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Hindu-Jewish Child Custody Court Battle, A Case Study: <\/strong><\/span>Wrong expectations and implied understandings are major causes of pain in any marriage, more so in interfaith marriages. Here, the author has used 2022 child custody battle court transcripts to explain potential legal implications<\/strong> in interfaith marriages.<\/p>\n
In any interfaith marriage, the most important and difficult question to address is: what will be the \u2018formal\u2019 religion of their interfaith children? Sometimes, one of the two parties agrees to convert to the other faith and\/or agrees to raise children in the spouse\u2019s faith, just due to their all-inclusive pluralistic mindset. Other times, there is a commitment to raise the children in both faiths, but for various reasons one party agrees to more activities of the spouse\u2019s faith. However, such short-term open-mindedness of religious liberals can work against them later when they decide to go back to their roots. There are clear legal ramifications to your kindness as explained in this article.<\/p>\n
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A discussion on the case with the Hindu party. Photo: InterfaithShaadi<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n
Summary of the legal case<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n****
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****Vijay<\/strong>, an American-born Hindu, married Rachel<\/strong> (names altered), an American-born Jew. They first met in India and, after two years of dating, had a civil marriage in the USA. After six years of marriage and three years of separation, they settled for a divorce. After the divorce, both became more religious. They have two boys with shared custody and a 50\/50 parenting time arrangement. These parties again came to court regarding a request to change the allocated time for the children\u2019s religious education. Vijay not only lost the case, but the judge also declared him to be in bad faith and ordered him to pay Rachel\u2019s attorney\u2019s fees.<\/p>\n
The author obtained legal documents directly from the New Jersey court system (docket # A-002135-22-T01, Rxxxxx Yxxxxx v. Hxxxx Ixxxxx). The author also interviewed the Hindu American party; the interview is available here.<\/a><\/p>\n
Some of the statements from the court transcripts, New Jersey court system docket # A-002135-22-T01. Photo: InterfaithShaadi<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nA good start for this Hindu-Jewish couple<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n
The couple had a civil marriage, incorporating rituals and elements from both Hindu and Jewish faiths. They signed a Ketubah<\/a> (Jewish marriage contract) but did not have a Jewish wedding or a Hindu wedding. Vijay did not convert to Judaism. During her early married life, Rachel was uncomfortable with having a Christmas tree in their home but was comfortable with having a Hindu shrine. They gave both their sons interfaith names, with their eldest son\u2019s first name being Jewish and their younger son\u2019s first name being Hindu, with each son\u2019s middle name representing the opposite religion. The court paper reads, \u201c(Rachel) has always said they are both (children Hindu and Jewish<\/em>).\u201d<\/p>\n
[Author\u2019s views:<\/strong> So far, so good. Apparently, this couple had all intentions of respecting each other\u2019s faiths, and this Jewish-Hindu marriage<\/a> appeared to be on the right track.]\n<\/p>
[Mainly Jewish practices followed in early married life<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n
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Early in their marriage, the couple attended a nearby conservative synagogue, but with no Hindu mandir near them, they were not part of any Hindu organization nor did they routinely visit any Hindu mandir. At one point, Rachel asked if Vijay wanted to take his Hindu mother to a musical Shabbat, which Vijay happily accepted, saying, \u201cYes, sure, I\u2019ll take my mother.<\/em>\u201d Apparently, Rachel was not offered the opportunity to attend any Hindu activities.<\/p>\n
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At some point in their married life, Vijay talked about enrolling the children at a synagogue with himself in something called Torah Talk.<\/p>\n
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Author\u2019s view:<\/strong> For pluralistic non-dogmatic Hindu faith, there is no restriction on taking part in other religious rituals. Enrolling as a \u2018member<\/em>\u2018 in a synagogue does not take away anything from being a Hindu. Vijay may have even considered attending the Torah talk to enhance his knowledge (Gnana Yoga<\/em>), an important aspect for a spiritual Hindu.<\/p>\n*********
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Furthermore, Hinduism is not a dogmatic religion and can be practiced in any number of ways. Formal practices like regular visits to a Hindu temple are not mandatory. Maintaining a personal connection to God through spiritual practices like meditation is perfectly acceptable and common.<\/p>\n
