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April 2014

April 03, 2014

Beyond the Candlelight: Finding Romance In Unusual Places

Dear Shaunti, I wish my husband were more romantic. I love spending time with him—we...

March 2014

March 31, 2014

Gain Respect By Being Direct

Dear Shaunti, How do I get my wife to not play games, and just share...

March 27, 2014

The Process of Processing: Give Your Man Some Space

Dear Shaunti, I feel like my husband is a total avoider. When we get into...

March 24, 2014

Lust at First Glance? The Difference in Seeing vs. Gawking

Dear Shaunti, I read in your book that even happily married men struggle with looking...

March 20, 2014

Being the Bigger Person in “The Little Things”: Showing Your Wife that You Care

Dear Shaunti, I work long hours at a power plant, and my wife often sends...

March 17, 2014

Let’s Get Physical: Health Body, Healthy Marriage

Dear Shaunti, I am definitely not the size I was when I married my husband....

March 13, 2014

Rip Up Your Laundry List: No Husband Wants a Scorekeeper

Dear Shaunti, I love my wife, but I really hate her “things you do wrong”...

March 10, 2014

Independence Can Be Isolating: Find Ways to Show Your Man You Need Him

Dear Shaunti, I'm 31 and single, with a successful career, lots of friends, and an...

March 06, 2014

Good Dates Begin With Good Compliments

Dear Shaunti, I’m in deep soup with my wife, and I don’t know why. We...

February 2014

February 27, 2014

Worn Out from Worry: How Can I Help My Wife Stop Obsessing?

Dear Shaunti, I love my wife, but it drives me crazy when she obsesses over...

February 24, 2014

Throw Him a Bone When He Picks up the Broom

Dear Shaunti, My husband and I have been getting irritated with each other lately. He...

February 20, 2014

Looking for Approval? Start By Praising Your Provider Husband

Dear Shaunti, I’m a working mom with two kids. We have a comfortable lifestyle, no...

February 17, 2014

Love in the Blender: Appreciating Your Husband’s Gift-Giving Style

  Dear Shaunti, I was really looking forward to our second Valentine's Day together, until...

February 13, 2014

Priming Your Wife for Primetime

Dear Shaunti, It seems like I am always the one to initiate sex. Even when...

January 2014

January 28, 2014

Want to Fix Your Wife’s Problem? Step 1: Listen. Step 2: Repeat.

Dear Shaunti, My girlfriend tells me all the time that “I don’t want you to...

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