it’s God truth. And at Blogher ’13, I saw women of every variety -Buddist, Athiest, liberal, Republican, Lesbian, Single, etc.- LOVING ONE ANOTHER well.

One need not descend upon a Christian missionary conference to see the love of God nor to love others well.

We expect God to show up at Urbana. But do we expect God to show up at Blogher? We should.

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Queen Latifah was also at Blogher.

I was excited. I grew up with the lyrics, “Queen L-A-T-I-F-A-H in demand!” and with the movie, Set it Off.

As you may have noticed, Queen Latifah is a black woman. She’s educated, successful, thick, hilarious, accomplished. She was there to host The Voices of the Year. I was chosen as one of 100 Voices of the Year. To be a part of that celebration was affirming on 1,000 levels. Much in the same way Obama being the biracial President of the free world makes me feel like I can accomplish all of my goals and dreams. Being affirmed -in any way- by Queen Latifah meant something to me.

Perhaps more significant than I can fully grasp. It’s as if God reminded me -through QL’s presence there- being black, being a woman, being thick, being hilarious, being a leader are not just things the world sees and celebrates because of her success but they are also things God celebrates in me.

God is pleased that I am black, a woman, thick, hilarious, a leader, a writer, etc. My unique combination isn’t celebrated in many contexts and it’s certainly not the message I’m getting from anyone other than my inner circle. As a black, Christian, woman, writer, leader I have to seek that out, I have to hunt that message down i.e. “am I okay just the way I am?” “Yes, little buddy, you’re okay just the way you are, looking the way that you do, speaking the way that you do, dressing the way that you do. You be you.”

I tried to breathe and ingest this positivity. I tried to bottle it up for my nightstand for those upcoming dark nights of the soul when the world is shoving me around telling me to look, act, dress, write, lead differently.

I took those deep breaths as I sat in the front row, giddy, excited, full of anticipation…

…there was some chaos, there was some crazy, some VOTY winners were a little disappointed at how it all went down (<–great post by the way)…

…but I let it roll over me because well, Jesus. It didn’t go as planned at all. But what I did was initiate a 15 second conversation with her… (waste not, want not, eh?)

Me: I’m so happy to meet you!

QL: (chaos all around her, probably doesn’t even hear me yet, I persist…)

Me: I know Nayanna Holley! (Nayanna, a WMU InterVarsity alum of which my hubby & I have had a discipleship relationship with during her time at WMU, who is a singer/songwriter & toured as a back-up singer with Queen Latifah).

QL: Oh you do! Man, I miss Nayanna! She’s touring in Europe now right?

Me: Yep, she’s doin’ her thang! Can I get a picture?

QL: (barely has a second to breath before I pass off my phone off & snuggle up).

More chaos. The stage becomes a hazard to our safety.

Eventually most of the VOTY winners got a group shot…

Afterwards we rush the reception where the winning articles stood 8 ft. tall….

…and the drinks were aplenty. I had only one fruity drink for no other reason than I was about to get on the road and drive 3.5 hrs. home so that I could make it to Detroit the next day for the Funeral of my best friend’s Mother.

I missed the full final day of Blogher. I missed hearing Sheryl Sandberg, author of Lean In: Women, Work & the Will to Lead. I heard it was amazing. I missed more networking. I missed more fun, more extroverted happy-drug-high.

But I left and I’m so glad I did. My heart was full, my inspiration floating high.

I left because people are always more important. Love is always more important. Call me crazy but I know 98% of the Blogher delegates would have done the same thing because that is what you do when you love.

That’s what I experienced at Blogher -differently- but similarly to what I’ve experienced at any Urbana conference: love.

And when you recognize and spot the love of God anywhere you are, well then, hard choices become a lot easier to make.

Thanks Blogher & thanks God. That was pretty damn rad.

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