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*********Vijay made a mistake by engaging in more formal, institutional Jewish activities like joining a synagogue, whereas his Hindu activities were informal, from a Judeo-Christian perspective. This behavior could later give the wrong impression to a Judeo-Christian judge that he had embraced Judaism, historically an exclusive religion.]\n<\/p>
Confusion about the intent of a session at the synagogue<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n***********
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***********At one point, Rachel asked Vijay if he wanted to participate in this \u2018interfaith group\u2019 with the synagogue, to which Vijay replied, \u201cI\u2019m personally not too interested, but will go if you want me to.<\/em>\u201d The court transcript later states, \u201c(this program is) not for parties that have two different religions\u201d but for \u201c(this program is) to enhance your family\u2019s Jewish life in the community.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n
[Author\u2019s view:<\/strong> Over the past 19 years of his interest in the interfaith marriage field, the author<\/a> has observed that interfaith married Hindus have no problem attending church<\/a>, mosque<\/a>, or synagogue programs specifically designed for newly married interfaith couples, but they don\u2019t realize that such programs are designed to lure the other faith party closer to their own faith. Attending such a program may be construed in court as the outside party being clearly informed about their intentions and practices (due diligence to minimize their legal liability).]\n<\/p>
Bris<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n
Both their boys had a bris<\/a> circumcision<\/a>, and the bris was performed by a Jewish mohel. A photo of Vijay wearing a Jewish yarmulke (cap) on his head was presented in this court to document that he happily endorsed the bris Jewish ritual for his children. Rachel\u2019s attorney explained to the court, \u201cThe purpose of a bris<\/strong> is to enter the child into the covenant of the Jewish religion,<\/em>\u201d and added, \u201c\u2026these children have every right to be Jewish. They were born Jewish<\/strong>. They were, and Vijay agreed, they had a bris.<\/em>\u201d Another part of the transcript reads, \u201cA bris signifies that both parties have consented<\/strong> to and adopted the Jewish faith for their children.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n
[Author\u2019s views:<\/strong> Circumcision<\/a> is not a practice of Hinduism, but it is not forbidden. Their children had no Hindu nama-samskara (naming ceremony) or other Hindu samskara rituals. An open-minded but ignorant Vijay probably wanted to respect his spouse\u2019s religious rituals, but that should not be construed by the court as an endorsement by the Hindu party for the faith of their children as Jewish (only). The bris ritual historically connotes exclusivity and can be construed by a Judeo-Christian judge, unfamiliar with pluralistic Hindu beliefs, as an endorsement of such.<\/p>\n
The author highly recommends<\/a> to interfaith couples not to BBS<\/strong><\/a> (Baptism, Bris, Shahadah\/Sunat) just for the sake of it unless one clearly understands the true historical religious meaning behind it. It has clear legal implications. As one can read, the Bris itself was cited in the court as meaning \u201cparties have consented to and adopted the Jewish faith for their children.<\/em>\u201d These BBSs are not hollow rituals devoid of meaning. As demonstrated by Vijay\u2019s case, there are clearly negative legal implications for Hindus from BBSing.]\n
Bris, Baptism, Shahadah and Namasamskara are holy rituals for religious people. However, do Hindus have to BBS? Alternatively, do Abrahamic have to accept namasanskara as a ritual for their children? Photo: InterfaithShaadi<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/p>Beginning of uncomfortable moments<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n
All along, Vijay thought that they had an agreement to raise children in two faiths, Judaism and Hinduism. However, Rachel later started referring to their children as Jewish-Indian instead of Jewish-Hindu. At the ages of 6 and 8, Rachel wanted to enroll the children in weekday Bar Mitzvah<\/a> classes, on top of Jewish Sunday school. Rachel enrolled the children in a Hebrew school and Vijay in a Hindi language school.<\/p>\n
[Author\u2019s views:<\/strong> India is a secular country with many religions. Rachel did not address their children as Israeli-Indian<\/strong> (by countries) or Jewish-Hindu<\/strong> (by parents\u2019 religions), but started addressing them as Jewish-Indian<\/strong>. Here, there is a valid concern by Vijay as it raises a yellow flag. Perhaps Rachel did not want her Jewish children to get confused by carrying dual religious identities.<\/p>\n
The author has seen many Hindus (including their parents) go out of their way to please their interfaith spouse and merge with their spouse\u2019s faith household activities. Though it is admirable of the Hindu party to be so open-minded, it becomes an issue when life transitions from initial \u2018excitement for novelty\u2019 to routine mundane life. After a few years, Vijay appears to lose interest in synagogue activities. Furthermore, Bar Mitzvah can be a major time commitment to family life for the next 5-8 years, and Vijay probably now realizes it is a huge commitment for both children and parents, and he has no reason to commit to it.]\n<\/p>
