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October 2017

October 30, 2017

4 Reasons Parents Need to Be The Boss

It wasn’t really a thing before the title song of the hit comedy series Malcolm...

October 19, 2017

How to Help Your Son Fight These Three Dangerous Lies

As both a social researcher who has interviewed and surveyed thousands of boys and a...

October 11, 2017

How to Fix Teenage Attitude Problems …. Without Losing It

Not that this ever happens to you. But every now and then our kids (girls and...

September 2017

September 25, 2017

6 Tips From Coaches: How to Be a Good Sports Parent

The other day at a huge high school sports event, I watched a large, loud...

September 08, 2017

Are Legos Just for Boys? It’s Complicated

One of the things that years of research with men and women, boys and girls,...

June 2017

June 21, 2017

Two Practical Ways to Encourage Your Sons

Many boys these days go through challenging times that are not of their making, and...

April 2017

April 05, 2017

How to respond to teenager attitude without losing your mind

Not that this ever happens. But every now and then our kids (girls and boys)...

March 2017

March 22, 2017

Dads, Say This to Your Daughters

Dads, we know you love your daughter. And you know you love your daughter. But...

March 15, 2017

Every Work-From-Home Parent’s Hilarious Nightmare

So there you are, in your best suit, giving a Skype video presentation in your...

March 01, 2017

Avoid Divorce With This Simple Recipe for a Happy Marriage

I love that social science now regularly disproves this long-held belief of our culture: that...

September 2016

September 01, 2016

Let’s Stop Dissing Dads (And the Daddy Commercial That Made Me Cry)

OK, it’s my turn to ask a question: why do we think it is okay...

July 2016

July 29, 2016

Why I’m Grateful for My Daughter’s First Car Accident

This might sound odd, but I’m really, really grateful for my 16-year-old daughter’s car accident...

June 2016

June 29, 2016

2 Things to Do if You Want Your Teen to Talk to You

“How was school?” (Shrug.) “Fine.” “What did you do?” “Nothin’.” If this sounds familiar, join...

May 2016

May 12, 2016

3 Things to Do When Your Kid Rolls Her Eyes at You

Not that this ever happens. But every now and then our kids (girls and boys)...

May 03, 2016

Two great ways to boost your son’s self-esteem

Many boys these days go through challenging times that are not of their making, and...

March 2016

March 15, 2016

3 Lies You Can’t Let Your Son Believe About Himself

As both a social researcher who has interviewed and surveyed thousands of boys and a...

January 2016

January 12, 2016

Dads: Four Phrases a Daughter Needs to Hear From You

Dads, we know you love your daughter. And you know you love your daughter. But...

January 07, 2016

Moms: 4 things your son secretly wishes you knew about his temptations

Moms: 4 things your son secretly wishes you knew about his temptations Even after years...

November 2015

November 09, 2015

My ADD son is checking out in school

Dear Shaunti, My 6th-grade son is discouraged in school and I’m worried he’s starting...

September 2015

September 14, 2015

My Kids Are Freaked Out About the Shemitah

Dear Shaunti, Recently my husband and I read Jonathan Cahn’s book The Harbinger, so we’re...

September 08, 2015

Play It Subtle When Talking With Teens

Dear Shaunti, I was driving my 16-year-old daughter home from volleyball practice recently when she...

June 2015

June 15, 2015

How do I deflate my teenage son’s oversized ego and curb the cockiness?

Dear Shaunti, I’m a single mom to two teenage boys, and because their dad was...

April 2015

April 27, 2015

When State Says Pot is OK, How Do I Convince My Child It Isn’t?

Dear Shaunti, We live in Colorado, where pot is now visible on every corner. For...

April 13, 2015

How Can I Get My Teen to STOP Relying on Social Media So Much?

Dear Shaunti, My kids’ obsession with Instagram and other social media has gotten to ridiculous...

March 2015

March 09, 2015

Gain More Pull With Your Kids By Pushing Less

Dear Shaunti, My 13-year-old daughter rocks at math and science. She is at the top...

January 2015

January 26, 2015

Drama-Free Guarantee: Talking to Teenage Boys

Dear Shaunti, My oldest son is having a tough first year of high school –...

January 05, 2015

Conquer the Calendar Without Crushing Your Kids

Dear Shaunti, My 8th grade son is getting involved in extra-curricular activities for the first...

August 2014

August 07, 2014

And the Oscar Goes To…My Teen Drama Queen

Dear Shaunti, I love my teenage daughter but how do I get her to stop...

June 2014

June 02, 2014

Prince Charming Wasn’t a Quarterback: Giving Your Son Confidence (Even though He’s Not Mr. Popular)

Dear Shaunti, My 17 year-old son has a great sense of humor, and is fun...

May 2014

May 12, 2014

Your Teen Is Watching Even If She Doesn’t Seem to Be Listening

Dear Shaunti, My daughter is 15 years old and I am worried that she is...