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March 2017

March 22, 2017

Dads, Say This to Your Daughters

Dads, we know you love your daughter. And you know you love your daughter. But...

March 21, 2017

3 Steps to Seeing How Mean You Really Are

Have you seen the video of people, wearing white or black shirts, passing a basketball...

March 15, 2017

Every Work-From-Home Parent’s Hilarious Nightmare

So there you are, in your best suit, giving a Skype video presentation in your...

March 14, 2017

6 Reasons Sarcasm Kills Relationships

There are two types of people in the world: those with the quick zinger and...

March 01, 2017

Avoid Divorce With This Simple Recipe for a Happy Marriage

I love that social science now regularly disproves this long-held belief of our culture: that...

January 2017

January 16, 2017

Why You Need to Start the 30-Day Kindness Challenge TODAY!

Today (January 16, 2017) marks a big day: the launch of the 30-Day Kindness Challenge...

January 10, 2017

Want More Joy in Your Life and Relationships? Follow These Three Simple Steps

Does your mother-in-law make you want to pull your hair out by criticizing every move...

December 2016

December 20, 2016

Join Me Tonight for a Major Announcement on Facebook Live

MAJOR ANNOUNCEMENT TONIGHT AT 8 pm ET VIA FACEBOOK LIVE! You know those days when...

December 15, 2016

4 Ways to Keep your Temper When You Want to Blow

While doing some research for my next book, I realized something important: when we are...

December 08, 2016

Proof that Church Attendance Matters

I don’t have a lot of pet peeves. But one of the few is when...

November 2016

November 24, 2016

3 Ways to Rebuild Family Bridges Over the Holidays

You know those college-football bumper magnets that say “A house divided?” Perhaps she supports University...

November 02, 2016

Processing After a Fight? It’s Different for Men – Here’s Why

Dear Shaunti, I feel like my husband is a total avoider. When we get into...

October 2016

October 24, 2016

Why the “Married Sex” Video Makes Me Furious

Recently, someone asked what I think about the “Married Sex During the Week” video posted...

October 19, 2016

The Canadian Video to America That Made Me Cry – And What We Can Learn From It

Have you heard the joke: How does someone from Canada cheat on a test? They...

October 18, 2016

Wives, See His Anger as a Legitimate Signal of Pain – and Address it with Respect

Every relationship – even the happiest ones! -- will have moments of conflict. And how...

October 13, 2016

Men, Do This to Enjoy More Sex in Your Marriage

Men: If you want more sex, give her better anticipation time Although some couples are...

October 11, 2016

Husbands, Get in the Habit of Telling Your Wife This

Every little girl dreams of finding her prince and knowing she is his princess. Husbands,...

October 04, 2016

Two reasons why he walks away from an emotional conversation

A reader recently asked: “Why does my boyfriend always seem to RUN from a conflict? ...

October 03, 2016

Four things I would tell the woman who called me a “dumb broad”

Dear sister, You say in your angry Amazon review of For Women Only and...

September 2016

September 29, 2016

The two most dangerous assumptions women make about relationships

After I finished speaking at a recent women’s event, a beautiful woman who I will...

September 27, 2016

Don’t believe the myth — good news about marriage is still out there!

Hi everyone – I thought you’d want to see this piece from the Washington Post, which...

September 23, 2016

Four reasons your man says “I don’t need help” – even when he does

Ladies, whether it is refusing to admit he needs to go to the doctor, or...

September 01, 2016

Let’s Stop Dissing Dads (And the Daddy Commercial That Made Me Cry)

OK, it’s my turn to ask a question: why do we think it is okay...

August 2016

August 25, 2016

Men, Avoid This Sneaky Trap That Will Kill Your Marriage

Last week, speaking primarily to women, we revealed the sneaky trap that will quietly but...

August 18, 2016

The One Sneaky Trap That Will Kill Your Marriage

“If I had heard this a few years ago, I wouldn’t be divorced today.” I...

August 04, 2016

What Men Need Most From the Woman They Love

While we women enjoy hearing our man tell us “I love you” often to reassure...

July 2016

July 29, 2016

Why I’m Grateful for My Daughter’s First Car Accident

This might sound odd, but I’m really, really grateful for my 16-year-old daughter’s car accident...

July 13, 2016

Will My Man Love Me Even When I Act Unlovable?

Several people have passed along this hilarious GIF – but have also wondered why it...

July 07, 2016

3 Reasons Your Wife Plays Games Instead of Telling You What She Wants

Not long ago, someone we know got engaged via a multi-stage, elaborate proposal that had...

June 2016

June 29, 2016

2 Things to Do if You Want Your Teen to Talk to You

“How was school?” (Shrug.) “Fine.” “What did you do?” “Nothin’.” If this sounds familiar, join...