[Their interfaith marriage status was questioned!<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n
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Rachel\u2019s attorney stated in court, \u201cThe fact that he twisted that and said they belonged to \u2026 two different religions, this man (Vijay) did not practice a moment of Hinduism<\/strong> during their marriage. That doesn\u2019t mean that he doesn\u2019t have the right to present Indian culture or any Hindu traditions he wants to, but to try and misrepresent what went on during this marriage<\/strong> is simply false and such misrepresentation is not fair.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n
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Later, when Vijay started introducing Hindu practices, the Jewish party found it \u201coffensive.\u201d The court papers read, \u201cThe fact that (Vijay) now attempts to find other formal religious training\u2014a different religious institution every few years, is offensive<\/strong>. These children have been and are being raised Jewish.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n
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Author\u2019s views:<\/strong> Hinduism is not a dogmatic faith, and following certain set rules and practices is not mandatory to be a Hindu. Furthermore, it is okay for a Hindu to be an atheist (nastic), as long as one does good karma. Someone becoming more religious later in life should not be viewed as offensive to the other party.<\/p>\n*****************
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To accept being part of a spouse\u2019s Jewish faith wholeheartedly should not be construed by the court as that person now being less Hindu. Whatever the reason for Vijay\u2019s enthusiasm for newly found exposure to Judaism (\u201cwhat went on during this marriage<\/em>\u201d) does not mean he committed to Judaism for his life, especially when he has not converted to Judaism nor agreed to children\u2019s Bar Mitzvah before or after the marriage.<\/p>\n
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*****************It was wrong for the court to allow questioning of Vijay\u2019s religiosity (\u201cthis man did not practice a moment of Hinduism during their marriage<\/em>\u201d) given he identified as Hindu, read Hindu epics to their kids, and did a daily meditation (Raja Yoga) practice himself. Furthermore, if Rachel wanted to now apply a stricter standard to Vijay, she herself acted in ways contrary to a strict interpretation of her religion, by having an interfaith civil wedding, naming her children after Hindu Gods<\/strong>, and agreeing to raise the children in both religions.<\/p>\n
Earlier, the author asked a question to ten rabbis, including many conservative Jews, and all of them told him that they would not conduct a wedding where, along with the Jewish wedding, a Hindu wedding is also conducted. A conservative Jew may consider the Hindu vivaha<\/a> (or a part of it) as idol-worshipping<\/a>. Even the country Israel<\/a> would consider Vijay-Rachel\u2019s interfaith marriage illegal if conducted there. With all these pointers, Rachel\u2019s conservative religiosity should have been questioned in that court, not only Vijay\u2019s.<\/p>\n
Here, the author clearly sees Vijay is at fault for not giving Rachel equal opportunity to be part of Hindu rituals during their early dating and married life. He gave her wrong expectations for what their married life would be like and till the end.<\/p>\n
If Vijay shared his Hindu religious practices with Rachel with the same enthusiasm that Rachel did and from the first day, Rachel would have accepted that this is an \u2018interfaith marriage with equality\u2019<\/a>\u00a0and may not have pressed too hard to raise children as Jewish. This could have helped to set right expectations (of true equality between two faiths) for the interfaith married life and may have averted the current split between the couple.<\/p>\n
As said before, wrong expectations<\/strong> and implied understandings are major causes of pain in this couple\u2019s life and now their children will have to pay the price for it.]\n<\/p>
Rachel\u2019s petition<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n*****************
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*****************Rachel said on their 5th<\/sup> date in India, \u201cThe boys would be raised Jewish. I would only have kids with someone who agreed that the kids would be raised Jewish. In addition to being raised Jewish, I am fine with you also giving them Hindu traditions.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n
Rachel claimed he is an atheist, while she clarified that she is a practicing Jew. Vijay countered it by stating, \u201cHe never descried himself as an atheist\u2013She was the one who said she didn\u2019t believe in God.<\/em>\u201d They also agreed to take children to a Hindu temple. They had a civil wedding and a Jewish wedding contract, Ketubah<\/a>. On Friday nights, they regularly lit the Shabbat candles and performed the blessings. They put their children in a Jewish preschool in a synagogue where they were registered members. They celebrated all Jewish holidays, where Vijay actively participated happily.<\/p>\n
During the marriage, Vijay never took the children to a Hindu temple, but they did small things to expose them to \u2018Indian\u2019 culture. They had one Diwali dinner in 8 years.<\/p>\n
[Author\u2019s view:<\/strong> This is a very typical issue in most Hindu-Abrahamic relationships that the author has seen over the past 19 years. The main confusion<\/strong> here is the behavior of secular or pluralistic and non-dogmatic Hindus and its misinterpretation by the Abrahamic party (that the Hindu is buying into their exclusivist dogmas). The agreement \u201craising children as Jewish<\/strong><\/em>\u201d (or in Islam or Christianity) does not take away from them being equally Hindu.<\/p>\n
If Rachel clearly spelled out that children will NOT be Hindus<\/strong>, that is something Vijay would have understood and probably walked away from this relationship. Vijay being excited about all Jewish holidays does not make him a Jew and any less Hindu.<\/p>\n
It is even okay for a Hindu to be an atheist (nastic), as long as one does good karma. Visiting a Hindu temple or celebrating all Hindu holidays is not mandatory in Hindu customs. Many times the author has seen the Hindu party actually get baptized (converted to Christianity) or take Shahadah (converted to Islam) without realizing that they are \u2018not Hindu anymore\u2019 in the eyes of laws. For naive Hindus, BBS means they are \u2018adding\u2019 a God, not \u2018taking away\u2019<\/strong>\u00a0any of their other Hindu Gods.<\/p>\n
The Hindu pluralist concept is beyond comprehension for exclusivist Abrahamic. American Judges should be educated about it.<\/p>\n
The author highly recommends to Abrahamic individuals considering dating a Hindu not to take a wrong message from the pluralist Hindu like Vijay, even if the Hindu agreed to convert to your faith. If Abrahamic individuals wish them to convert to be an exclusivist, clarify to them that they are NOT Hindu anymore (and confirm with their parents to avoid any confusion later).<\/p>\n
Likewise, the author recommends all Dharmic<\/a> individuals considering dating an Abrahamic to decline any BBS to find out if that person is a religious fanatic. If Abrahamic individuals will not accept each other\u2019s BBS, why should Hindus have to submit to such exclusivist ideology? If BBS is more important to Abrahamic individuals than your true love, it should be a matter of concern. BBS is not devoid of meaning; it has clear legal consequences<\/a> when you are in an American court presided by a Judeo-Christian judge.<\/p>\n
Note: The author acknowledges that the BBS are holy rituals and have deep religious significance to Abrahamic individuals. He is making the above statements only to minimize confusion during dating, as happened between Vijay and Rachel here.]\n<\/p>
Rachel\u2019s understanding of the role of Hinduism in the family<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n*******************
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Vijay felt Rachel was implying that the children are 100% Jewish. Rachel wanted the children to be Jewish, but she also said, \u201cShe never said the children were only Jewish or denied their Hinduism. She has always said they are both.<\/em>\u201d Furthermore, Rachel said, \u201cVijay, we always said the boys would be raised Jewish, in addition to Hindu if you desired.<\/em>\u201d Additionally, the court transcript reads, \u201cHe is going to do in terms of teaching the children these Hindu rituals, which she doesn\u2019t object to,<\/em>\u201d and \u201cMy client (Rachel) never said that the children can\u2019t be exposed to the Hindu religion, but these children have every right to be Jewish. They were born Jewish<\/strong>.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n
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*******************[Author\u2019s views:<\/strong> In an exclusivist\u2019s mind, it is important to have children with only \u2018one\u2019 formal religion, but it is okay to allow them to be taught to respect other faiths. One rabbi explained it to the author this way: A Hindu-Jewish child should be considered to belong to Judaism but can be taught to respect Hinduism; like your home is Judaism and children should be taught to respect a guest (Hinduism) in their Jewish home. In short, it is a matter of settling for single ownership, not a joint venture<\/strong>!<\/p>\n
Almost all Abrahamics (including Muslims and Christians) will not endorse the idea of raising children in TWO faiths. However, it is rarely observed in Dharmic (Hinduism, Jainism, Buddhism<\/a>, and Sikhism) interfaith families to have a need to clearly identify which one of the two faiths the children will belong to. Raising children in both faiths is a common practice among most Dharmic interfaith couples.<\/p>\n
[Expectations from Jewish children<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n
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Rachel\u2019s lawyer stated in court, \u201cMy client is Jewish. According to Jewish law (Mother being Jewish), that makes these children Jewish. There\u2019s no question.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n
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The court paper further reads, \u201cwhen you turn eight years old, you have to start attending Hebrew school, not Sunday school, not play; real Hebrew school, preparation toward your Bar Mitzvah<\/em>\u201d and \u201cthis synagogue has mandatory Hebrew school for a child who is eight years old starting his preparation for his Bar Mitzvah.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n
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Furthermore, Rachel\u2019s attorney raised a concern, \u201cthe agreement said they could spend the Jewish holidays in their synagogue. But now he (Vijay) wants them to go somewhere else<\/em>\u201d and \u201cThe fact that (the Hindu) now attempts to find other formal religious training\u2014a different religious institution every few years, is offensive.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n
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In the end, the Judged ruled, \u201cIt is clearly in the children\u2019s best interest to be able to attend the Hebrew school. It is, as said, mandatory for them to make their Bat Mitzvah<\/strong>, and I\u2019m not going to penalize the children<\/em>\u201d and \u201cand I\u2019ve determined that it is in their best interests to be able to attend mandatory religious classes as scheduled by the synagogue<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n
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Author\u2019s view:<\/strong> This statement in court is objectionable to the author, \u201cAccording to Jewish law, that makes these children Jewish. There\u2019s no question.<\/em>\u201d Why should there be no question?<\/strong> The Judeo-Christian judge, Abrahamic lawyers, and Rachel are expected to know this, but why is the court putting the burden of such knowledge on a naive Hindu? Is this what is expected from secular courts?<\/p>\n*********************
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*********************If Bar Mitzvah was a non-debatable and a must requirement for Rachel\u2019s offspring, the question remains if she clearly explained in full detail to Vijay before going on the first date? If the truth was not disclosed upfront, Vijay should not be put in a position to accept consequences.<\/p>\n
The court should have known that Bar Mitzvah was not a Jewish practice but was introduced later on<\/a>. Even without the Bar Mitzvah, their interfaith children will be real Jews, as they are real Hindus without nama-samskara.<\/p>\n
It is important to emphasize here that this is not a Jewish-Jewish marriage but an \u2018interfaith\u2019 marriage, and for this reason, it is wrong for the court to decide that Bar Mitzvah is in the best interest of the Hindu-Jewish children.]\n<\/p>
The practical meaning of \u201cChildren will be Jewish <\/em>\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n***********************
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Rachel and her lawyers categorically denied they claimed the children would be 100% Jewish but never clarified if they would be 1%, 99% or in between Hindus.<\/p>\n
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***********************If both parties were Abrahamic, \u2018Jewish<\/em>\u2018 would mean they cannot be Christian or Muslim (meaning no Baptism, Shahadah\/sunat, etc.). However, the court needs to factor in the Hindu pluralistic mindset in this case.<\/p>\n
[The court accepted that the children would be Jewish but was vague about whether they were equally Hindu too.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n
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Author\u2019s views: <\/strong>Vijay (and his Hindu children), as a Hindu, can pray to Lord Rama one day, to Goddess Durga on the second day, to Jesus on the third, and all of them on the fourth day. On the fifth day, he can claim to be an atheist (nastic), and still, he is not any less Hindu than on the first day.<\/p>\n***********************
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Let\u2019s consider how much percent Jewish the children should be. To start with, the father is Hindu, thus it is unjust for any secular court to imply their children will be anything but 50-50 Hindu-Jewish. Their children have names from both faiths, thus reinforcing the 50-50 intention by the couple.<\/p>\n
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The children underwent (Bris) circumcision, which cannot be undone; therefore, from a Judeo-Christian viewpoint, they are considered 100% Jewish. Currently, the children are being given education from both faiths, and thus they are mixed, some percentage here and there, depending on which parent pushes hardest.<\/p>\n
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We do not know if the parents have decided, but in the case of an unfortunate incidence, if the child will have a final Jewish burial or Hindu cremation ritual<\/strong> (here you cannot have both, it has to be one or the other, 0% and 100%).<\/p>\n
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***********************All these discussions will go on only until a child reaches the age of 18; later, children will be free to decide for their own faith or no faith. The more parents fight now to claim their rights to give them their own religion, the more chances children will lose interest in any faith.]\n<\/p>
Commitment is not only for Judaism but also for the synagogue<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n*************************
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*************************In response to Vijay suggesting that Rachel enroll their children in a different nearby Hebrew school that would not have interfered with his parenting time, Rachel\u2019s lawyer said, \u201cThat\u2019s like saying if you\u2019re a Baptist, you really should be in a Presbyterian (church), \u2026 her\u2019s is a conservative Jewish synagogue, which he recommends, is reform.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n
[Author\u2019s views:<\/strong> Interfaith marriages are not for fundamentalists. If Bar Mitzvah<\/a>, and that also only from a conservative synagogue, was very important to Rachel, a question remains: why did she not marry a conservative Jewish man? Her thought process for picking a Hindu man for life should have been questioned in this court.<\/p>\n
If this Judge, lawyers, and Rachel do not know the difference between Shaivite and Vaishnavi Hindus<\/strong>, what is the point of talking about Baptist, Presbyterian, conservative-Jew, and reform-Jew in a case involving a Hindu? And why didn\u2019t the judge even consider Vijay\u2019s meditation practice, which is a known practice among all types of Hindus?<\/p>\n
It is normal for a conservative to like a liberal as a life mate. Rachel must be thrilled in her early married life to find Vijay (super liberal) who was excited to be a part of all Jewish activities. However, by their nature, the liberals cannot be confined within certain conservative religious dogmas.<\/p>\n
The court failed to recognize that wrong expectation<\/strong> was the fundamental issue between otherwise this beautiful couple.]\n<\/p>
[Teaching from Synagogue verses from a Guru<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n
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These statements were made in court about Vijay\u2019s choice to take his children for Hindu religious education, \u201cBut now he wants them to go somewhere<\/em>\u201d and \u201cHe\u2013apparently now he takes them\u2013on Saturdays to somebody in New York to teach something about Hinduism.<\/em>\u201d About not having a \u2018formal\u2019 program in Hinduism in America, this was discussed in the court, \u201cThe fact that (the Hindu) now attempts to find other formal religious training\u2014a different religious institution every few years, is offensive<\/strong>. These children have been and are being raised Jewish.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n
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Author\u2019s views:<\/strong> Hindus are small in number and thus don\u2019t have Hindu educational centers or a Guru in every town in America. The court clearly understood the type of formal education given at synagogues but has created doubts against Vijay\u2019s intentions simply because of their ignorance about Balvihar and the Hindu system of learning from a guru.<\/p>\n***************************
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***************************Why is introducing non-formal Hindu religious education programs later in life considered offensive? Even Rachel\u2019s religiosity changed during their relationship period, so why did Vijay lose his rights to go back to his roots?]\n<\/p>
[Meditation is not a religious ritual<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n
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The court paper reads, \u201cMeditation is important for relaxation, et cetera. It\u2019s not necessarily\u2013it\u2019s not a religious ritual<\/em>\u201d and \u201cIt\u2019s healthy to do meditation. As said, it\u2019s (meditation) not a religious ritual<\/strong>.\u201d<\/p>\n
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Author\u2019s views:<\/strong> One of the most fundamental teachings in the Holy Gita<\/strong> is Yoga (not the physical exercise of downward dog, but union with the Divine). Hindus have many options available to connect (yoga) with God, and meditation (Raja Yoga) is one of the four options (the others being Bhakti, Karma, and Gnana Yoga). It is believed that meditation alone could lead to nirvana.<\/p>\n*****************************
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*****************************It is wrong for this court to allow such hurtful arguments to Hindu sentiments, claiming that meditation is not a religious ritual but only for relaxation or health reasons. This shows there is a clear need to educate American judges about Hinduism before taking a case involving a Hindu.]\n
Meditation (Raja Yoga) is an important Hindu religious ritual. Photo: InterfaithShaadi<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/p>
[Time commitments for religious education <\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n
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The court transcript reads, \u201cWhen you turn eight years old, you have to start attending Hebrew school, not Sunday school, not play; real Hebrew school, preparation toward your Bar Mitzvah.<\/em>\u201d The judge concluded, \u201cI\u2019ve determined that it is in their best interests to be able to attend mandatory religious classes as scheduled by the synagogue<\/em>\u201d and \u201cThe issue was the religion. The issue was not the fact that he may lose the two hours. It clearly was made in bad faith<\/strong>.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n
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Author\u2019s views:<\/strong> Normal American youths are busy with their school studies, baseball, piano, swimming competitions, and more. If they are Jewish, they may have to spare time to go through about 5-8 years of preparation for their Bar Mitzvah (learning Hebrew, chanting of Torah and Haftarah tropes, study of Torah, composition of a D\u2019var Torah, etc.). On top of that, it is just fair if Vijay may wish to have his children spend an equal amount of time for Hindu religious education as well.<\/p>\n*******************************
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The author sees the issue was with the timing and time commitment for Bar Mitzvah<\/strong> and not with the religion or the ritual. If Bar Mitzvah was a matter of a total 3 hour ceremony, like the Bris, the author doesn\u2019t think Vijay will go to a court to stop it. Vijay had no problem with Hebrew schooling for Bar Mitzvah via a private tutor or another synagogue at a different time.<\/p>\n
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When the judge in Vijay-Rachel\u2019s case made this judgment, \u201cIt is clearly in the children\u2019s best interest to be able to attend Hebrew school,<\/em>\u201d the author wishes the judge had also talked directly to these kids to see if they wish to have some spare time left in their lives to enjoy some non-religious relaxation time with their friends, before deciding what is in the best interest of children.<\/p>\n
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*******************************Parents should keep in mind that an overload of religious education can sometimes have a negative impact on children\u2019s personal faith(s).]\n<\/p>
Two-hours scheduling discussion in this case<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n*******************************
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*******************************Rachel wanted to use two hours of Vijay\u2019s allocated weekday time (which he was using for meditation with his children) for the children\u2019s Bar Mitzvah classes and instead proposed giving partial replacement time during summer break, which was not acceptable or convenient for Vijay, so he declined. The author has skipped all those lengthy discussions here.<\/p>\n
What will they do when the synagogue education conflicts with Hinduism\u2019s teachings?<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n
[Author\u2019s views:<\/strong> During Bar Mitzvah training, the children will learn to commit to following the 613 mitzvot (commandments) based on the Torah<\/a> for their lives. What if any of these teachings are in conflict with the teachings of Hinduism<\/a>? Will Vijay have the liberty to provide clarification to his own Hindu children? Will he get in legal trouble again for interfering with someone\u2019s internal religious matter and be accused of acting \u201cin bad faith\u201d again?<\/p>\n
Three of the 613 mitzvot are listed here<\/strong> (read the full list here<\/a>):<\/p>\n
Mitzvah #2<\/strong>: Not to even think that there are other gods besides Him [Do Lord Krishna, Ganesh, and Goddess Lakshmi count as other gods?]\n<\/p>
Mitzvah #51<\/strong>: Not to bow down before a smooth stone [most Hindu Gods, including Shiva Linga, are made to smooth stone.]\n<\/p>
Mitzvah #162<\/strong>: Not to marry non-Jews [Why should these interfaith children be restricted to pick their life mate only from Jews, especially when their mother did not follow this mitzvah?]\n<\/p>
The court\u2019s final judgments<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n***********************************
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***********************************The judge ruled against Vijay, prioritizing Rachel\u2019s religious activity over his, and declared him to be in bad faith. Remarks by the judge included:<\/p>\n
\n[\u201c\u2026 the parties came together and practiced Judaism together, and he practiced what he wanted to in the Hindu faith also.<\/em>\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
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Authors\u2019 views:<\/strong> Vijay did not marry Rachel to \u201ccome together and practice Judaism,<\/em>\u201d but he simply respected her faith.<\/p>\n***********************************
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Rachel gave it in writing that, \u201cVijay, we always said the boys would be raised Jewish, in addition to Hindu<\/strong> if you desired,<\/em>\u201d but the judge ignored such written understanding.<\/p>\n
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***********************************Pluralist Vijay clearly missed out on the exclusive nature of his marriage where Judaism was to be shared while Hinduism was limited to himself only<\/strong>.]\n<\/p>
\n[\u201cIt is clearly in the children\u2019s best interest to be able to attend the Hebrew school. It is, as said, mandatory for them to make their Bat Mitzvah<\/strong>, and I\u2019m not going to penalize the children,\u201d and \u201cand I\u2019ve determined that it is in their best interests to be able to attend mandatory religious classes as scheduled by the synagogue.<\/em>\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
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Author\u2019s views:<\/strong> All discussions of Jewish norms should not be factored in here when she herself did not follow all Jewish norms to get married. The court has not considered the fact in the final judgment that this is not a Jew-Jew but an \u2018interfaith\u2019 marriage<\/strong>. In such a situation, it is wrong to say it is \u201cmandatory<\/em>\u201d for children to go through Bar Mitzvah, especially when the equal other partner has concerns. Will this court come to the same conclusion (about Bar Mitzvah being mandatory) if the other party was Muslim or Christian?<\/p>\n***********************************
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The author agrees here that Vijay has not given an equal opportunity to expose his children to Hindu culture, and thus the children will be more comfortable with their Jewish friends.<\/p>\n
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***********************************Those liberal Hindus who go out of their way to be a part of a spouse\u2019s faith should know that your pluralistic kindness could work against you in court.]\n<\/p>
\n\u201cI believe that the (Vijay\u2019s) application in this case was made in bad faith<\/strong><\/em>\u201d and \u201cThe issue was the religion. The issue was not the fact that he may lose the two hours. It clearly was made in bad faith<\/em>.\u201d<\/li>\n\u201cthe only resolution he wanted is that the children couldn\u2019t go to the Hebrew school to make their Bar Mitzvah. I think that was made in bad faith. So, I am going to order counsel fees and costs for the necessity of filing the response<\/strong><\/em>.\u201d<\/li>\n\n\n\n<\/li><\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n***********************************
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***********************************[Author\u2019s views:<\/strong> As said before, the author sees the issue was with the timing and time commitment for Hebrew school for Bar Mitzvah<\/strong> and not with the religion or the ritual. If Bar Mitzvah was a matter of a total 3-hour ceremony, like the Bris, the author doesn\u2019t think Vijay will go to court to stop it.<\/p>\n
Rachel never clarified explicitly during early dating time with Vijay that Bar Mitzvah is a non-negotiated \u2018a must\u2019 requirement for her. Rachel herself is not a real conservative Jew because 1)<\/strong> she married a \u2018Hindu\u2019 (not a Person of the Book; it is against Mitzvah #162<\/a>, 2)<\/strong> at one point she said, \u201cShe didn\u2019t believe in God,<\/strong>\u201d <\/em>3)<\/strong> willingly gave both her children Hindu names that are names for Hindu Gods (contrary to the very first of the Ten Commandments), and 4)<\/strong> she believes children can be raised in something other than Judaism and they can be BOTH, Hindu and Jewish. Check with a rabbi to confirm if her views are norms for a conservative Jew.<\/p>\n
Would the judge conclude \u201cin bad faith<\/em>\u201d if the other party was a Muslim wishing to take children to some madrasa somewhere or a Baptist-Christian wishing to Baptize these Jewish-Baptist children, especially when they agreed to raise children in both faiths?<\/p>\n
The author believes it was wrong to conclude Vijay acted in bad faith.]\n<\/p>
Lessons learned for interfaith couples<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n\n\nBefore saying \u201cI do,<\/em>\u201d always consider the possibility of facing a legal battle for child custody. How can you prepare for such a situation in advance?<\/li>\nConversion for marriage<\/a> is a wrong practice. Interfaith couples should have a prenuptial agreement in writing, stating that there will be no BBS (Baptism, Bris, or Shahadah) unless they genuinely believe in the new faith and are willing to convert even if the relationship ends. No BBS a good insurance against a love-proselytizer<\/strong>.<\/li>\nMarriages are made in heaven, but they can also end in hell. Promise less but produce more. Avoid creating unrealistic expectations for your partner.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n*************************************
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*************************************Disclosure:<\/strong><\/span> The author, a scientist by training and not a legal expert, aims to provide educational insights into the legal implications of interfaith relationships. The quotes provided may originate from the plaintiff or defendant\u2019s attorney, or presiding judge during court proceedings. They are presented here without clarification or full context. They are a part of the court discussions leading to the final judgment.<\/p>\n
A must-read materials for dating Hindu-Jewish couples:<\/span>\u00a0<\/strong>Joseph-Rebecca court battle over baptizing a Jewish daughter<\/a>, Hindu-Jewish Marriage<\/a>, Bar Mitzvah for Hindus<\/a>, Torah<\/a>, Conversion for marriage<\/a>, 15 FAQs<\/a>,\u00a0 Marriage Laws<\/a>, Circumcision<\/a>, book: Interfaith Marriage<\/a>, book: Hindu-Muslim Marriage<\/a>.<\/p>\n
If readers are aware of other similar legal cases, please cite them below <\/strong>as a comment (go all the way bottom), and the author will consider writing about them.<\/span><\/p>\n
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